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***THE BOUNCER*** · #1 08-25-05, 04:04 PM

I was picking my boxer up from day care. He goes every thursday, the people play with all the dogs and so on. Anyway, I put my boxer in the car and was pulling out of the parking lot. There was this guy parked next to me that was on his cell phone he had his door open with one foot on the ground and one foot in his car. He was kinda just relaxing in the parking lot on his phone. Anyway, his door was about 5 inches away from my car. So I start backing out and he grabs his door and closes it real fast like I just hit it. He looks at me threw the window and keeps staring. So I stop and get out and say whats the problem. In a loud tone he says, "couldnt you wait until I closed my door". I said, "your door was 5 inches away from my car and on top of that you were on the phone, not getting into your car". He keeps getting louder and kinda walking over to me slowly. I say to the guy, "dont come at me talking like a tough guy, your acting like you want to fight me and I know thats not what you want to do", I say "I was pulling the fuck out and you stare at me like you want to fight, now get back in your car and shut the fuck up." He puts his head down and walks away. Im glad he did because if he didnt I would prob be in trouble. I told sana and she got mad at me. Did I handle this wrong? Should I have just kept backing up out of the parking lot even though he was staring at me like a hard guy?

JUICE · #2 08-25-05, 04:21 PM

he was at fault man. There some assholes out there who think they have every right to do whatever they want and then they know thier wrong and cant admit it. Just like some people hauling ass in thier cars with thier cell phones, taking stop sign, or even worst the ones i hate who dont put thier signal lights when turning.

You did good in not kicking his ass bro, keeps you out of trouble man. Why do u want trouble and have a record. When I come to situations like this, i wish i can kick thier asses but not worth it.

beefcake · #3 08-25-05, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by THE BOUNCER

"now get back in your car and shut the fuck up."

LMAO. I think you handled it fine. I'm sure sana wanted you to have not said anything and just drive off. But technically, you didn't provoke him to fight, you just kept advising him that that's not what he wanted to do and you didn't imply that you wanted to fight him. I think that's handled well. It could've been handled a lot worse if you think about it.

spidey · #4 08-25-05, 04:31 PM

I would have smiled and waved just to piss him off.

BBAddict · #5 08-25-05, 04:34 PM

I say if somebody starts something-they had it coming. You did what you could to avoid it as far as I'm concerned. You certainly didn't start anything. If I walk away or drive away without "resolving" the situation, it bugs the piss out of me forever. I have to have resolution and let smart asses know where they really stand. It's like the eminem thread--punks that talk the talk but can't walk the walk!

beefcake · #6 08-25-05, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by spidey

I would have smiled and waved just to piss him off.

Problem is that he's on test, not clomid. LOL.

BBAddict · #7 08-25-05, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by spidey

I would have smiled and waved just to piss him off.

LOL. That's what I do when I'm driving and I get the finger. Pisses people off big time!

Pumpdogg · #8 08-25-05, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by THE BOUNCER

", I say "I was pulling the fuck out and you stare at me like you want to fight, now get back in your car and shut the fuck up." He puts his head down and walks away.

Bro dont sweat it, I would have just looked at him and maybe mouthed off myself, but NO ONE can say what they would do on any given day... If I werent such a sedentary individual right now, and that happened to me.. who knows.... Hey... Forget abouuuuuut ittt..

PD

Travers54 · #9 08-25-05, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by spidey

I would have smiled and waved just to piss him off.

yea, I've done that when someone flips me off I stare at them with a big smile and wave, like somehting you would see a neighbor do in leave it to beaver, looks kinda

but who the hell cares.

and yea I think you handled it fine you just exchanged some words.

***THE BOUNCER*** · #10 08-25-05, 04:51 PM

Sana thinks the people at the vet are gonna think im an asshole and not let our dog come back. lol. Wait till I get that 150lb French Mastiff. Im gonna walk up into that place with no shirt on and have our boxer on one hand and the french mastiff on the other with a spike collar. Im gonna say, "your going to play with my dogs and your going to like it you north carolina hill billy fuckers!"

trip · #11 08-25-05, 04:55 PM

I highly doubt you would have started anything no matter what he said, you're to smart for that BS.

It's not like you do this everyday or once a month, lol.

Man, like someone said, sometimes we do some stuff and not know why, probably just blowing off some steam sub-conciously, knowing you can do it without anything happening, which is what that guy was doing.

File under non-event and enjoy the day.

Travers54 · #12 08-25-05, 04:56 PM

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"your going to play with my dogs and your going to like you north carolina hill billy fuckers!"

lol, you made me think of Deliverance

***THE BOUNCER*** · #13 08-25-05, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by trip

I highly doubt you would have started anything no matter what he said, you're to smart for that BS.

It's not like you do this everyday or once a month, lol.

Man, like someone said, sometimes we do some stuff and not know why, probably just blowing off some steam sub-conciously, knowing you can do it without anything happening, which is what that guy was doing.

File under non-event and enjoy the day.

ya, thats true. i never start anything. i will defend myself though if someone has something to say.

trip · #14 08-25-05, 05:00 PM

Sana's deal getting upset over something that hasn't happened yet, hmmmmmm, at least yours was real and provoked.

Oh, the vet only cares about the color of money, last vet I went did not have a waiting line out the door.

ok, ok, j/k with all that stuff, really it's nothing, some events in life are just random crap, no need to fret over such stuff

INTIMID8OR · #15 08-25-05, 05:03 PM

I'm laughing my ass off ...I cant help but put this into an analogy of you taking your kid to school and embarrassing the hell out of him ..I bet your dog will be telling all his buddies about this tomorrow ...

meat12 · #16 08-25-05, 05:09 PM

lol
I wouldn't of controlled my self as good as you did. You did the right thing and that guy willthink twice before acting like that again

JUICE · #17 08-25-05, 05:13 PM

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I bet your dog will be telling all his buddies about this tomorrow ...

:laughnew: i could imagine that :laughnew:

Gods Son · #18 08-25-05, 06:27 PM

Next time kiss at him and call him a pu$$*

SonofBone · #19 08-25-05, 06:36 PM

You did everything you could to avoid the incident. If you hadn't been as vocal w/him, you would've had to destroy him, so a few words are much better than a few punches.

It reminds me of my dad...He always tries to do the right thing, but he ends up having to lay them out. A couple of years ago he was leaving a bar in a dark alley and two guys approached him and asked him if they could "hold a dollar". He told them "F YOU...get a job". Well, he layed the first one out and was holding the other one by the ear hitting him in the head when a cop rode by. The cop asked my dad what happened and asked him if he wanted to press charges. The other two guys were pissed because they were getting the hell beat out of them and my dad could press charges. Needless to say, he said no and went on about his business while the cop was going ahead and putting them in the car.

Many, many stories like that w/him, but I believe that is the only one that involved the cops other than the time our beach trip lasted only 4 hours due to fighting. Papa took names there too.

rvgfrth4g · #20 08-25-05, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by THE BOUNCER

I told sana and she got mad at me. Did I handle this wrong? Should I have just kept backing up out of the parking lot even though he was staring at me like a hard guy?

I think you handled it as good as any of us would've. And our significant other would be doing and saying the same thing as Sana did. lol Sounds like somthing I would've done...

Stonecold54 · #21 08-25-05, 06:58 PM

I use my sarcastic tone...something like "Get out my car before I back out. sit in front of his door and put my head on my hands and just tell him to take his time and that I am in no hurry." I find that a smile and sarcasm will get peoples goat more than words but it doesn't leave them room to escalate a situation because then it is totally their fault.

Megiddo · #22 08-25-05, 07:23 PM

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I use my sarcastic tone...something like "Get out my car before I back out. sit in front of his door and put my head on my hands and just tell him to take his time and that I am in no hurry." I find that a smile and sarcasm will get peoples goat more than words but it doesn't leave them room to escalate a situation because then it is totally their fault.

QFT

I love pulling the sarcasm card. But then that is just me and I am a card carrying Dick.

Bouncer you did what you had to do and I can apprecaite that. Some people need to be put in their places from time to time. Of course he probably telling his friends that some roid raiging fucker from up north tried to take his door off and threatened to beat teh shit out of him for no reason.

***THE BOUNCER*** · #23 08-25-05, 07:37 PM

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QFT

Of course he probably telling his friends that some roid raiging fucker from up north tried to take his door off and threatened to beat teh shit out of him for no reason.

bwahahahha!! :laughnew: i bet he is bro..