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Puddles · #1 02-10-04, 11:10 PM

Are there things you wish they would try but they won't? Or vice versa?

TrippersGirl · #2 02-10-04, 11:23 PM

i'm satisfied and still there are new things to try. Anything different brought to the table can sometimes be hard, especially at first when your partner isn't used to it, but experiment and find some middle ground. Is everything going ok with you and your man Puddles?

Puddles · #3 02-10-04, 11:37 PM

Yes...things are fine! I just haven't been posting much and figured I'd get some posts in tonight while he's asleep and I'm still up. Thank you for asking though.

We both like trying new things and so far there isn't anything that eihter of us has suggested that the other didn't want to do as well. We're very compatible...there have been a few things that we tried and we both agreed that we didn't care for afterwards. Which is cool...I'd hate to try something and one of us love it and the other hate it! LOL

TrippersGirl · #4 02-11-04, 12:09 AM

that would be so terrible

TrippersGirl · #5 02-11-04, 12:10 AM

GearTripper · #6 02-11-04, 02:11 AM

puddles isn't posting as much 'cause her man is wearing her out big-time with all that test he be using

tantra74 · #7 02-11-04, 03:45 AM

I personally wish my relationship with my honey was as strong as all of you seem to have. I don't try things because I don't feel like best friends. I already know we don't share everything. Right now it seems more like a business partnership. How do you get past that?

BIKER_GIXXER · #8 02-11-04, 06:27 AM

Wifey is very open-minded to new things. No complaints here.

Puddles · #9 02-11-04, 09:07 AM

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Originally posted by tantra74
I personally wish my relationship with my honey was as strong as all of you seem to have. I don't try things because I don't feel like best friends. I already know we don't share everything. Right now it seems more like a business partnership. How do you get past that?

Every relationship will have it's ups and downs. Try to remember what it is that attracted you to him when the relationship was new. What made you happy back then? Do you two have enough time together? Do you still go out on dates together? Do you give eachother compliments? When you've both been seperated for the day, do you greet one another with a kiss and a hug? Do you share new interests (like a new cd, place to eat, book to read)? If you're drifting away from eachother the only way to fix that is to start sharing things together and it may feel strange at first since you've got a little gap going, but the more you do it the easier it will be and before you know it, it'll be second nature again. Sometimes we get so preoccupied with work and daily chores that we forget that our relationships are a priority. Try to find something new to do together as a hobby so you will have some fun time together. Spend time together just doing stuff that friends do with each other.

Puddles · #10 02-11-04, 09:09 AM

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Originally posted by GearTripper
puddles isn't posting as much 'cause her man is wearing her out big-time with all that test he be using

urso8up · #11 02-11-04, 09:13 AM

Nope she is pretty open about anything we wanna try it is open both ways.

And yur right you need to post more Mrs p

dreamgirl · #12 02-11-04, 09:20 AM

were both open, I just wish he initiated sex more.

LOCO · #13 02-11-04, 09:24 AM

lol, mine doesn't let me initiate sex..... i wish i could...
as for the styles... we tried out few different thing, always keep coming back to 2-3 we use all the time though...

The_Jarhead · #14 02-11-04, 11:01 AM

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Originally posted by GearTripper
puddles isn't posting as much 'cause her man is wearing her out big-time with all that test he be using

Puddles can't be worn out. She just to rest and rehydrate every once in a while.

The_Jarhead · #15 02-11-04, 11:04 AM

My wife is up for just about anything. I think the only time she ever told me no is one I was REAL drunk and wanted to go at it right against the wall out side this bar we were at. and wasn't a slow night. Instead we went out to the car.

GearTripper · #16 02-11-04, 01:09 PM

things keep getting better as time goes on... communication is the key!

Puddles · #17 02-11-04, 02:34 PM

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Originally posted by The_Jarhead
Puddles can't be worn out. She just to rest and rehydrate every once in a while.

This is why we have a small fridge stocked with water bottles in our bedroom. We'll take a break, I'll drink my water and he'll eat some peanut butter for energy, then we're ready for the next round.

The_Jarhead · #18 02-11-04, 03:01 PM

That's exactly what I was thinking of when I wrote that.

Puddles · #19 02-11-04, 03:49 PM

The fridge is next to where we hang up the swing. Next time you two stay over we'll have to set the swing up for you two, the top of the fridge is also good for holding toys and lube too. And the swing doesn't squeak like the bed in the guest room!