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Old 08-01-04, 12:47 AM
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Most of the hot women here in town are either with some fat slob of a guy or a skinny fuck that couldn't bench press a 45lb olympic bar,this drives me nuts because I'm the only guy in town that is in tremendous shape but yet I'm still single,I'm so tempted to steal some of these hot women from these guys but I wouldn't do that because I wouldn't want that done to me.

I'm seriously thinking of moving out of this hell hole and moving to a place where there are more single hot women then there are guys.
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Old 08-01-04, 02:17 AM
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man i feel your pain all the good women in my town are takin by weakass rich bitches with nice cars and all of that. I kno I could easily take any of them on but I guess Im just not the kindof guy to do that......damn
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Old 08-02-04, 10:14 AM
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Re: This Drives Me Nuts

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Most of the hot women here in town are either with some fat slob of a guy or a skinny fuck that couldn't bench press a 45lb olympic bar,this drives me nuts because I'm the only guy in town that is in tremendous shape but yet I'm still single,I'm so tempted to steal some of these hot women from these guys but I wouldn't do that because I wouldn't want that done to me.

I'm seriously thinking of moving out of this hell hole and moving to a place where there are more single hot women then there are guys.
it will always be the mystery of the world. Lots of hot women end up with guys that don't match them. I have a few hypothesis's.

#1 they don't want to be overmatched by there man, stemming from being insecure. They feel if they are better looking than their man, it will make them look better.

#2 they really are looking for a quality man with a brain and earning potential (not all cases lol).

#3 a drunk night ended up with a pregnancy and they are just settling for what they had because they don't like working for something better.

there is no problem trying to move on a hot girl. just let her know that you are interested, it could be enough for her to dump the guy she is with. if he can't keep her happy no problem with scoopingup the leftovers.
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Old 08-02-04, 01:27 PM
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I'm getting the feeling that it takes a girl that goes to the gym and respects what people do to be in shape. I've just noticed that I get a lot more looks from the people that are in shape and workout than the girls that just look good, but don't do sh!t but shop at the mall and watch TV.
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Old 08-02-04, 06:14 PM
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Heres a thought: Maybe they go more for personality rather than superficial crap like looks. Cos at the end of the day you lose your looks eventually, but the person inside the body remains......
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Re: This Drives Me Nuts

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I'm the only guy in town that is in tremendous shape but yet I'm still single
They could be intimidated by you, especially if they're not used to seeing someone like you. Most people who aren't into body building look at those who are like freaks, especially the really developed guys. Move!
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Old 08-02-04, 08:09 PM
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hypothesis #1 stonecold is right on!!!
Also just remember for every good looking woman out there, there is a guy that is tired of screwing her, think about it. thats why the good looking ones are almost always looking for oportunity. There men get a high ego thinking if I can get you I can do better.

Also looks dont play the biggest role in landing the hot babe?

Here it is everyone? CONFIDENCE!!!!!!
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Re: Re: This Drives Me Nuts

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They could be intimidated by you, especially if they're not used to seeing someone like you. Most people who aren't into body building look at those who are like freaks, especially the really developed guys. Move!


Yeah my ex-girlfriend was turned off by muscles, I guess it was because her brother was well developed. When I started putting on some size she would always have some sort of comment about it...but hey thats why she's my ex...on to the next, plenty of fish out there.

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Here it is everyone? CONFIDENCE!!!!!!
You hit the nail on the head Dundee. Many guys don't get it, but it's all about confidence and getting the girl to feel 'attraction' towards you. How do you do this? There are quite a few ways, but we'll leave that for a different thread.

It doesn't matter if you drive a BMW or a Toyota or if you can lift 45lbs or not. If you aren't attracting women, then it's probably something YOU'RE doing (or more to the point, not doing, which is building attraction), not the girl.

A wise man once said 'If a girl isn't attracted to you, there's nothing you can do about it. But if she IS attracted to you, there's nothing SHE can do about it'

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You hit the nail on the head Dundee. Many guys don't get it, but it's all about confidence and getting the girl to feel 'attraction' towards you. How do you do this? There are quite a few ways, but we'll leave that for a different thread.

It doesn't matter if you drive a BMW or a Toyota or if you can lift 45lbs or not. If you aren't attracting women, then it's probably something YOU'RE doing (or more to the point, not doing, which is building attraction), not the girl.

A wise man once said 'If a girl isn't attracted to you, there's nothing you can do about it. But if she IS attracted to you, there's nothing SHE can do about it'

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Kind of like the saying, I chased her until she caught me!!! LOL
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Kind of like the saying, I chased her until she caught me!!! LOL
LOL!! I like that one!
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LOL!! I like that one!
yeah my dad taught me that when I was young and I follow it. I will chase a girl, make myself known that I am interested and that i think she is all that and a bag of chips, until she thinks she wanted me in the first place. LOL
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Old 08-03-04, 04:03 PM
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I think that could do the opposite however. If you're on her too much, she starts to think your sprung or desperate. So then she kind of keeps you on the back burner as a backup. Best to just market yourself and then play it off a little nonchalantly. I've noticed that girls want you more when you act like you don't really care too much.
that is what i meant, not that I am stalking them or anything LOL
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that is what i meant, not that I am stalking them or anything LOL
Oh, ok. I just saw the part that said making them think they're all that and a bag of chips. Seen a lot of guys get played that way. Girls saying "I got this fool wrapped around my pinky." So, are you using this method on your lady's cousin, too?
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Oh, ok. I just saw the part that said making them think they're all that and a bag of chips. Seen a lot of guys get played that way. Girls saying "I got this fool wrapped around my pinky." So, are you using this method on your lady's cousin, too?
ummm, what are you talking about?? LOL That is a silent attack so far. Just glancing looks at her eyes (as well as her ass and boobs, ). That would be like hitting the lottery so unless I happen to play my numbers right it ain't ever going to happen, but a fella can dream.
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. Best to just market yourself and then play it off a little nonchalantly. I've noticed that girls want you more when you act like you don't really care too much.
You got it beef. Play it nonchalantly, act like you're bored, lol. You don't want to pay a girl to much attention or you start to come off clingly and desperate. That will turn off a girl quickly.

I'll sit back, kick my feet up and act like nothing can distract me, I'm so comfortable in my own skin it hurts (as one person put it). Also, bust on a girl when you talk to her. Poke fun at her, be playful. You'll be surprised at how well she'll respond.
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yes, you guys are right on par but remember when your actually confronted with the opportunity alot of men just freeze up and get nervous. Its natural but has to be overcome or your chances are reduced considerably. Rarely does a 1 liner work anymore, you have to be sincere and let her feel important, if you reach the point of her talking and allaborating about herself you ride on her responces and your half way there. Trust me ...I know it works.

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Instead of trying to bang her on the first night get to be friends first. All your other motives will fall into place!!!
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Yeah, it amazes me how some guys act all tuff and macho, but when it comes to talking to women, they turn into little boys who don't know what to say or how to act.


I wouldn't use a one liner if you paid me, they're so obvious. I may throw a one liner in the conversation as a joke, once rapport has been established, but that's it.
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Also here is another tip?

Instead of trying to bang her on the first night get to be friends first. All your other motives will fall into place!!!

If you're looking for a serious relationship, building a friendship with a girl first will be the best way to go. Girls are not that much different than guys, so just be yourself with them.
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it will always be the mystery of the world. Lots of hot women end up with guys that don't match them. I have a few hypothesis's.

#1 they don't want to be overmatched by there man, stemming from being insecure. They feel if they are better looking than their man, it will make them look better.

#2 they really are looking for a quality man with a brain and earning potential (not all cases lol).

#3 a drunk night ended up with a pregnancy and they are just settling for what they had because they don't like working for something better.

there is no problem trying to move on a hot girl. just let her know that you are interested, it could be enough for her to dump the guy she is with. if he can't keep her happy no problem with scoopingup the leftovers.


i say the same thing bro.




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why is it that some girls say that we are too big. Im only 228 and chicks say im too big. They havent seen big yet.
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oh yeah, is how its done guys........give me some more lessons!haha j/k

seriously though, if it were only that easy!

my experiences are.........you act confident, they think your being cocky and its a turnoff. you stay quiet and act nonchalant.........then your too shy and too boring and this is also a turnoff.
just cant win with the ladies! haha
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oh yeah, is how its done guys........give me some more lessons!haha j/k

seriously though, if it were only that easy!

my experiences are.........you act confident, they think your being cocky and its a turnoff. you stay quiet and act nonchalant.........then your too shy and too boring and this is also a turnoff.
just cant win with the ladies! haha
Thats why I say screw chasing and even thinking about it...... Just be yourself, and if they don't wanna be with you, screw them, their loss...
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exactly bro! what gets me, is these are the same bitches that aren't event that good looking. but then if you hook up with them (being a good looking guy) all the sudden they think there the shit cause they hooked up with a dude, that to them, is just drop dead gorgeous.
but if these hoes wanna lick the high hard one, i'm willing to give them the salt malt all up in there teeth and shit! hahaha
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exactly bro! what gets me, is these are the same bitches that aren't event that good looking. but then if you hook up with them (being a good looking guy) all the sudden they think there the shit cause they hooked up with a dude, that to them, is just drop dead gorgeous.
but if these hoes wanna lick the high hard one, i'm willing to give them the salt malt all up in there teeth and shit! hahaha