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i think u handled it wrong...if something like that happens to me i just kinda blow it off and don't pay it any attention

you didn't have to get out of your car....u could've just drove off, turned on the radio and forgot about it...the guy would've just kept talking on his phone...and you probably wouldn't even be thinking about it enough to make a thread

just imagine if the guy went and started a fight or you started a fight, and you were sitting in jail right now over a stupid fucking "look", you'd probably have to be sitting in anger management classes every wednesday for the next couple of months...its just not worth getting worked up over...u gotta just turn your shoulder and say fuck it
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Old 08-25-05, 10:07 PM
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i think u handled it wrong...if something like that happens to me i just kinda blow it off and don't pay it any attention

you didn't have to get out of your car....u could've just drove off, turned on the radio and forgot about it...the guy would've just kept talking on his phone...and you probably wouldn't even be thinking about it enough to make a thread

just imagine if the guy went and started a fight or you started a fight, and you were sitting in jail right now over a stupid fucking "look", you'd probably have to be sitting in anger management classes every wednesday for the next couple of months...its just not worth getting worked up over...u gotta just turn your shoulder and say fuck it
There are always better ways of handling things, but to say that he was wrong is a little overboard, IMO. And just as you said, Taylor, he didn't fight and he isn't in jail... He said his piece and it all worked out... So, to say that he was wrong isn't exactly correct....
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i betcha he was shittin in his pants. some great big motherfucker yellin at the poor little guy. I ve got a hell of a mental picture.

by the way you handled it properly. Didnt hit him, said your piece and came out on top.
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yea I was curious about that Bouncer, was this guy big at all?, cuz you said he walked over to you like he was ready to fight.
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yea I was curious about that Bouncer, was this guy big at all?, cuz you said he walked over to you like he was ready to fight.

he probably looked like this guy, lol
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yea I was curious about that Bouncer, was this guy big at all?, cuz you said he walked over to you like he was ready to fight.
he was a tall (6'2-6'3) guy with a belly. i would say he was about 48-52 years of age. he really thought he was a fucking hard guy..
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Old 08-26-05, 12:38 AM
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holy shit, they have day care for dogs now?
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Bouncer,

If you confronted every "tough guy" you ran into, you would be looking at 7-10. If you would have cracked the fucker in the face, then you would be an asshole, but you didn't and there should be nothing to worry about. You asserted yourself in this case and it worked out. By the way, it's a frickin' dog babysitter, not really a huge deal. If they have an issue, I am sure there are other vets and dog-sitters.. LOL.
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How is the dog dealing with all this?
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Sana thinks the people at the vet are gonna think im an asshole and not let our dog come back. lol. Wait till I get that 150lb French Mastiff. Im gonna walk up into that place with no shirt on and have our boxer on one hand and the french mastiff on the other with a spike collar.
IMHO....put little muscle shirts on the dogs and YOU wear the spiked collar! That will freak those country bumpkins out!
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There are always better ways of handling things, but to say that he was wrong is a little overboard, IMO. And just as you said, Taylor, he didn't fight and he isn't in jail... He said his piece and it all worked out... So, to say that he was wrong isn't exactly correct....
right and wrong is a personal opinion, you think it was fine, i think he wasn't...we're both correct if we have our support for our opinions...


whether he's in jail or not i look at it like...if he didn't get out of the car and make it a confrontation or add on to whatever you would call the "looks" then he probably wouldn't be stressed over it....or like i said before.. bothered enough to even make a post

ignoring and not paying him no attention would be the correct way to handle it in my opinion.....who is this guy? what's he worth getting worked up over? why is he even worth acknowledigng by stepping out of the car
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Old 08-26-05, 09:59 AM
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Did I handle this wrong? Should I have just kept backing up out of the parking lot even though he was staring at me like a hard guy?
Overreacting to him overreacting would have been bad. If he wants to act like that, that's his problem. You're better than that, Bouncer. The last thing this world needs is a good guy letting a moron provoke him into becoming another moron. I like the smile and wave idea. Ha Ha!!! Perfect!!

The guy may have been having a really really bad day and telling him to "get back in (his) car and shut the fuck up" might just put him over the edge. There are some crazy mother fuckers out there and you just never know man. Years ago in the town I grew up in there was a guy who cut somebody off in traffic and got beat to death with a tire iron at the next red light. In the same town, a guy was beaten to death by half a dozen college students at a pool hall because he made some smartass comment to one of them. The scary thing was that I was at that pool hall and left about an hour before that happened and the college students were from the same college I was attending. Even though you didn’t physically beat the guy down, verbally beating the guy could have caused the situation to escalate just as quickly. It’s not worth it dude. I lived in a town of just 30,000 people and that kind of thing still happened every once in a while. Your well-being is worth more than your ego. You may be able to handle yourself against most people one-on-one in a fight, but against 6 or 7 people? And I don’t know anybody who is knife or bullet proof. You just never know what kind of fucked up people you’re going to run into…better to just smile and wave.

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I think you handled it just well. If I was in a similar position, I'd tell the dude "just get back into your damn car and talk to whoever it was you were talking to. But be considerate to other drivers." I think you know what I mean. Hell, if you weren't there when he was there but arrived like 10 minutes later, and he was sitting there with one foot on the ground and one in the car, talking on his cell phone, you'd probably honk your horn to let him know you need to get into the parking space.

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the guy was probably mad because look at what he's driving. :laughnew:
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lol,Is that the truck out of Dumber and Dumber??
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Old 08-26-05, 06:34 PM
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lol,Is that the truck out of Dumber and Dumber??

yeah man, fucking funny doggie van they use. :laughnew:
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right and wrong is a personal opinion, you think it was fine, i think he wasn't...we're both correct if we have our support for our opinions...
so if I thought it was right to murder a good friend of yours it would be okay if I could support it? I use an extreme example for a reason...right and wrong are not opinions...they are based on an philisophical ethics.
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so if I thought it was right to murder a good friend of yours it would be okay if I could support it? I use an extreme example for a reason...right and wrong are not opinions...they are based on an philisophical ethics.

there is no right or wrong for how he handled a confrontation, its a matter of opinion like i said
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there is no right or wrong for how he handled a confrontation, its a matter of opinion like i said
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Old 08-27-05, 07:10 AM
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I saw somewhere in this thread that you live out in hillbilly land. That's the problem, I used to get into the same shit in NJ all the time. All these fucking farmers kids running around acting like they are tough shit.

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Anyway, I think that people, in general, have absoutley no respect for people who are bigger then them, they don't even think about what would actually happen if you got in a fight with them.

I have this situation all the time; I live near this community "revitilization" area in West Palm Beach called Cityplace. Its really nice down there, they have a ton of high end shops, bars, clubs, the whole deal. Unfortunately, they also put in a movie theater, which leads to my point. When walking the streets down there, I will be walking with my girll, and these 14-16 year old guys will purposely bump into me, or will walk in a pack and make us walk around them. Real punk kind of shit. They do the stare down's too, looking at me and trying to see if I am going to look back at them.

The thing that people really need to get back through their thick heads (we have made this world so "safe" that people don't think about it anymore) is the absoulte assbeating that a 230lb bodybuilder can unload on someone in a very short order. These kids (and most punks, imo) are scrawny little fucks (or fat) and bump into me like they want to fight. The only reason they do that is they are pretty sure that I don't want to fight, and will just let it go. They just need to get unloaded on once or twice before they realize that "big" guys are not to be messed with, go try and impress your friends some other way.

I was down there one day with my friend Kiki. Kiki has a funny name, but he was also the world kickboxing champ about 10 years ago, weighs about 275, and it juiced to the gills. Same fucking thing, kids bumping into us and trying to push us around and intimiadate us. That time I could not help but laugh. I am big, but I don't like to fight, nor do I think that I am "good" at it. But now your trying to start shit with a world champion fighter who weighs more then 3 of you put together.

Good thing that Kiki has a very good sense of self-control.

Anyway, Bouncer, back to you, you should have beat his ass and then taken off. That's the only way these people are going to learn not to fuck around with people that are bigger then them. What happened to the fear of getting beat up in this country? Hey, I still have it, why don't these assholes on 95 and punk ass kids have it? I think you, Bouncer, need to go on a personal campagin of reinstating the fear of ass beating in the general population. Start at the vet!

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Old 08-27-05, 07:18 AM
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there is no right or wrong for how he handled a confrontation, its a matter of opinion like i said
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I would have just flipped the bird and drove off, don't have time for chit chat too busy lookin good LOL. The think is I'm guesin he was physically inferior to you? else you wouldn't have got out of the car? he could have had a gun bro but you reactyed naturally (with a little rush of test!)
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