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Old 08-24-04, 03:13 PM
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OMG, I've been gone a couple of days and I can't believe all that is here in this thread... Shocking that it is still going... and going...

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Well, I have been sitting on the sidelines listening to everybody's view point on the subject. It shows to me the typical double standard that is going on. It is not OK for BJbabe to be with two men and some of you have been calling her some underserving names. If so, what about the relationship that Stromba and Puddles have. Should we be calling Stromba all the nasty names the BJbabe has been getting because he has slept with two women at the same time? I know most of the guys in the forum would enjoy having a wife like Puddles, but I don't think it is fair to ridicule BJbabe for the type of lifestyle that she wants. This is just my two cents and I hope Stromba, Puddles, or BJbabe do not take offense to this. I am just trying to make a my point.
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Old 08-27-04, 02:45 PM
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Well, I have been sitting on the sidelines listening to everybody's view point on the subject. It shows to me the typical double standard that is going on. It is not OK for BJbabe to be with two men and some of you have been calling her some underserving names. If so, what about the relationship that Stromba and Puddles have. Should we be calling Stromba all the nasty names the BJbabe has been getting because he has slept with two women at the same time? I know most of the guys in the forum would enjoy having a wife like Puddles, but I don't think it is fair to ridicule BJbabe for the type of lifestyle that she wants. This is just my two cents and I hope Stromba, Puddles, or BJbabe do not take offense to this. I am just trying to make a my point.

Thank you for not making me feel worse then i already do. I know that everyone here is just trying to make me realize that i should have thought of my actions before i acted upon them. I dont seem to do that very much!

I just want to Thank everyone that listened and gave me advice about the whole situtation.
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Old 08-27-04, 03:32 PM
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If so, what about the relationship that Stromba and Puddles have. Should we be calling Stromba all the nasty names the BJbabe has been getting because he has slept with two women at the same time?
Not the same bro. Stromba is a straight pimp. Two girls on one guy is just bad ass. Two guys on one girl is just the girl getting pimped. Bjbabe has seen the errors in her ways and i'm sure will be more cautious from now on. Hopefully now, she will stick to only bringing in other women into the relationship.
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Hopefully now, she will stick to only bringing in other women into the relationship.

there's a thought, maybe i'll have you speak to my girlfriend about that.
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No matter, mff or fmm, as long as all three know what is what, its all good. Its the lying part that isnt right. There is nothing wrong with having two men at one time. But I have to agree I would rather mff.
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Old 08-28-04, 01:21 PM
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No matter, mff or fmm, as long as all three know what is what, its all good. Its the lying part that isnt right. There is nothing wrong with having two men at one time. But I have to agree I would rather mff.
Nothing wrong just as long as you realize something...

If my g/f decided to bring another girl home for a threesome I would DO IT and LOVE IT, and still marry her (Might even want to marry her more).

If my g/f agreed to suck off my best friend while I tag her from behind I would DO IT and LOVE IT, but all "long term" prospect have just dropped off the radar.
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Old 08-28-04, 01:25 PM
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Nothing wrong just as long as you realize something...

If my g/f decided to bring another girl home for a threesome I would DO IT and LOVE IT, and still marry her (Might even want to marry her more).

If my g/f agreed to suck off my best friend while I tag her from behind I would DO IT and LOVE IT, but all "long term" prospect have just dropped off the radar.
Or as Beefcake so poetically put it...

The difference between "straight pimp" and "getting pimped"
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Lol. So if two girls tag a guy, they just used him, and thats all good to you?
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Old 08-29-04, 04:21 PM
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Well, I have been sitting on the sidelines listening to everybody's view point on the subject. It shows to me the typical double standard that is going on. It is not OK for BJbabe to be with two men and some of you have been calling her some underserving names. If so, what about the relationship that Stromba and Puddles have. Should we be calling Stromba all the nasty names the BJbabe has been getting because he has slept with two women at the same time? I know most of the guys in the forum would enjoy having a wife like Puddles, but I don't think it is fair to ridicule BJbabe for the type of lifestyle that she wants. This is just my two cents and I hope Stromba, Puddles, or BJbabe do not take offense to this. I am just trying to make a my point.
No offense taken and I agree with your point. I don't know why with most guys a FFM is considered ok and MMF not. Usually when a girl is involved in a MMF scenario, she is the one who's labelled in a bad light, not the guy guys. When the guy is involved in a FFM scenario, guys think it's great. Maybe it's due to a guy's insecurity thinking the girl might be liking the other guy better...or the desire to be the only man in control. Some primal animal instinct that we've yet to overcome. Mother nature is weird at times!
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i doubt so much it's the insecurity, i mean puddles when you and stromba have had 3somes you've never once thought that maybe at that particular moment her body felt better to him? i think it's more the thought of doing that with someone that is considered special. at least from a guy's perspective, i can see women being more insecure about the whole situation. i'm sure any of the guys who've replied here that it was wrong would in fact do it so long as it was just some random girl and not one that they actually have feelings, and care for. we're all sexual creatures and sex is just fun
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"i'm sure any of the guys who've replied here that it was wrong would in fact do it so long as it was just some random girl and not one that they actually have feelings, and care for"


And why would that be. Why can you not care for a girl and help her enjoy her fantasys as well as she will fill yours, that my dear is call insecurity. Men need to do it with no feelings cause involved because there afraid of getting hurt..AAAAAAWWWWWWW Most men hurt easier than women. We tend to embrace things much quicker.
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Old 08-29-04, 08:18 PM
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Most men hurt easier than women. We tend to embrace things much quicker.
than why are we always labeled as insensitive? why do we not express emotions or is it so hard to say "I love you"? by your reasoning about us being hurt easier it would seem as if we put our hearts out on the line as often as women. tell me sunkiss, if we are the ones who hurt more why are we called "dogs"? my post was simply in regards to puddles talking about insecurites and that's the reason why no 3somes with 2 males and a female. what was replied by alot of the males in this thread? it was about not doing that with their gf, or they couldn't stand seeing their gf do that, or if their gf agreed then they'd see her a just some slut, no real relationship would be possible. but i guarantee if they went out with one of their friends and met a girl, went to her house, and she wanted to fuck them, neither would think twice about doing it. i've had 3somes with someone i've loved in the past and my love for her never changed because of it. it's totally possible, all a person has to do is be willing to explore more in life. and i don't understand what does "We tend to embrace things much quicker" mean? is it, say for example, how some women get their hearts broken then go through a phase of being promiscuous to get over the heartache they so "embraced". i've seen it happen, it's actually kind of sad in a way.
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And why would that be. Why can you not care for a girl and help her enjoy her fantasys as well as she will fill yours, that my dear is call insecurity.
well maybe it's the woman that's at fault. let me ask you this, are you in a serious relationship? if so then would you ever tell your s/o that you wanted to fuck him and another guy? and don't tell me women don't think that way because i don't think either one of us are that naive. how many fantasies do you think women have but never tell their s/o. it's just not ladylike is it? would you ever have a 3some with your s/o and another woman?
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Old 08-30-04, 07:41 AM
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i doubt so much it's the insecurity, i mean puddles when you and stromba have had 3somes you've never once thought that maybe at that particular moment her body felt better to him?
Actually, I've never thought that. I've always thought of it as something just different, just as her body is different to me than his is, hers is just different than mine. It's not about who's better, it's about enjoying the differences.

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i think it's more the thought of doing that with someone that is considered special. at least from a guy's perspective, i can see women being more insecure about the whole situation. i'm sure any of the guys who've replied here that it was wrong would in fact do it so long as it was just some random girl and not one that they actually have feelings, and care for. we're all sexual creatures and sex is just fun
I'm just trying to understand here. You say that sex is just fun but you also say that the thought of doing that with someone is considered special and it could only work with a casual g/f, not someone you're in a serious relationship with. Why is that?

What makes it ok for the FFM but not the MMF within a serious relationship?
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wow,heavy topic,i guess it comes along the same thing as when a guy fucks 50 women hes a stud but get a woman to do the same thing and shes a slut,im not into guys but ive had a few mmf acts and thats all they were it was fun the guys just did the straight thing but did everything to the female that she wanted done you cant get real dp with a woman and with guys you also get the finished product that alot of women want(so im told!!) its is wierd and if your homophobic its definetly not a good thing to try cause body parts will brush against each other and if the guys are freinds you get your balls busted about your o face(asshole!!!!! but its all in fun) my wife right now isnt into this life style i wish she was to open her up to a new way of sex but you gotta respect you spouses/significant others wishes,i think it also comes down to being an exhibitionist or voyuer but it is fun, the 2 women thing to me , i kinda feel left out when their doing their thing but thats just me, to close i personally dont find nothing wrong with a 3 some or more some and who evers not comfortable with that lifestyle should not venture into it youse guys are great and keep it up youse have great topics and waiting for the hookup board to open back up your chef dudeski
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I'm just trying to understand here. You say that sex is just fun but you also say that the thought of doing that with someone is considered special and it could only work with a casual g/f, not someone you're in a serious relationship with. Why is that?

What makes it ok for the FFM but not the MMF within a serious relationship?
nothing is wrong with that, in my same post as you quoted from i said that i've had 3somes with someone near and dear to my heart and it's never affected our relationship. actually when it involved another woman as opposed to another guy it didn't go farther than me touching. why? because she said she didn't want me to like the other girl more. but i never objected to her more than just touching. our relationship ended for other reasons, we started to argue alot over nothing, and her attitude towards our relationship went from being happy to hating to be around me i guess. so as long as the two people are in agreement i don't think there will ever be a problem because of it.
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i don't believe that people are calling bjbabe "names" due to her actions. it seems that more people have e taken her to task for her subsequent responses and inability to deflect comments away from her, a la puddles.

most people have taken ALL of BJBABES comments in consideration whe commenting upon whatever melodrama du jour she post here. her inability to just do it and get on with it & her obsession about what her friends may think prompts some people to question what she is doing. there seems to be some thing not being said about her motives and intention about this.

BJBABE, you wouldn't be a catholic or brought up catholic would you? a domineering mother ? passive father ?
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Yes you can, just one of the girls needs to be wearing a strap-on and the two of you can DP her! LOL I love mine.
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Lol. So if two girls tag a guy, they just used him, and thats all good to you?
I am going to out on a limb here, but I think I speak for evey man on the planet on this one...

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Old 08-31-04, 08:54 AM
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...And why would that be. Why can you not care for a girl and help her enjoy her fantasys as well as she will fill yours, that my dear is call insecurity...
I'm not insecure, I just dont want my g/f to tag my b/f.

Look, I dont believe in right and wrong when it comes to sex
All I'm saying is this...

If you get asked to suck a guy's friend off, you're probably not in this guy's "marrying type" category.
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Man, I don't know but I think BOUNCER may have been right.

BJBABE may be ficticious. A thread starter based on bullshit stories that flares people's egoes. These stories are starting to stink.

Either that or this girl needs a mentor to keep her from getting lost.
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