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No I feel sorry for your children and your marriage. There has to be something lacking for both you and your husband to go for this. Everyone has issue's on this planet, and how we deal with them is very predictable at times. Something has happened to you along the way in life to make you feel that this activity is okay. Perhaps you just want more attention because you have had children and you need to feel sexy to more than just your husband, Im not a therapist so I wont delve into all the possibilites, however you know why you feel this way, and it is not ...... just because. For every action their is a reaction, this applys to all things in life, I hope you both are prepared.

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I don't know if I could ever respect my girlfriend if she would have sex with another man in front of me. I wouldn't mind doing my girl in the same room as another couple.....that would be hot, but not sharing partners. There was a time when a friend and I came home from the bar, and my girl was asleep in bed......naked as always. While my buddy was grabbin a beer out of the fridge, I went in the bedroom, took off my clothes and hopped in. She immediately got on top of me, and we started kissing and stuff. Once I was inside her, I yelled for my friend. He came in the room, and she grabbed the blankets to cover up. I pulled them down, and told her to let him see her tits, and to watch us have sex. He watched for a few minutes, and then I asked her if he could join us. She said....."Do you want him to?", and I said it's up to you but it could be fun. "All the while...I was testing her to see if she would stoop that low. She never said anything so, I told him to get ready. He kicked off his shoes, and started to take off his pants, and she said NO very firmly, then kissed me as if letting me know she was sorry for dissappointing me. She didn't because she made me feel very secure. I never told her it was a test, but I did tell her the next day how much I loved her, and would never had let it go that far. I told her I was just drunk, and got a little too freaky. I would never share her with anyone. IMHO, if she would have said yes......My friend and I would have banged her like the hoe she was, and she would never had seen me again. She would have went from the love of my life to dirty slut overnight. The way I see it is.....you search all your life to find that perfect person, and then you're supposed to cherish them. Why the hell would you want to share them with someone else like a cheap whore off the street. Marriage is a sacred bond between TWO people!!
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Biggin I wasnt talking about puddles. The statement still holds true... we act out... for some reason... and generally say.... just because. Strippers dont grow up thinking that is what I want to do, same for porn stars, etc etc etc.. If everyone grew up picture perfect... well that will never happen so we can leave fairy tales for the kids

As a famous Dr Dru has always said it. " Lets deal with reality on realitys terms". That means getting rid of the bullshit... or the just becauses... they rarely exist

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She would have went from the love of my life to dirty slut in overnight.
Let me get this straight. You say to your friend to come in and look at her tits. This is the way you treat the love of your life? You "TEST" the love of your life. I have never seen such a weird bunch of people in my life. lol
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Let me get this straight. You say to your friend to come in and look at her tits. This is the way you treat the love of your life? You "TEST" the love of your life. I have never seen such a weird bunch of people in my life. lol


Dude that is whack too. Making her show him her tits and trying to get her to screw him. Damn Bouncer their goes the neighborhood

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some of you guys just don't have an open mind. DG as long as you're sure that you both are ready have fun. talk about it afterwards with your husband, ask him how he feels. make sure you keep communicating.

as for you all that would think less of your parents because of this what exactly do you think they were doing behind closed doors while you ALL were sleeping? how much foreplay do you think was involved? do you think any less of them now? what if i told you they had sex before they were married? think any less of them now?

DG your sex life has nothing to do with the way you raise your children. frankly those remarks are absolutely childish. your sex life is none of your kids' business. all your children need to know is that mommy and daddy love them.

and one last thing just because YOU may not like it, or YOU couldn't stand to think about it, other people are different and have different desires.
thank you for that. I agree 100%
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There is a big difference between voyeurism, and swinging. Watching-fucking........way different. Okay....I admit......it was exciting to be doing it in front of my friend, but I wouldn't let him fuck her. NO WAY!! My girl is smokin hot, and for him to see her naked aint no big deal. I didn't try to get her to screw him.....I suggested it to see if she would want to. Slutty ass bitches who like gangbangs aren't worth a lifelong commitment, and I wanted to see if her values were where they needed to be. She would go out of her way to make me happy, but even that would be overboard.
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I'm not going to get into a debate here because I've gone through it enough times with other people and when someone has their mind made up there's no changing it.

But I will say...

Some people can handle this sort of thing, some can't.

Some people think it's morally wrong, some don't.

Some people can seperate the act of having sex from love, some can't.

People who don't follow the norm are usually frowned down upon.; people who don't follow the norm usually have a lot of fun.



Every time this subject is brought up it causes trouble!



Please keep this thread tame enough so it doesn't get locked. We're all adults here and should act accordingly without insulting others who don't agree.
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Please keep this thread tame enough so it doesn't get locked. We're all adults here and should act accordingly without insulting others who don't agree. [/b]
It's interesting to hear everybodies opinions on this controversial topic. It's also nice to live vicariously through somebody else!
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Damn right. I am the biggest Archie Bunker mother fucker you will ever find. Guys that have "open minds" are usually fags.
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It's also nice to live vicariously through somebody else!
One of the great things about porn and watching skydiving on TV!

I see stuff all the time that excites me but I'd never actually do or even really want to do myself, but it's fun to watch others doing it.
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This sounds like a bad idea...your opening Pandora's box...it won't be soon till your husband decides on someone else without you....we still are men!
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I'm not going to get into a debate here because I've gone through it enough times with other people and when someone has their mind made up there's no changing it.

But I will say...

Some people can handle this sort of thing, some can't.

Some people think it's morally wrong, some don't.

Some people can seperate the act of having sex from love, some can't.

People who don't follow the norm are usually frowned down upon.; people who don't follow the norm usually have a lot of fun.

Every time this subject is brought up it causes trouble!
I think that sums it up. Everybody is going to have their opinions about how this is a bad idea or a good idea and what potential outcomes there may be. It really comes down to the people involved and, like Puddles says, if they can or can't handle it and if they see it as sex or as love.
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I don't know if I could ever respect my girlfriend if she would have sex with another man in front of me. I wouldn't mind doing my girl in the same room as another couple.....that would be hot, but not sharing partners. There was a time when a friend and I came home from the bar, and my girl was asleep in bed......naked as always. While my buddy was grabbin a beer out of the fridge, I went in the bedroom, took off my clothes and hopped in. She immediately got on top of me, and we started kissing and stuff. Once I was inside her, I yelled for my friend. He came in the room, and she grabbed the blankets to cover up. I pulled them down, and told her to let him see her tits, and to watch us have sex. He watched for a few minutes, and then I asked her if he could join us. She said....."Do you want him to?", and I said it's up to you but it could be fun. "All the while...I was testing her to see if she would stoop that low. She never said anything so, I told him to get ready. He kicked off his shoes, and started to take off his pants, and she said NO very firmly, then kissed me as if letting me know she was sorry for dissappointing me. She didn't because she made me feel very secure. I never told her it was a test, but I did tell her the next day how much I loved her, and would never had let it go that far. I told her I was just drunk, and got a little too freaky. I would never share her with anyone. IMHO, if she would have said yes......My friend and I would have banged her like the hoe she was, and she would never had seen me again. She would have went from the love of my life to dirty slut overnight. The way I see it is.....you search all your life to find that perfect person, and then you're supposed to cherish them. Why the hell would you want to share them with someone else like a cheap whore off the street. Marriage is a sacred bond between TWO people!!
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Hey DG here is a different question are the other woman in this group hot as you?if they are not your husbant is just down gradeing.I know that comment probably didn't sound right but if I have a wife as beutiful as you are I would't have sex with any other woman just because we are swinging unless they are some smoking hot once in a life time apurtunity kinda girls.other wise he would be stupid to do anything less.
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Best thing I've ever read here......

"Damn right. I am the biggest Archie Bunker mother fucker you will ever find. Guys that have "open minds" are usually fags."


I laughed so loud I woke up my wife. Anyway, not that anyone gives a shit but here is my two cents. When I was younger and single I did some voyeuristic shit and some swapping with a girlfriend. I knew she wasn't miss right, just miss right now. So I didn't really care what she did, if I got to watch her with another girl it was all cool. Now, my wife and I have never come close to doing anything like that. I can't even imagine it. When I even catch another dude checking my wife out, I go completely cromag and start asking him WTF is his problem. I could never swap wives. And honestly I don't see how other people can be in love and do that. But you're all consenting adults so hopefully the decision doesn't turn out to be a huge mistake. Just seems like the swinging thing is just smoke from another fire.
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Let's hope she dosen't go through with it bros & siss, and she takes our advice not to, even though I have a feeling she will.
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Let's hope she dosen't go through with it bros & siss, and she takes our advice not to, even though I have a feeling she will.
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She would have went from the love of my life to dirty slut overnight.
all because YOU asked her to fuck your friend huh? wouldn't it be different if she requested it?
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People, people , people.......it takes all types to make the world work!

Everyone of us here has done something that others would say is wrong! Some have injected shit into their bodies, others have snorted , smoked and drank whatever! Others have invited whoever into their bedrooms!Others gamble...and so on! You live, you learn, you move on!

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That went over your head. She was and is the love of my life, BUT if she would have said yes.....then she would have instantly turned into a hoe, and I would have fucked her like one. Get it now?

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all because YOU asked her to fuck your friend huh? wouldn't it be different if she requested it?
Either way. How many girls you know or been with would just come out and tell you they wanted to fuck your friend, or another guy for that matter? Use your head. I posed the question to see if she was slutty enough to do so, or had thought about it. She obviously is a good woman, and worth the rest of my life. Yes....even doing the "test" was stupid, but this was in the beginnings of our relationship almost 3 years ago. We have a son now, and plan to be married by next spring.
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We've been talking to this couple about swinging together for a couple of months. We've gone out 2 times and even ended up at eachothers houses, but no one knows how to start it all. Were all new to this - never tried- and everyone was nervous the last time, and no one wanted to step