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Old 08-25-04, 04:24 PM
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So I ran into this girl I hooked up with once like 6-7 years ago while I was visiting my parents. She grew up in NY not more than 10 min away from me. She is very pretty, skinny, gorgous rack and is fun to hang with. We have talked almost everyday for the last two weeks and hung out 3 times. Last night we went out and when we got back to my house we fucked like rabbits for three hours.....it was awsome!! They only concern I have is currently she is in court because her last boyfriend beat her up and sexualy assaulted her. So she is obviously very upset over the whole thing and she talks about it alot. I dont mind talking to her about it, but it seems she has alot on her plate which in general concerns me. I really wanna settle down and date someone so I can buckle down and stay away from boozing and focus more on bb'ing and work. She might be the one to do it with, and its certainly headed that way. The best part about this whole thing is she is italian, not easy to find in NH.....
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Old 08-25-04, 04:48 PM
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The best part about this whole thing is she is italian, not easy to find in NH.....
Not trying to be a dick or anything but why does it matter? I know italian girls are hot, but if she's hot...then she's hot no matter what she is. I'd say it's time to go find her ex and smash his ass and then sexually assault him...with a broomstick.
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Old 08-25-04, 04:52 PM
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Call me sentamental or maybe I just wanna make my parents happy, I have always dated girls of different ethnic backgrounds, polish , french, irish, syrian...ect..... being that we are both italian we have alot in common. They way were raised , we both grew up in ny...shit like that...and believe you me , when I find this dickless fuck he gonna get a beating...
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Old 08-25-04, 05:22 PM
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If it doesn't work out for you I will hook you up with my old girl. She is Italian, hot and lives in NH. Your right, there are not many Italians there. Wait a minute... What did you say her name was



If you don't mind saying what part of NH? I went to HS there.
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Old 08-25-04, 05:27 PM
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If it doesn't work out for you I will hook you up with my old girl. She is Italian, hot and lives in NH. Your right, there are not many Italians there. Wait a minute... What did you say her name was



If you don't mind saying what part of NH? I went to HS there.
You're not the old boyfriend are you?
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Old 08-25-04, 05:32 PM
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LOL. No, I have not lived there for 10+ years Kind of sound like the same girl from the way you described her but I'm sure it's not. Just curious about where you were at. Small state.
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Old 08-25-04, 05:43 PM
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Old 08-25-04, 05:50 PM
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Best place to be in NH. Been a couple years since I was there but I alway try to spend a day there when I am home. I miss the ocean.
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Old 08-25-04, 05:52 PM
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...great food also.
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very fun town...too fun at times
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Old 08-25-04, 05:56 PM
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Come to think of it that girl I was talking about is from Dover.

IF it wasn't for the winters I would still live around there.
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Old 08-25-04, 06:45 PM
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whats her first name
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Old 08-26-04, 12:25 AM
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i say fuck up the old boyfriend of hers, cant stand guys who hit girls.
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Just remember every body has a breaking point.

If you ride in like a knight in shining armor and tell her you're going to make the whole world alright, she'll probably believe you...she's at a low point. You fix things too quick and she wont deal with the issues.

You let her down and she might reach that breaking point. You dont want to be around when that happens.

Just something to consider. I am by no means an authority on this issue.
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She may have a lot on her plate right now but that happens to people throughout their whole lives. Sometimes just being there for a person during the hard times is all they have to look forward to. Enjoy the time together, be her friend and lover and take one day at a time. As time goes on and things settle down, you'll discover if she's the one.
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She may have a lot on her plate right now but that happens to people throughout their whole lives. Sometimes just being there for a person during the hard times is all they have to look forward to. Enjoy the time together, be her friend and lover and take one day at a time. As time goes on and things settle down, you'll discover if she's the one.
My thoughts exactly! Make sure and treat her like the woman that she is and let her know that not all men are scum like the last guy!
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Old 08-26-04, 11:55 AM
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Her name was Meaghan.


As far as you situation goes, I would allow her some time to deal with what ever she is going through. She is not going to get over that kind of stuff overnight. A couple of things I would watch out for: Does she have a history of dating assholes? Is this guy still around, calling or harrassing her?
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Old 08-26-04, 12:46 PM
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This actual attack happened 6 months ago, he is around but he is a scrawny piece of shit that would not in his wildest dream think of fucking with me. Not only am I fairly big boy, I have actually fought a couple of his friends back in the day and wiped the floor with them, I think I was only like 165lbs back then..I'm close to 225 now. Not to brag about being tuff or big, I just think he wouldnt try and fuck with her knowing I'm around. The last day of court could be tomarrow, I will know later in the day what the result is.
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This actual attack happened 6 months ago, he is around but he is a scrawny piece of shit that would not in his wildest dream think of fucking with me. Not only am I fairly big boy, I have actually fought a couple of his friends back in the day and wiped the floor with them, I think I was only like 165lbs back then..I'm close to 225 now. Not to brag about being tuff or big, I just think he wouldnt try and fuck with her knowing I'm around. The last day of court could be tomarrow, I will know later in the day what the result is.
I knew a girl who's guy was always roughing her ass up every so often. She would show up with some bruises and i'd ask her about it, and she would lie. Show'd up one day with a black eye and then I knew what was up. I purposely bumped into his ass at a party just to make an excuse to beat his ass. He didn't want to do the damn thing til his boys showed. Fucked up thing is, that after I tore into him, who'd she end up going home with...him. So I just gave up on her. I know he'll stay at bay with you around, but I would still want to face plant his ass in the dirt.
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if the girl has brothers i would do her a favor and tell them, if she does not, then once you get engaged, if you do then it's yours to avenge. don't worry, god will look the other way, no one ever gets away with abuse. especially against a name that ends in a vowel!!!!
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I knew a girl who's guy was always roughing her ass up every so often. She would show up with some bruises and i'd ask her about it, and she would lie. Show'd up one day with a black eye and then I knew what was up. I purposely bumped into his ass at a party just to make an excuse to beat his ass. He didn't want to do the damn thing til his boys showed. Fucked up thing is, that after I tore into him, who'd she end up going home with...him. So I just gave up on her. I know he'll stay at bay with you around, but I would still want to face plant his ass in the dirt.
That is why I was asking if she has a history of dating assholes. Some girls can't do it any other way. They gravitate toward guys that treat them like shit. If they do end up with a good guy that treats them with respect they get bored quickly and go back to what they know. The girl I was talking about earlier in this thread had this tough guy ex that would not go away...he used to rough her up when they were together. One day I ran into him and KO'd his ass. Funny thing was after all he had put her through she was angry with me for laying a beating on him. Not sure but I think they got back together after we got done. Nice girl but had a lot of issues.
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That is why I was asking if she has a history of dating assholes. Some girls can't do it any other way. They gravitate toward guys that treat them like shit. If they do end up with a good guy that treats them with respect they get bored quickly and go back to what they know. The girl I was talking about earlier in this thread had this tough guy ex that would not go away...he used to rough her up when they were together. One day I ran into him and KO'd his ass. Funny thing was after all he had put her through she was angry with me for laying a beating on him. Not sure but I think they got back together after we got done. Nice girl but had a lot of issues.
Yup, they're out there. Girls who need to be handled like that. She got pissed at me as she was helping him off the floor. One of his boys got destroyed by one of my buddy's. He speared his ass into a table and was mashing away on his face. Yea, the girl I knew is still with him. She skipped her brothers wedding because her family wouldn't let him come to it. I don't think soprano is in the same boat though. His girl is in court trying to get away from the fucker.
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Old 08-26-04, 05:22 PM
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No he was never like this at first and I know her previous boyfriend, he would never treat a girl badly...she had always been treated well by men...
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Old 08-26-04, 06:27 PM
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I agree with Beefcake. The fact that she is in court says a lot about her. The type of girl I described generally would not prosecute the asshole.
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I agree with Beefcake. The fact that she is in court says a lot about her. The type of girl I described generally would not prosecute the asshole.
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Old 08-28-04, 03:53 PM
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he was found guilty yesterday of assualt and criminal mischief, he appealed it of course
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Old 08-30-04, 12:20 PM
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over the last few days everything has gone extremely well, dinner with my parents out with my friends everybody loves this girl, and she has seemed to almost completely stop talking about her x. We talked sat night and decided to date. Todays her b-day, I sent her a dosen roses I wanted to keep it simple, we have only been hanging out for two weeks
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he was found guilty yesterday of assualt and criminal mischief, he appealed it of course
So what happens to his ass now?
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