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#1
01-01-04, 06:35 PM
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update on told my girlfreind...
Posted awhile back that I told my girlfreind about my upcomming cycle and she took it OK. well we went out for a new years party and she goes off and tells half the people there that I am on steriods including my sister. She totally crossed the line with this so I broke up with her stupid ass. It is difficult because we were together for 3 years and the only reason I told her was that I trusted her and that she would support my decision and keep it a fucking secret. This was the worst fucking new years eve party ever. Sorry to sound like I am bitching but had to vent, Ecto
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#3
01-01-04, 06:46 PM
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there has to be trust in the relationship. sorry to hear that, but you did the right thing.
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01-01-04, 06:50 PM
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not to mention it was my fucking birthday too.
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01-01-04, 06:51 PM
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Yeah dude tht sucks! It took me awhile to get my wifes approval but glad I took the chance and was honest with her but I hope you can find someone that trust you and you dont have to hide anything!
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01-01-04, 07:30 PM
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Hey Ecto, I feel for you bro. Want to go downtown and party it up and forget all about her? I can intro you to some hot shemales bro. lmaooooo JK Well maybe I could. LMAO I hope this year brings you much happiness.
PEACE! KIR
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#8
01-01-04, 08:34 PM
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Hey ecto, you did the right thing. If you cant trust her with this, what else is next?
It's a big sea and Lord knows there are plenty of fish. And Happy Birthday Bro
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#9
01-01-04, 08:49 PM
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Sorry Bro
Man thats tough to choke-New Years-Birthday-and Sis knows. You did the right thing. My girl works out with me and cycles some and we understand the family part of what we do. It's like the police and their code. We have that within the lifting family, we don't talk unless we know each other. Take a breath as you know time heals all. Preacher
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01-01-04, 09:01 PM
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thank you all for your support. I will definetly not take her back ever. If she does not trust my judgment on this it will only get worse with other big decisions. Any way thanks again. ecto
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01-01-04, 09:02 PM
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Very few people know that I'm on. Remember this, your friend today could be your enemy tomorrow!
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01-01-04, 09:45 PM
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shit man that sucks balls
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01-01-04, 09:56 PM
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This is why I believe in not telling girlfriends.....wives, maybe...but sure as hell not girlfriends. Look at it this way...at least you found out now that she isn't trustworthy, rather than say a year or two down the road when you might have been married and getting rid of her would have been a hellish ordeal.
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01-01-04, 10:50 PM
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my wife knows, but she only found out after we got married. she doesn't mind at all and doesn't tell anyone...guess i'm lucky
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01-02-04, 10:57 AM
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Sorry to hear about the break up Ecto. She'll regret it and come back to you saying how sorry she is.....don't fall for it. There are los of good ones out there bro. Hang in there. BSH
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01-02-04, 12:23 PM
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3 years and she goes off and does that? Bullshit. I told my fiance and she wasn't happy about it for about 5 minutes. Then I got all kinda lovin because I had been honest with her. Bro, there are good ones out there. You'll find one.
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01-02-04, 02:51 PM
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I guess that's why you shouldn't tell girlfriends..
Maybe it's just me but breaking up with someone you have been with for 3 years over something like this seems harsh. It's not like she called the cops and had you arrested or something; she just blabbed a secret is all. If you are going to break up with everyone who makes a mistake and blabs something they shouldn't, you will be alone for the rest of your life. Do you love her?? If not then oh well; go out and get another one but if you love her, that was harsh. Damage control isn't all that hard. Just have her tell people that you had a spat and she just said shit to get back at you or something. If nothing else, this little episode will impress on her the need to keep quiet about it.
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01-02-04, 03:09 PM
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Spidey...I have to disagree. A bigmouth is a bigmouth...plain and simple. This type of person is likely to air private matters of all kinds that are supposed to stay within the confines of the relationship...and that is not something most people are willing to tolerate. I have always respected women who play their cards close to their vest, so to speak...discretion and loyalty are two very important qualities in a person.
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#23
01-02-04, 06:50 PM
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Keep em in the dark. For your good and for their good. I dont know how many times I have read and seen for myself this nearly exact story. You owe your woman the truth about most things. You owe them a lie about gear. IMO
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01-03-04, 01:39 AM
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I would personally want to know WHY she told everyone, what is her reason. We dont need to know, but if you are not ready to 'throw away' 3 years I would at least ask her WTF she was thinking jeapordizing your FREEDOM like that.
You do what you want with your body, it is NOT someone elses business and apperantly she didn't think of that.
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01-03-04, 04:06 PM
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There is no damage control for that. I am going to have do diagree with you as well spidey. If she does that now, what will she do later? If they will do it once they will do it again. Its human nature. Sorry about your mishap though ecto, there is nothing to get u over old pussy like new pussy. Forge on soilder
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