If it's not okay to cheat on your partner....

[Irishgirl]

Then when do some feel it's ok to do it at a bachelor party? (bachelorette too I'm sure).

Going to a strip club is one thing....but I've heard so many stories...one in particular of a stripper at the house rubbing her crotch against the "grooms" face while he stuck out his tongue?? (she has nothing on obviously)

So basically he gave her oral sex? And that's okay to do as long as it's at a bachelor party? To the guys who do think it's ok, would it be ok for your girl to be doing the same?

[Lexi]

Hi, I agree. WHile I dance myself, I think this type of behaviour and disgusting. Its one thing to go to clubs and see the girls, or to have a bachelor party with some fun. However, I do not agree when things get this out of hand. (I do not do bachelor parties for this reason) The guys get out of hand, as do the dancers, and it makes for one big, ugly mess. I dont care if your getting married tomorrow, but there is no reason to cheat. It IS cheating if you are sucking on any part of anyone!
I have seen women suck off men in the bachelorette parties (there are pics all over the place) and this is disgusting. Obviously people dont think about diseases, or their partner for that matter.

I agree, IrishGirl, that this is cheating and it is not ok.

[Irishgirl]

Thanks Lexi! I didn't know you danced, but I think this is where dancers get a bad reputation. I think it's disgusting that there are strippers doing bachelor parties giving oral sex to guys they know are getting married. (although it's far worse for the guys to be interested in it) Don't the girls have any respect for themselves??

[Turbo3000]

It is cheating. Watching a dancer or getting a few lap dances is ok, anything more and that is cheating.

[BIKER_GIXXER]

Cheating is the one of the worst things you can do in a relationship, in my opinion. I couldn't handle wifey going behind my back and messing around. That's why I bring the girls home for her to enjoy. hehe

[ixoye66]

What's interesting is how someone will rationalize it.It's not really cheating if I do this and don't do this.You can label it all you want and set it on different levels i.e.(kissing ,fondleing and so forth), but cheating is cheating.

SIDE NOTE:
What I can't believe after hearing some young people, they honestly believe oral sex is not sex.....Can you believe our society has gotten to the point that even acts a sex are put into catagories of levels, what is oral sex now first,second,third base..pretty shocking.

[Irishgirl]

Originally posted by ixoye66
SIDE NOTE:
What I can't believe after hearing some young people, they honestly believe oral sex is not sex.....Can you believe our society has gotten to the point that even acts a sex are put into catagories of levels, what is oral sex now first,second,third base..pretty shocking.

No shit. I've seen on tv (probably Dr Phil lol I don't remember) about girls who give head to their guy friends just because they enjoy doing it, and obviously the guy enjoys receiving it. Just like it's a damn favor!!

[dial_tone]

It's not cheating if they have prior approval, otherwise it's definitely cheatin.

[JUICE]

like the saying goes "YOU CAN LOOK, BUT YOU CAN'T TOUCH".

[pierced one]

anything physical is cheating. I look told one of my girlfriends, that anything more than holding hands; ie rubbing, kissing (your not stupid i don't have to explain) is cheating. thats that, black and white. I don't understand how people can cheat just like it is nothing. just pisses me off

[Lexi]

Originally posted by Irishgirl
Thanks Lexi! I didn't know you danced, but I think this is where dancers get a bad reputation. I think it's disgusting that there are strippers doing bachelor parties giving oral sex to guys they know are getting married. (although it's far worse for the guys to be interested in it) Don't the girls have any respect for themselves??

Yes hun I agree wholeheartedly. Many girls I work with are just as bad, and I'm talking at the club. Im not saying they do bjs or having sex, but there is talk about some "extras" going on. When you think about it, most of the men who go in are married, and what not, and I guess they dont consider it "cheating". I by no means ever do this, but at the same time, you have to think, "where does the line get crossed?" IMHO, dancers who do this are not even dancers but prostitutes; they just dont want to "bare" the title. (no pun please) lol
Cheating is cheating... lapdances are ok, but when anything else happens, its cheating.
This is why, even though I dance, I would like to BE at my bf's bachelor party because I KNOW how these girls can be, nonetheless how the guys react.
I remember a dancer telling me about how crazy it got at one of the bachelor parties she was in. She said that the "friends" of the groom were all "pitching in" to get the dancer to sleep with the groom. And he was all for it. She did decline, being she has a bf and a baby, but she couldnt believe it. She just pretended that the price was too low. LOL
Sorry for the overly long post.

[hlcn8]

if i shake it more than three times, is that cheating?!? : )

[BIKER_GIXXER]

Originally posted by dial_tone
It's not cheating if they have prior approval, otherwise it's definitely cheatin.

I agree...

[LOCO]

Originally posted by hlcn8
if i shake it more than three times, is that cheating?!? : )

nop, it's playing with urself...