Fuck fake people.

[Turbo3000]

Yesterday I wake up and think I have a few good friends. I wake up today and realize there are only about 2 of my friends that I can fully trust. People acting like my friend to my face but then go and talk shit about me to my ex girl. Fuck everyone. I am cutting ties with everyone that I can't trust.

[Shibby]

Been there too man. Trust me having and knowing just a few close friends it way better and less stressful than knowing a bunch of people.

[Turbo3000]

Originally posted by Shibby
Been there too man. Trust me having and knowing just a few close friends it way better and less stressful than knowing a bunch of people.

It wasn't a bunch though, it was about 5, but now I am not trusting anyone but the 2 I can count on. And out of those 2 there is only 1 that I consider my best friend that I could count on for whatever.

[Puddles]

Turbo...it really sucks when these things happen. My husband and I have discussed this a few times. Having been burned a few times it makes you not want to get close to anyone ever again. The feelings of hurt and anger can linger for years. But this is life...we take risks when we develop relationships...the risk of being hurt and the risk of a rewarding friendship. Sometimes you wonder if it's worth it. When all is said and done I try to just forgive and hold on to the good memories...the bad ones will eat you alive.

Turbo, I know your pain. You feel totally betrayed, robbed, used, etc. However, if it makes you a better person, you've come out ahead than. All a person has is their own word. Once that's gone, than that person is nothing. Hopefully you'll come out ahead, bro. Keep your chin up.

[Turbo3000]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
Turbo...it really sucks when these things happen. My husband and I have discussed this a few times. Having been burned a few times it makes you not want to get close to anyone ever again. The feelings of hurt and anger can linger for years. But this is life...we take risks when we develop relationships...the risk of being hurt and the risk of a rewarding friendship. Sometimes you wonder if it's worth it. When all is said and done I try to just forgive and hold on to the good memories...the bad ones will eat you alive.

Yeah it sucks pretty bad. I am just gonna be happy with the 2 good friends that I have, and concentrate on school and my workouts. I have started working more anyway so I could get a new car. I am thankfull that I do have 1 good friend I can trust with everything. And I have my peeps on here. I am just cutting ties with the others, I will see them and be civil but not like it use to be.

[Puddles]

I know how you feel. In time it'll get better and won't hurt so much, but it'll always be there lingering. Just learn from this experience and grow. Hugs to ya, Turbo.

[Shibby]

Originally posted by Turbo3000
It wasn't a bunch though, it was about 5, but now I am not trusting anyone but the 2 I can count on. And out of those 2 there is only 1 that I consider my best friend that I could count on for whatever.

Well I consder more than one being a bunch. When my ex and I finally were finished after 3 and a half years, because of one of my "best friends" was with her, I also know of so many of my "friends" that decided they would try and get with her. I know everyone wanted her but I can't believe my "friends" would do it.

Dang, SHIBBY. And you didn't kill anyone? WOW! Impressive.

[Shibby]

No. I was to pissed to even care to beat his ass (all though I wanted to sooo bad). Between the combonation of her and him, I didn't know who I was more pissed at. But my brother did a good job at keeping me fucked up and taking me out for like 6 months. Everyone pretty much stoped talking to them for a while. No body liked what happened out of my closest group of friends.

[Doom]

people are assholes are bro....
better you know what they are now, then later down the road in life

[psyko1]

Yeah, that shit sucks bro. You really need to read people and get a feel for what they're truly thinking. I'm a great judge of character and believe me it sucks knowing that you can't trust people who you should be able to. But I guess just do what I do. Keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer. Words to live by my friend. Stay cool.

[Turbo3000]

Originally posted by Doom
people are assholes are bro....
better you know what they are now, then later down the road in life

That is a good way to look at it. I am glad I learned now.

[Stonecold54]

Yeah I don't let too many people get close. You guys on the boards probably know more about me than anyone. LOL-plus I like you guys a lot more than people I am around a lot.

[Murtle]

Thats life, and everyone goes through that the hard way. Shit you could have a thousand friends, but out of the thousand's you can count your true friends on your two hands.

Murtle

[bonebreaker]

If you live long enough, and I hope you do, you'll eventually realize that you can never trust anyone 100%. Hell, sometimes is best not to even trust yourself. I'm probably twice the age of most of the wonderful people on this board, so I've had twice as much experience with the assholes of the world, and there are many. I finally realized that I can only trust someone pecentage wise. A truly good friend who I've known many years and has never given any reason to doubt them only rates 75%. Most others rate 10%. Also, I've found out that the longer you know someone, the more likely they'll screw you. I have met people on this board, INTIMID8OR3 for example, who I've only known for a year or so, and I trust him more than people I've known 25 years, mainly because he's real and has no reason to be doubted by me. This is a guy who I've talked to on the phone and exchanged e-mails with but have never met face to face. Honestly, if I had to trust someone with my life he would be right up there with the best people in the world I can trust, who are my sons. I hate to be such a paranoid ass about trust, but living is believing in nobody 100%, it's much safer and much less painful.
NEVER, NEVER, BELIEVE WHAT YOU HEAR AND ONLY HALF OF WHAT YOU SEE. BB

[bonebreaker]

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Bro in life we seldome find TRUE freinds. We have many aquintances, but not many REAL FREINDS. I can only really count on a select few people in my life. My parents, my wife, and a freind or two. So just keepitreal within yourself and you will be the better man. PEACE! KIR

[Turbo3000]

Originally posted by KeepinItReal
Bro in life we seldome find TRUE freinds. We have many aquintances, but not many REAL FREINDS. I can only really count on a select few people in my life. My parents, my wife, and a freind or two. So just keepitreal within yourself and you will be the better man. PEACE! KIR

Thanks bro. I feel better already. Fuck em.

[rubberduckyo]

Welcome to Earth.

Fasten seatbelt and position trays in the upright and locked position.

Seriously. Fend for yourself and take all else with a grain of salt.

Even those you'd think were upstanding people are asswipes. Seriously.

[Primal Instinct]

Originally posted by bonebreaker
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Bonebreaker, did you just catch yourself signing your post? Looks like MrsP has really made everyone self aware. LOL.

[Racer814]

I got a hell of a lot of friends but I aint got NO buddys ......if ya know what I mean.......

[bransun]

yeah man.i think i trust 2 peple in my life..i have many aqquaintances but very few friends..i always say its better to have less friends, because its less of a headache...

[njjuicer]

if i ahd it my way all rats and fuckers whoc an tkeep mouths shut woudl ahve been buried long time ago but scumbags ar einevitable part of life ...

[Shibby]

Are you talking about these rats?

"this gigantic mutha fuckin rat traied to attck me i kciked it and it ran at me i screamed lieka girl and ran the fuck out" - njjuicer

[njjuicer]

no bitch stop brignin that shit up im terrifie dof them rodent su bitch

[Shibby]

roflmao

^ nothing more apropriate to say than that :p