Anal Sex...

[Puddles]

Who here enjoys the pleasures of anal? It's one of my favorite sexual activities!

Someone recently pm'd me for some pointers on anal so I figured it'd be a good time to bring back my "Introduction to Anal for Couples" tutorial.





Most women are afraid to try anal sex. Many who have tried it have had bad experiences that have turned them off anal sex completely. I hope that this article will help make the experience a good one for both the woman and the man. Women...don't be afraid! Men...be patient!

I don't know what, if any, attempts you've made to enjoy anal sex, but let me tell you, it's absolutely wonderful. My most intense orgasms come from anal. Once you let yourself go, it's a feeling like no other orgasm produces.

Instead of the typical g-spot or clitoral orgasms, anal seems to combine the g-spot along with whatever other pleasure receptors are in the ass to produce mind blowing sensations that just go on and on, very deeply, very intensely, and for longer stretches than the usual orgasms. Most of the time when we're having anal, either my husband or I will also be playing with my clit and/or pussy using a vibe, a dildo or just fingers.

Positions ... three favorites of mine are: me on my knees with my legs spread fairly wide, my ass angled up towards him while my chest down against the bed, my husband standing behind me at the edge of the bed; me on my back at the edge of the bed, my legs spread in a wide "v" with my husband standing; me on my back on the bed, my legs spread in a wide "v" with my ankles at about shoulder height, my hips raised up naturally with my legs being so high, my husband on his knees either with his body erect or leaning over me. All of those positions allow us easy access to my pussy and clit for more stimulation.

Obviously lube is a must for anal (water based only if you're using a condom). You should begin to loosen her up with your lubed finger. Put a good amount of lube on your fingertips and gently caress her hole, applying a little pressure on the entire area, not just going immediately in. Play with her clit and/or pussy gently while you're warming up her ass. SLOWLY take one fingertip and massage her hole with little motions of going in. She needs to really relax her muscles or it's gonna hurt. Pain is part of the game though and the pleasure she will eventually receive will be well worth the moments of initial pain. Once you've maneuvered a fingertip in, say to the first or second nuckel, move your finger in a circular motion slowly loosening up the rim. It's kind of like a stretching exercise. Keep doing this and add in a little in and out stroking as she becomes more comfortable and is feeling pleasure from your finger.

Next I would go for a small vibe or dildo...very well lubed, and gently slide it into her ass. If she says stop, you stop. Don't pull out though. If you just leave it alone held in place, her hole will loosen up to accommodate the toy. Again, once she's comfortable, slide it in and out and in a circular rotation to loosen her up some more. You should continue to stimulate her pussy/clit during all of this.

You may have given her an orgasm by now.

When you both think she's ready for your cock, make sure you've lubed yourself up well. Just like with the toy...it will hurt unless she's completely relaxed so listen to her, when she says stop, you stop. I've had to have my husband stop and be still for a good 30 seconds due to the pain, but I KNOW how good it's going to feel once I can get beyond that. I think much of the reason I wind up in pain is that I'm too excited and simply can't relax my muscles well enough. Anyway, take her cues and go slowly.

Once you get past the head of your cock by about an inch, the rest will go smoothly, slowly, perhaps pausing for a while until it's all the way in. The skin in-between her ass and her pussy is almost paper thin...she will feel your cock hitting her g-spot. You will love how different her ass feels on your cock, so tight and hot!

After a little slow fucking, you will be able to fuck her ass harder and faster, sending her into some very deep and intense orgasms. One of you should continue to pay attention to her clit too...it's just absolutely mind blowing!!! Nipple stimulation is always a good thing to add in too. If she slides her fingers inside her pussy she'll be able to feel your cock with her fingers.

If she's very nervous about trying anal and she can enjoy a drink or two, this would be a perfect time, as it will help her relax. If either of you are worried about any possible mess, the man can just slip a condom on so clean-up is simple. For sanitary reasons, any toys or what ever has been in the ass must be washed well before going back into the pussy, a liquid antibacterial soap will work perfectly.


Introduction to Anal for Couples.

[tantra74]

I love it

[TrippersGirl]

me too

[Bamaman]

you all are my favorites........love woman who know how to feel good

[urso8up]

Great post Mrs P

[BIKER_GIXXER]

Originally posted by Bamaman
you all are my favorites........love woman who know how to feel good

I 2nd that!!

[The_Jarhead]

I've been trying but I just can't get my wife into it. She can't get past the initial pain.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by The_Jarhead
I've been trying but I just can't get my wife into it. She can't get past the initial pain.

Have you tried going really slow with fingers/toys to gently loosen her up before trying to get your cock inside her? Like...for a good half hour?

[The_Jarhead]

We've tried. I got it all the way in once and she got the "have to go" feeling and that was the end of that.
Now she doesn't even want to try again. Oh well...

[Puddles]

If she would have stuck with it, that feeling would have most likely gone away in a minute. Never say never...maybe she'll give it one more try someday.

[Guac-attack]

That having to go feeling is what usually gets me ...... I mean not in a bad way. Ijust want to go but my mate is not into that!

[Roxy]

I love the having to go feeling. My problem is, referring to MrsPuddlesFL's original post, is the messy clean up. I'm allergic to latex and am scared of naturally made condoms. Help!!

[Puddles]

Originally posted by Roxy
I love the having to go feeling. My problem is, referring to MrsPuddlesFL's original post, is the messy clean up. I'm allergic to latex and am scared of naturally made condoms. Help!!

Maybe a latex under a natural? Would the natural slip off that way? Would there be too little feeling for the guy?

[Roxy]

No, that doesn't concern me because it's fingers that will be inserted rather than a guy.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by Roxy
No, that doesn't concern me because it's fingers that will be inserted rather than a guy.

Then what do you have to fear from using a natural condom? STD's won't be transmitted by a finger.

[TrippersGirl]

What I want to know is how do u do it with NO nasty mess and how to do it more often without being so rubbed raw!

[Puddles]

Normally we have sex at night and I empty out every morning, so there's usually no mess for us. If there is a little when he pulls out, a quick shower takes care of it. For sanitary reasons, even if he comes out clean, he should shower before putting his cock anywhere else anyway. I've read that porn stars will use an enema the night before a shoot.

Lube, lube, lube! If you use it, you shouldn't have any trouble afterwards. Lube the outside a bit and lube his cock or your toy very well. Add more if you need to if you're going at it for a long time.

[TrippersGirl]

I'm not big into using lube, but its a good idea

[Puddles]

Hun, for anal it's a must! The ass is not self lubricating like the pussy! Seriously, if you don't use lube you're risking anal fissures which could become a problem. ID lube is a good one. So is Platinum Wet.

[TheStromba]

Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube

I just like the word....

Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube

[Guac-attack]

I heard having too much anal loving create anal leaks.... I mean os that true that it loses elasticity? and maybe like some stuff will leak?

[Roxy]

Originally posted by Guac-attack
I heard having too much anal loving create anal leaks.... I mean os that true that it loses elasticity? and maybe like some stuff will leak?

I've been at it for years. True, I am MUCH looser in that area than I was before I began the practice of anal intercourse, and my sphincter does relax easier baking bowel movements much less painful, but I have not experienced any leaks as of yet ... knock on wood!!

[Puddles]

Originally posted by TheStromba
Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube

I just like the word....

Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube Lube

Bwahahaaaa! I can't wait to hear you sing me the lube song!

You're such a nut!

[Roxy]

I like the stuff more than the word ... especially the variety of flavors on the market these days!

[redMachchick]

Anal Ease works great too...it is a lube that numbs your ass too! I think it works pretty good. BTW I don't like anal, but I do love a good butt plug in my ass while I'm getting it from behind lol