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03-21-06, 01:13 PM
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Bad News
Saturday night I went into labor...obviously way too early for it to live. I think somehow there was an infection in the placenta since my white blood count was high. We were blessed in the fact that she had died a day or so prior to me giving birth.
This is a very difficult time for us, and any support, thoughts, or experiences would be much appreciated. We are obivously very saddened byt his since we were having a hard time getting pregnant. The doctor is testing the placenta to make sure there isn't a chromosomal abnormality with one of us. My doctor just thinks it was some fluke thing, since the baby was absolutely perfect...doesn't make it better. IT's just a huge setback.
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03-21-06, 01:36 PM
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WOW...Sorry to here that. My wife and I went through problems getting pregnant and even a miscarriage. It was hard on me, but VERY hard on her (as I'm sure it is with you). My prayers are with you.
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03-21-06, 01:55 PM
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OMG, I literally am crying as I sit here reading this.
I know i don't post that much but RS I have read every single piece of advice that you have given, and feel that I know you personally. You have shown such great strength and determination, how something so terrible can happen to such a good person, I will never understand it. Its going to take you a long time to get over this, if ever and my thoughts are with you at this traumatic time. I wish there was something that I could do or say to make the pain go away, but time is the only healer. I hope that you both get through this and that you know there a so many people here on the board who care about you and would do anything to help you. Be strong, and thank you for making me who I am today. KG
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#7
03-21-06, 02:15 PM
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I am truly sorry for your loss
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03-21-06, 02:28 PM
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I don't know what to say. Nor do I feel like there's anything I can say to make you feel any better. I'm so sorry for your loss. Just remember we're here for you.
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03-21-06, 02:30 PM
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Thats horrible news, I am sorry to hear that.
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03-21-06, 02:31 PM
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so sorry to hear...
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03-21-06, 03:09 PM
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damn i am sorry to hear that. my prayers are with you guys.
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#12
03-21-06, 03:16 PM
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I'm sorry red about your loss...
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03-21-06, 03:18 PM
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RS - I am so sorry to hear for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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03-21-06, 03:27 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't find words the desciribe my sarrow. I just want to say we are here for you.
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03-21-06, 03:36 PM
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awwww. Red, I am so sorry for you guys. I know its been an uphill struggle and now this. I am pulling for both you and sonis.
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03-21-06, 04:34 PM
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Very sorry to hear!
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03-21-06, 04:54 PM
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I am so sorry Red.
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03-21-06, 05:21 PM
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Thanks everyone.
If I wasn't so far along,(4.5 months) I think it may be a little easier. But, having to actually deliver her and hold her was extremely difficult. Althouhg, I'm sure my pain and grief would be much more had I made it full term. I had made it past the 1st trimester, even past the critical 16 weeks, so I thought things would be okay. But, with the blood clot and the complications with that, I was never really comfortable. Just the thought of having to start all over again is the worst.
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03-21-06, 05:48 PM
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very sorry
prayers for you and your family
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03-21-06, 07:36 PM
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I am very sorry sweetheart - I am sure that it will give you strength of some sort.
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03-21-06, 08:18 PM
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Hey Red, very very sorry to hear it. Nothing I can say to make you feel better, but if you need anything just pm me and I will do whatever I can to help you. All my best to you and your husband, your both great people.
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03-21-06, 09:25 PM
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I'm very sorry to hear that, I could not imagine what you are going through. All I can say is you're in my prayers and may God be with you both in your time of need.
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03-21-06, 10:09 PM
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Awfully sorry to hear... please accept my sympathies.
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