sex question, need help

[meatbldr]

I really have problems getting dates with decent looking ladies. I mean, I can usually get a date with a fat bitch no problem. But that just doesn't do anything for me. The problem with AS is that it makes me super horny and frustrated because I can't get any from a woman that actually makes me feel that way. Especially when I see a hot chic with some shorts on or something.

Does anyone else have this problem? And how do you deal with it?

[ROCKETW19]

i dont have that problem but if i did id just twist one off. there is always gonna be girls that we cant get thats just life so you gotta just take what you can.

[kingj]

Can't say that i have that problem bro. You might want to step your game up a bit, or just suck it up and bang some fatties.

[BBAddict]

Careful--learn from others experience!!

http://www.superiormuscle.com/vbulle...threadid=23389

[meatbldr]

Good thread. That's why I am not so quik to bang fat chicks. Sure gets frustrating. I even tried the online thing without much success so far. From the reactions I get I wonder if chics even like big muscles.

[imonboardtoo]

Sometimes it's just how you carry yourself, grooming or other shit you don't see yourself. Maybe a bud can give you a serious assessment and point something out. Just pick a straight guy. And somebody who gets laid alot.

[hitmansb]

This is more a general chat topic than an AAS topic (though I get that it's more of an issue while 'on')

[Shibby]

I figured it's a sex and relationship topic


Anyways, man just having the muscles isn't enough. No, not all girls automatically go for the muscular guy. It depends on what type of girl your into. The way you talk to them is a good 90% of how you end up with someone. Sure you may be nice to look at, but it can be overwhelming for alot of petite women. There is really no way to just give you advice online. Seeing who you are in real life is the only way. The way you view things may not be quite the way others do. If your up for it, try getting a bouncer job at a decent club for a few months. It's easy to learn how to talk to girls doing that. Because your a bouncer you seem speacial to them. If you make of fool of yourself talking to them, it will be an easy let down, since in general no one really wants to piss off the bouncer if they want to stay inside. (No this is not a metaphor for "The Bouncer" so get over it big guy )

[JUICE]

Originally posted by kingj
Can't say that i have that problem bro. You might want to step your game up a bit, or just suck it up and bang some fatties.

like king said. Must step up the game a bit, or what worked best with me is being myself (cant do no more cause i got a gf). All girls are different. Ive known some hotties that there hot as hell but are not into guys with muscle but into fat rich guys. Or are into skinny dudes. It all depends on the persons personalities. I used to feel that way when i was on AS too, but fuck it just rub one off. Just be yourself bro, talk to them nice awesome, u never know u could score.

[CiViC SpiKeS]

Originally posted by BBAddict
Careful--learn from others experience!!

http://www.superiormuscle.com/vbulle...threadid=23389

Thats right learn from my experience.. dont do that shit EVER! Im still having problems with this broad.

NEVER AGAIN i tell u! It might be easy ass but its sure as hell not worth it!

School is done at the end of april and my taking my life back goddamnit!

[MissGym]

Hello....

I think that sometimes woman we are shy...When i am training at my gym i do see some few guys i would love to start a conversation with. But i am to shy ( i dont know if it's the right word) but i mean that if that guy would do the first move it will be so easier !!!

Sorry for my accent !

[Slashmonay]

Having big muscles doesnt mean girls will like you, but it helps a lot =) Plus sex is a lot better when a girl really enjoys your body and wants it.

[pierced one]

be confident. we have talked about that on here before.

i am always way more confident when on AAS(this can get you in trouble though). there is no need to talk to the thick ones unless that is your thing. I have alot of female friends that say it is mostly personallity. that expains why you always see Assclowns with really hot chicks.

walk up behind the nex hotty you see and grab her by the hips and........nah just askin for sexuall assalt.


just be calm and talk to them, if they shut you down there are only 500 million more women in this world, move on. after awhile you will develop scare tissue and will take a turn down like a champ (trust me i know)

[njjuicer]

once they see my wanker they usally want to go home with me lol but in ur sitiation i guess u jsut have tot ake one(or all of them) for the team and if ur still not liking it spoend 100 bills and get a hott broad at a massage parlor with a happy ending

[jb241970]

I aint got that problem...but I like fat bitches too!

[Shibby]

Originally posted by MissGym
but i mean that if that guy would do the first move it will be so easier !!!

What if he's thinking the same thing. It's always up to the guy to go talk to the girl. He may be burnt out on trying to talk to women and not have any luck. So he may figure it's a waste to try and talk to the next girl. If more women would step up and be an "enpowered woman" like they so want to be, I'm sure there would be less miss oportunities. It's kind of working as a team. While one side is in a slump, the other side is there to bring them up.

[NYCmitch25]

Confidence shit yeah! Take charge you see a girl make the first move dont be afraind of rejection. Who cares? You tried... dont get hung up on it. Just do it.

Another thing you sound like one of those dudes who "stares" at women? They f****** hate that... I got a friend who does - unconsciously cough cough. He stares them up and down and gauks them. He does this with the chics we bring too! What the christ!

One chic said to him "you sould take a picture ... it'll last longer"
I was laughing my ass off. Dont be THAT guy. Seriously dont do it!

Good luck. Dress well man... smell good ALL the time, hygene important. You never know where it will happen.

[JUICE]

Originally posted by Shibby
What if he's thinking the same thing.

i agree, most of the time this happens too. Like some friend once told me "go for it, u ain't go anything to loose", "if she dont like you well u tried at least".

[Stonecold54]

I just stalk them till they give in.

[NYCmitch25]

Originally posted by stonecold54
I just stalk them till they give in.

LOL!

[Shibby]

Originally posted by stonecold54
I just stalk them till they give in.

Like when you go to hooters

[Stonecold54]

Originally posted by Shibby
Like when you go to hooters

[Mr incredible]

Originally posted by ROCKETW19
i dont have that problem but if i did id just twist one off.

Excellent, if only everyone had that simple clarity of genious

[Mr incredible]

Originally posted by meatbldr
I really have problems getting dates with decent looking ladies. I mean, I can usually get a date with a fat bitch no problem. But that just doesn't do anything for me. The problem with AS is that it makes me super horny and frustrated because I can't get any from a woman that actually makes me feel that way. Especially when I see a hot chic with some shorts on or something.

Does anyone else have this problem? And how do you deal with it?

When I was single I would think nothing of trying my luck with like 20 girls in the same club in one night, if one of them said yes I considered that a good result and well worth the hard graft.

The thing is nobody gives a fuck so be happy in yourself and have a laugh about it when your trying

It sometimes became a bit difficult for me if we went to a small club and they were all in the same room though

[trip]

It's all about attitude and intentions.

Women are so much more intuitive than us men.

The fact that your attitude about women is "fat & bitches" says it all .

Those are degrading terms and horrify women, sorry, but that attitude comes off in how you carry yourself and your tone of voice .

Women say it a million times that want to be understood and valued, and yet, your mind set is one of degradation .

Stop and think for a second how would you feel emotionally if you knew most women looked at you and thought well, " I can get stupid loser muscle heads, but not a smart handsome guy"

Would you want a relationship with some girl like that.

Value and appreciate people for who and what they are, that makes them feel good, not bad, and lot's of good stuff will come your way.

You need to be commended though for trying and wanting to change.

Good for you.

Hoped That Helped
Good Luck

[imonboardtoo]

Trip, I think you killeed this thread. The guy wants to get laid, not qualify for Man of the Year.