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04-01-04, 04:07 PM
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honesty
hypothetically speaking how many of you would tell your significant other if you cheated on them. would you keep it from them and hoped it went away? would you keep it from them to not hurt anyone's feelings, or would you come out and be honest about it? personally i have been cheated on and have cheated on some of my g/f's in the past. i really was never honest about it until i absolutley had to be. deny, deny, deny, i always thought, but i feel now that my next relationship i will be monogamous and should it ever occur i will be honest. it's only fair. just want to hear some opinions. (not get anyone in trouble)
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04-01-04, 04:30 PM
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04-01-04, 07:29 PM
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Re: Re: honesty
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same here, i would cheat no matter whta on my girl
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04-01-04, 08:51 PM
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I could never cheat. And theoritacally if I did, It would show on my face right away.
I could never live with baggage on my conscience like that.
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04-02-04, 11:35 AM
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I don't think I could cheat at all, anyway. I've been cheated on way in the past, fuckin' sucked. Shitty feeling.
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04-02-04, 12:40 PM
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I have cheated on just about every girlfriend I have ever had!!! I have always gotten away with it too!!! Just in my nature I guess!!! I can't help it!!!
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04-04-04, 12:25 AM
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I always find out if I have been cheated on. Has something to do with intuition, but whatever.
I did cheat on past bf's (I was young as hell) but when I got cheated on, I didnt like the feeling, so I decided I'd never make someone feel that way. Plus mister Doom would have me "wacked" as I'd do to him if I ever caught wind of him doing any of that LOL 
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04-04-04, 12:26 AM
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Oh and to answer the question, I prefer the person to be honest because either way somehow, I will know.
If he's that good of a player, then I will figure that out too... I spend NO time on anyone who disrespects me that way. Cant keep your dick in your pants? Then you wont be getting in mine.
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04-04-04, 08:14 AM
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The idea of being honest is a noble and comendable one, but some things do more harm than good. I understand that if you did creep, and your partner found out about it from someone else, it could get very ugly but that is just something you have to consider before doing it. Unles one is bound by a religious faith, all that is left to dictate monogomy are moral standards. I personally do not overthink things I do. If I were being Freudian I'd say I function mostly from the Id...lol. If it feels good, looks good, or I like it....I do it. I think it is totaly possible to have a great relationship with more than one person as long as everyone understands the boundries and limitations of such.
To answer the question: If your partner won't freak and you are ok with her/him doing the same, tell them. If not, you better keep it on the low and keep your game tight...lol.
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04-04-04, 08:46 AM
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What goes around comes around bro. Perhaps when you least expect it.
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04-05-04, 05:14 AM
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04-05-04, 06:30 AM
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04-08-04, 03:59 PM
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the best way to eliminate the idea of cheating is by exploring your fantasies openly with your partner. that way each of you are honest about your desires, you get to act out your fantasies together, and by doing that your relationship grows and becomes stronger. just my two cents.
i could never cheat, though. i can't lie worth a damn.
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04-08-04, 04:08 PM
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 <----- duh. You have a great woman.
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04-08-04, 04:11 PM
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As far as telling or not, you might as well. You never would have done it if you cared that much about loosing the significant other. I guess my point is, if you go through with it in the first place, something is a disconect with your relationship anyways and maybe it's not ment to be.
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04-08-04, 07:19 PM
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LoL......Well I see your point but Puddles and I have been married 20 years but we only started our crazy stuff the last 2 1/2. For almost 18 years we had a very traditional marriage. Now we are freaks. 
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04-09-04, 11:10 AM
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04-09-04, 11:24 AM
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It amazes me how some guy's run off and cheat on their wives, how is it they can go home and look their wife and children in the face everyday? I mean the same applies to women too of course, some people just don't care I guess. The thing is though sooner or later the husband/wife usually breaks down and admits what they have done, it might not be for a long time but eventually it weighs them down mentally and they spill their guts. And once the husband/wife finds out, well let's just say it won't be pretty for the girl/guy they cheated on them with.....
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