Do you see things Black & White during problems?

[rvgfrth4g]

It seems that a big part of why I've always butted heads with females when figuring out a solution to a problem. I like to keep things simplemaking things Black & White makes it simple. So its either this way or that way, not this, and this, and maybe that or maybe this with that. lol I find that every girl I know sees every shade of the rainbow. Now I do believe major problems arne't always B&W. But most of the small everyday problems are B&W and it'll cause less stress and less time figureing out the solution when seeing it B&W.

So guys... Are you in the same boat as me? Do yousee pretty much everything in B&W and your significant other sees every shade of the rainbow which therefore just complicates things? lol

:hmmm:

[Taylor]

i'm weird when it comes to conflicts, somethings that would bother other people don't bother me at all, while other things that may not bother anybody else will completely flip me out

i guess i see things differently depending on the specific problem whether its big or small

[rvgfrth4g]

yeah, it really comes down to being problem specific. But I guess i'm saying for in general do you see things in B&W and your signifigant other sees every shade of the rainbow?

[njjuicer]

my way or know waqy period even if i turn otu to eb wrong lol im the same b&w

[Shibby]

I'd would easily say I'm the opposite, but I do have my b&w moments.

[blm]

Originally Posted by njjuicer

my way or know waqy period even if i turn otu to eb wrong lol

Your spelling makes that abundantly clear

[Puma]

Definately a black and white guy myself.

Drives my gf crazy. She will start telling me about somthing that is bothering her and I will tell her my idea of what she can do. Then she gets pissed.

She tells me that she "just wants to talk" and that I am too controlling and think I know everything. But I totally see everything as black and white. Things are either good or bad, not inbetween. I either want to do something or I don't, there is no "with the right person" or "at the right time" shit.

Its really annoying to women though, they do not think like that at all.

Puma

[Puddles]

I tend to take a little time and think things through before making a decision unless a decision is needed immediately. As I get older I see more things as black and white but still tend to hold onto the varriables.