How would Ya'll handle this?

[toolwtf]

Just interesed in some non biased opinions. This is long, but I feel like typing and expressing myself tonight and its a fairly decent story so here we go....

A little bit of background. I've been good friends with a guy for about 13 years. You could even say he is my best friend. With that being said, keep in mind the following.... He's 36 years old, never been laid, never had much attention from girls outside of strippers and basically is really really innocent and has no clue when it comes to women. No woman has ever been remotely interested in him.

So I had a girlfriend. A really hot, sexy, and charismatic girlfriend, her body was amazing and eveyone that met her loved her. I dated her for about 10 months, exclusively and since the guy mentioned about was my best friend, they also became friends because she was always around. The girl and I were getting serious, very serious, talking about marriage, she wanted to do it, I actually wanted to do it, but before I made that leap.. I decided to do some investigating. I put a key stroke logger on my home computer so that when she logged into her email, I had her password. I checked the biotches email and found out that she was still talking to and seeing her EX on occassion and one other guy who she was still randomly seeing on the DOWN LOW. That's right, i didn't suspect any of this but before I took the next step, I needed to know and look what daddy found.

So I dumped her on the spot and never looked back. Homie don't play that and no matter how hot she was or how good the pssssy was, I wasn't going to stick around. Well she begged and wanted me to forgive her and tried all sorts of shit, the girl turned out to be very manipulative - would show up at places I'd be at, just all sorts of crazy shit.

Well here is where the dilemma comes in. Her next step was to manipulate my poor friend. She started texting him, and telling him that even tho it was over between her and I, she wanted to remain friends with him. Well. I had to go out of the country to Europe for business for 2 weeks and I mentioned to my friend that my coworkes had gone to a WHORE HOUSE in Europe and that I considered going the following weekend....... While I was gone she called him, text'd him and told him she had a "friend" for him to meet. So he met her out at a bar, started drinking, she let him slap her ass, danced with him, totally manipulated him and HE told her that I was going to a whore house and all sorts of other personal shit about me that she wanted to know.

I came back from my trip and talked to her and she told me all this and told me that HE told her. My question to the board is, should I be mad at my friend for getting manipulated by this evil biotch or not? He's one of my best friends and he told this ex-biotch of mine personal details about me that was none of her business, but at the same time, she knew what she was doing and she wanted these details desperately. Did she manipulate him? Or did he sell me out?

[Stonecold54]

i wouldn't be mad at him. if he is as you describe then the awe of female attention overwhelmed his blood supply and moved it SOUTH....and then I would plant crack in this ladies car and call a anonymous call into the police.

[dna9488]

I don't think he sold you out. She manipulated him and probably showed him the goods.

Smart choice on you for installing that tracking device. I wish i could install one in my girls head and find out where she is at all times.

[THE BOUNCER]

long post just to ask if you should be mad at him.

i wouldnt be mad at him. he is obvously lacking in that department and was manipulated.

[THE BOUNCER]

Originally Posted by dna9488

I wish i could install one in my girls head and find out where she is at all times.

i can just tell you. with other guys.

[dna9488]

Originally Posted by THE BOUNCER

i can just tell you. with other guys.

lol...thats probably the case. I think when she says, "i am watching a movie tonight at home," she really means i am getting drunk and having a random guy feel me up, while poor DNA is studying at home trying to pass his summer class with an A, so he can get a fuckin scholarship for a year.


sorry if i am ranting, i have been under a lot of stress ever since my summer class started. Its a 5 week intensive Calc 3 course, 3 hours a day, Mon-Thurs. Test every week, quiz everyday, and projects every two weeks.

[Mr incredible]

Ya, thats standard play from bitches when they get spurned, not his fault although he shouldn't have said the personal shit, he was drunk!

[YellowJacket]

Originally Posted by dna9488

lol...thats probably the case. I think when she says, "i am watching a movie tonight at home," she really means i am getting drunk and having a random guy feel me up, while poor DNA is studying at home trying to pass his summer class with an A, so he can get a fuckin scholarship for a year.


sorry if i am ranting, i have been under a lot of stress ever since my summer class started. Its a 5 week intensive Calc 3 course, 3 hours a day, Mon-Thurs. Test every week, quiz everyday, and projects every two weeks.

Nice transition to make this thread about you.


Now heres some dancing

[NYCmitch25]

^haha thats gold


wtf he sold you out. it doesnt matter he was tricked into it or not. he should have kept his mouth shut. i wouldnt beat him up or anything like that

[Shibby]

It truly comes down to trust. I probably wouldn't be mad at him, but it will also take a lot of time to be "best friends" with him again. It seems like you aren't sure if you are mad but you think you are suppose to be mad. Sounds like something a chic would do. Make your decisions is based on what it means to you and not what other people think how things should be.

[Gecko1980]

You never know man he may not have thought it was anything big.. I don't think he would have told her to sink you or anything.. You said you 2 were broke up already so who cares. He is your close friend, kick him in the ass and tell him not to tell her shit? Probably thought it was harmless. I wouldn't even question being mad at him.

What gets you to start checking up on your woman in the first place?? I just don't know if i could do it, There is a line where it is someone's privacy.. Just curious.

[toolwtf]

Originally Posted by Shibby

It seems like you aren't sure if you are mad but you think you are suppose to be mad. Sounds like something a chic would do. Make your decisions is based on what it means to you and not what other people think how things should be.

This is true. I'm not sure if I should be mad or not. I can tell you, if it were any of my other friends, the ones who aren't innocent and naive when it comes to women I'd be furious. But with this guy, I feel like he got tricked and overwhelmed by her and he slipped up and it is forgivable.

[toolwtf]

Originally Posted by Gecko1980

What gets you to start checking up on your woman in the first place?? I just don't know if i could do it, There is a line where it is someone's privacy.. Just curious.

This could be another thread discussion all together. You know, I'm not sure, I had no reason not to trust her. I did trust her, but man just considering taking that big step towards thinking about marrying her, I just felt like I needed to know.

Was I wrong for checking her email? I don't know. But, it appears that doing that saved my ass in the long run.

[dna9488]

Originally Posted by toolwtf

Was I wrong for checking her email? I don't know. But, it appears that doing that saved my ass in the long run.

You did a right thing man, don't question that.

Imagine if you didn't check her email and married her. what would happen 5-10 years down the road

[FrankTheTank55]

I would just explain to your buddy about the whole "Guy Code" thing. Im sure he hasnt been in that situation before and just didnt realize what was going on. Just tell him, "You dont tell anyone, anything". I wouldnt be mad at him.

[ROCKETW19]

Im gonna go with your friend just didnt think it was no big deal? I mean who cares if you went to a whore house if you are not seeing here anymore? What other personal stuff he said could change my opinion, but if its just silly stuff like the whore house then who gives a fuck.
I say you tell her you two will get back together if she sleeps with the 39 year old virgin. come on help your boy out.

[redback]

a key stroke logger ? You can do that shit?

[THE BOUNCER]

Originally Posted by redback

a key stroke logger ? You can do that shit?

aka... "can you explain to me how to do it so i can read my girlfriends email."

[redback]

Originally Posted by THE BOUNCER

aka... "can you explain to me how to do it so i can read my girlfriends email."

Hahahaaa, well....

[toolwtf]

Originally Posted by redback

a key stroke logger ? You can do that shit?

Google it. It is just a simple program that records everything typed into the keyboard onto a text file.

[njjuicer]

fuck that rats a rat u dotn rat ur friends no amtter what ive been to jail b/c i wouldnt rat on ym boys for even less than what ur boy did fuck that u aint a mna if u cant keep ur fucking mouth shut pussies should die and eat shit id smack the fuckin 40 yr old virgin in his mouth but thats my 02

[YellowJacket]

Originally Posted by njjuicer

fuck that rats a rat u dotn rat ur friends no amtter what ive been to jail b/c i wouldnt rat on ym boys for even less than what ur boy did fuck that u aint a mna if u cant keep ur fucking mouth shut pussies should die and eat shit id smack the fuckin 40 yr old virgin in his mouth but thats my 02

Winner.

[The_Grinder]

Originally Posted by njjuicer

fuck that rats a rat u dotn rat ur friends no amtter what ive been to jail b/c i wouldnt rat on ym boys for even less than what ur boy did fuck that u aint a mna if u cant keep ur fucking mouth shut pussies should die and eat shit id smack the fuckin 40 yr old virgin in his mouth but thats my 02

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