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cockdiesel · #1 09-15-04, 10:23 PM

Ok, heres the deal. I run a carlot and I sold this girl a car. We not only sell the cars, we finance them to. Then after so many payments we transfer them over to a different company. This chick is about 18 and from the minute I saw her we hit it off very well. I was very comfortable talking to her and she was pretty cool with talking back to me. I do lots of deals but this deal was different. I usualy dont get involved with my customers, well actually i never get involved, but i am wanting to hit this pretty damn bad. We have only spoken on 3 ocassions.

1. when i sold her the car, her dad took it for a 30 min. test drive and left her with me. That is how we talked alot. She did mention she had a boyfriend out of nowhere, but that was all she said, she didnt talk about him, she just let herself get amuzed by my jokes and stuff.

2. when she came to get her tag papers. Me and her talked alot again, but this time in front of my girlfriend. But this was the cool thing, i got busy and had to go somewhere else after talking with her (which was for about 10 min. this time) and she actually stayed there to tell me by.

3. Today. Since we transferred her account over, i will never see her again. She will pay the other company now. But she called me today and told me her new cell phone number. She told me dont give it to no one else. I said what do you mean. She said you know like other companies. I said i wouldn't dare do that. But at first i was getting excited. Then 10 min. later she calls back and makes sure i have it written down, she also told me she couldn't talk long because she was at work. So she had to go.

Ok, is this just my head fucking with me, or is this girl trying to say she might be down for something? OR is she just doing the right thing and i'm taking it the wrong way. I mean she always mentions she has a boyfriend, but never really talks about him. Should I call her up out of the blue one day after business hours and strike up a chat, or just leave it alone?

Thing is, what if I do call her, how would I start the conversation being that we only have a business relationship?

Please help. I want this girl.

jmac2222 · #2 09-15-04, 10:35 PM

Did she say where she works? Is it close to anything to you? Whenever in doubt I always ask them to lunch. Lunch is harmless, meaningless, non-threatening. Even if you have a boyfriend you can still go to lunch. If someone you met in a business setting asks you to lunch, that's not a big deal. Lunch is perfect for this type of situation.

Also, this thread should be moved to puddles' playground...

cockdiesel · #3 09-15-04, 10:38 PM

sorry i didn't know about puddles playground. i will copy and paste it there though.

Her work is quite far from me, but she has been at that same job for a while. But lunch is a good idea.

jmac2222 · #4 09-15-04, 10:54 PM

puddles' playground is jmac slang for the sex and relationship section JSYK

decadecadeca · #5 09-15-04, 11:13 PM

Just remember these basic rules:

1-Have an alibi.
2-Never meet in public.
3-Only call from payphones.
4-6' deep and 2 bags of lime.

psyko1 · #6 09-16-04, 01:13 AM

well you could call her up in a couple weeks to see how the new company is treating her, and how she likes the car, from there on it'll be all up to you. but with a name like cockdiesel i'm sure you're a witty guy and it'll be no problem

zachrulz · #7 09-16-04, 06:09 AM

shes obviously into you as well. i would just move slow. you never mentioned where she works...if its a resturaunt or something like that i would go there to eat to try and catch her there and just act casual (well as casual as i could) make it like you just bumped into her. both of you would know better than that but sounds to me like she wouldn't mind. you could do what you said about checking on her car and new company. too bad theres not any left over paper work that needs signing hehe

**Shibby** · #8 09-16-04, 07:22 AM

Well I think your both idiots for going after each other if your seeing somebody, but that's your poragative. Her comments about her boyfriend could be an easy out clause. She would like to hook up but either can't or dosn't want anything more at this point. Psyko's got a good way to approach her and since you know her and no one else here does, it will be up to you to finagle it into something you want.

Timma · #9 09-16-04, 08:04 AM

She wants that cockdiesel bad.

decadecadeca · #10 09-16-04, 08:07 AM

I can't help but remember the car salesman in "True Lies".

meat12 · #11 09-16-04, 08:53 AM

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Originally posted by Timma
She wants that cockdiesel bad.

rvgfrth4g · #12 09-16-04, 10:23 AM

I'd definetly call her for lunch.

cockdiesel · #13 09-16-04, 11:36 AM

Jmacc, she works in a bad, bath, and beyond type store. The sell lots of stuff for the home. But see I can't do a lunch because her job is about 20 minutes away from where I work. Plus I usually dont get to leave for lunch. I have to eat it here.

Psyko: That would be a great idea, I just know before I call her I need rehearse my lines for an hour before hand. One shot one kill, can't mess it up.

Timma: I hope thats the case, lol

DecaDeca: Promise, nothing like the car salesman from True Lies, that guy did have style though, yeah right.

jmac2222 · #14 09-16-04, 12:21 PM

You dont work everyday do you?

Oh by the way, if this is my g/f I will rip your head off and shit down your throat!

but seriously I will...

IMHO If you call her and use the service call bit it will be painfully obvious and you will seem like a sneaky bastard.

Stonecold54 · #15 09-16-04, 12:28 PM

you did say both of you have sig. others right???? LOL

Well I can't blame you because if I had the opp. to hit something gorgeous I can't say that i would turn it down. I know it is a terrible thing but I just don't think my mind could talk me down if some girl came on hard to me.

beefcake · #16 09-16-04, 12:38 PM

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Originally posted by stonecold54
you did say both of you have sig. others right???? LOL

Well I can't blame you because if I had the opp. to hit something gorgeous I can't say that i would turn it down. I know it is a terrible thing but I just don't think my mind could talk me down if some girl came on hard to me.

Ironic. I was watching "rescue me" last night, and they had a guy who was with this girl, who had a teenage daughter. Well, the daughter comes on to the guy, he knows it's wrong, but can't resist. In the end, he loses them both.

Stonecold54 · #17 09-16-04, 12:49 PM

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Ironic. I was watching "rescue me" last night, and they had a guy who was with this girl, who had a teenage daughter. Well, the daughter comes on to the guy, he knows it's wrong, but can't resist. In the end, he loses them both.

ummm, well I wouldn't do that. LOL but speaking of that has anyone seen Beyonce Knowles younger sister?!?!?! She is even hotter than B.

Stonecold54 · #18 09-16-04, 01:03 PM

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I've seen her face, but not her ass and thighs. That'll be the deciding factor.

rent the movie-The Johnson Family Reunion. She is in that. WOW, just WOW!!!!

cockdiesel · #19 09-16-04, 01:28 PM

Jmacc, yes everyday, except Sunday. See this is how I look at it though, the chick is 18, so the dude shes with probably isn't even anything serious.

But Stonecold, your right though, its tough thinking about this girl knowing I have a girlfriend. I just want a one time thing on the side. Dinner, a movie, and a sex. Whats wrong with that? Hell we can even skip the movie and make our own. But then again that breaks decadecadeca's policies.

Stonecold54 · #20 09-16-04, 01:33 PM

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Originally posted by cockdiesel
Jmacc, yes everyday, except Sunday. See this is how I look at it though, the chick is 18, so the dude shes with probably isn't even anything serious.

But Stonecold, your right though, its tough thinking about this girl knowing I have a girlfriend. I just want a one time thing on the side. Dinner, a movie, and a sex. Whats wrong with that? Hell we can even skip the movie and make our own. But then again that breaks decadecadeca's policies.

jeez, you have an extensive affair, LOL. I would just include sex!!! screw the dinner and movie.

dreamgirl · #21 09-16-04, 02:46 PM

I think she is totally into you. maybe her relationship isn't that serrious and she's looking to see if she even likes you before breaking up with her boyfriend. I would call her and ask to lunch. Or take her for a coffee after her work one day. She'd probably like that.

cockdiesel · #22 09-16-04, 03:40 PM

So Dreamgirl, you think she is even though we have only spoken 3 times and this has been over a 2 month period? Thats one of the major concerns.

beefcake · #23 09-16-04, 03:49 PM

Maybe she likes your name. That's enough to get any girl curious.

Stonecold54 · #24 09-16-04, 04:14 PM

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Originally posted by cockdiesel
So Dreamgirl, you think she is even though we have only spoken 3 times and this has been over a 2 month period? Thats one of the major concerns.

depends on the tone and intensity of the conversation. I have met girls that I knew instantly were good to go. I remember one girl I met at Barnes and Noble about 5 years ago. I never ever ever just approach girls. and normally I don't smile at people or even look friendly. But I was just sitting there reading and she walked by me and smiled and it was like getting hit by lightning. I went right over to her table and introduced myself. She was from lithunia and workering on her PHd. We talked for like 15 minutes and then I never saw her again, but those 15 minutes stick in my head because it was so intimate.

beefcake · #25 09-16-04, 04:22 PM

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Originally posted by stonecold54
depends on the tone and intensity of the conversation. I have met girls that I knew instantly were good to go. I remember one girl I met at Barnes and Noble about 5 years ago. I never ever ever just approach girls. and normally I don't smile at people or even look friendly. But I was just sitting there reading and she walked by me and smiled and it was like getting hit by lightning. I went right over to her table and introduced myself. She was from lithunia and workering on her PHd. We talked for like 15 minutes and then I never saw her again, but those 15 minutes stick in my head because it was so intimate.

You didn't get her number? Was her rack making you stutter?