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BENCH355ANIMAL · #91 02-14-05, 10:25 AM

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The other couple, because of the husband, they are done with it

I think that answers it.

dreamgirl · #92 02-14-05, 10:42 AM

If we do it again, I'm sure it will be with another couple friends we have. I'll have to somehow find out if they are into it.

Puddles · #93 02-14-05, 12:23 PM

Sorry it wasn't what you had planned but at least you had some fun.

**Shibby** · #94 02-14-05, 01:13 PM

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Be careful. It sounds great and all, but people like puddles that it works out for isn't as common as everyone's fantasy. The first time is never like you expected and can be very diffucult to get past once you have done it.

I'm not trying to say I told you so. Just pointing out that it was kind of normal.

**Shibby** · #95 02-14-05, 01:15 PM

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What about one of the people from the other couple? What of one of them gets attached? There your friends right and what if they broke up because of it? What if one of them starts becoming obbsessed and interfearing with your marriage and family? To me it's better to do it with a stranger if your going to.

and I just want you to keep this in mind, because you may need to help them understand.

BENCH355ANIMAL · #96 02-14-05, 01:22 PM

I wouldn't be surprised if the couple broke up, and then DG's husband starting hinting around that he would like a threesome with you two ladies. Her and him seemed to have really been able to get over the whole nervous thing and got busy no problem.

dreamgirl · #97 02-14-05, 02:07 PM

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Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
I wouldn't be surprised if the couple broke up, and then DG's husband starting hinting around that he would like a threesome with you two ladies. Her and him seemed to have really been able to get over the whole nervous thing and got busy no problem.

I would like that and not be against it.... and yes they seemed to get busy no problem- totally agreed.

Pumpdogg · #98 02-14-05, 03:24 PM

Imagine that... did not go as you planned? Still sounds kinda of weird though. If he was truly wacked out by watching your husband and his wife then I dont think he would have been up to banging her next. Maybe he was not into you, I dunno its jacked however you look at it. I guess it on to the next home wrecking

You should have watched Dr. Phil today, eve though I dont watch the show I saw the preview talking about couples swapping, Im sure he did not approve for some obvious reason.

PD

TheStromba · #99 02-15-05, 05:15 AM

Glad that you had fun hunny.

TheStromba · #**100** 02-15-05, 05:22 AM

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Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
So it appears the other husband wasn't as excited about sharing his wife as yours was. It seems he was unable to enjoy you because he was having to watch his wife enjoying your husband so much. It sounds more like your you and the other guy got to watch your s/o's have sex with each other. I'm glad you enjoyed it, but I can only imagine the problems the other couple are going to have in the future. The fact that he couldn't get hard or have an orgasm shows he is possibly emotionally disturbed by all of this.

I always take much, much more time cumming when we are with another girl.

Just nerves.

And trust me..... I am not emotionally disturbed by it at all.

I agree that this behavior can be an emotional risk, you just have to be mature and confident in your relationship.

dreamgirl · #**101** 02-15-05, 07:52 AM

this is crazy, but I just got some news in....

The wife, she told her husband that her favorite thing about everything was kissing me! Ha.. She told him that she enjoyed fucking her hubby while I licked and kissed both of them and she'd like to try it more that way again, and go a little farther with me. And he said, well that means you'll have to do that with her hubby and DG and she said , yeah I know, I would like to. WOW.. .

I know there were a few of you that think that this is so super wrong and I do understand, but like Puddles and Stromba said, some couples can handle this. I really am not worried at all about this hurting us. We BOTH like it and we BOTH are turned on to it. I would have been the first person to say that 10 years ago, I couldn't imagine actually being OK with my husband being with someone else, but now I am. And I LOVED seeing it. It was so hot I can't even really explain why, but it was.

Puddles · #**102** 02-15-05, 08:17 AM

DG, just make sure the husband is being honest with himself in letting his wife join you two. Give him a little time to think things over. Way cool that she's into you too though! Being with another girl is so different than being with a guy...hope you get to have the full experience.

dreamgirl · #**103** 02-15-05, 08:25 AM

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Way cool that she's into you too though! Being with another girl is so different than being with a guy...hope you get to have the full experience.

So do i!

**Shibby** · #**104** 02-15-05, 10:10 AM

I think he's blinded by the idea of having a threesome with you and his wife. I don't think he will like the idea of his wife with you and your husband. He may be willing to try it, but I know he will (well from expierence 98% of a case like this) regret it and there will be problems on there side. You think it's exciting and all, but try and remain objective and as friends making sure they do what's best for THEIR marraiage also.

decadecadeca · #**105** 02-15-05, 10:14 AM

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"The wife, she told her husband that her favorite thing about everything was kissing me!"

Not to be an asshole here, but he obviously had a problem with it. Did you think she was going to tell him her favorite part was sucking another guys dick?

dreamgirl · #**106** 02-15-05, 10:35 AM

I talk to the husband everyday... we have had major conversations about everything (Sunday, Monday and already some today). He was just super nervous. He apologized to me and he said that he did like what was going on, and was happy it did all happen and he wants to try again. I know that he would tell me if something bothered him. We're so close. He knows I'd be mad if he didn't bring anything like that to my attention. Were all in this for pleasure and not to hurt eachother in thier marriages or in any other way.

I told my hubby that I want a 2nd try with him because I seemed like I didn't get to do that. My husband was like whatever you want. He told me he liked watching me kiss him and wished he could have seen me do more.

**redsquirrel** · #**107** 02-15-05, 10:42 AM

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Being with another girl is so different than being with a guy...hope you get to have the full experience.

Could you divulge a little more info? What's so different?? (Other than the obvious, LOL!) What do you like about it?

**Shibby** · #**108** 02-15-05, 10:45 AM

I don't doubt he thinks that. I'm just saying it's one of those things that are completly different once it happens. Espeacially since you can't take it back or forget about it.

Here is just an example from personal expierence.

I had a best friend and a girl I had been with for 3 years. We decided to get adventurous, and we all got together and did some stuff (not hiim and I for those who want to be stupid) it was great, I really liked it and it worked out. Well some years later (I'm not with my girl anymore) my friend had his girl of some 4 years (now an ex for 2 years after the 4) and we decided to go for it. They were still kind of friends with benifits through this 2 years so there was still feelings. Well all I did is have my penis in her mouth for 3 sucks, and touched her some and kissed on her body while he had sex with her. To conclude he had a huge problem with it and he is no longer friends with her or I. But she and I are still best friends to this day.

Take what you will from the story, I was just wanting to share a common expierence of mine with you.

dreamgirl · #**109** 02-15-05, 10:47 AM

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Could you divulge a little more info? What's so different?? (Other than the obvious, LOL!) What do you like about it?

Well, I know you asked puddles, but what I noticed was kissing her, she had such a smaller mouth and her kisses were very soft and less aggressive. Her tongue was softer and much smaller too. Her skin was softer to touch, and way less hair... lol, ummm -- that's as far as I got, puddles will have to answer the rest....

I jsut think a woman's body is so sexy. To me it's so erotic to think about pleasuring her. I'm very attracted to women- I've always felt that way and never acted on it.

GreekTank · #**110** 02-15-05, 11:23 AM

I just think a woman's body is so sexy. [/b][/quote]

bodybuilder6949 · #**111** 02-15-05, 12:45 PM

about 25 years ago my then wife and I knew this couple and we thought it would be cool to have a foursome.....well they appeared to be into it so one day we got together for some drinks at our house and started to explore. The other female starting sucking me and my wife was getting it anally by her mate. My wife was really giving it to him and seemed to enjoy it ....I also enjoyed the BJ and came quickly in her mouth....well then the trouble started.....the guy pulled out of my wife and the two woman started going at it on the hardwood floor....that was exciting, but what I didn't know is that the guy was wanting to stick me with his penis in my ass. Not being open to the idea, he got mad and ordered his wife to leave.....she did and we did not associate with them again....I later divorced my wife.....

meat12 · #**112** 02-15-05, 12:49 PM

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Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
about 25 years ago my then wife and I knew this couple and we thought it would be cool to have a foursome.....well they appeared to be into it so one day we got together for some drinks at our house and started to explore. The other female starting sucking me and my wife was getting it anally by her mate. My wife was really giving it to him and seemed to enjoy it ....I also enjoyed the BJ and came quickly in her mouth....well then the trouble started.....the guy pulled out of my wife and the two woman started going at it on the hardwood floor....that was exciting, but what I didn't know is that the guy was wanting to stick me with his penis in my ass. Not being open to the idea, he got mad and ordered his wife to leave.....she did and we did not associate with them again....I later divorced my wife.....

sorry to laugh but that story cracked me up bro..

bodybuilder6949 · #**113** 02-15-05, 12:54 PM

but it was't funny back then...Mind you I am very open sexually, but not to that.....It took me by complete surprize.....I knew the guy for along time an didnt know he was into that.....His wife did though....she was smiling while he got behind me....My wife at the time was in her own little world and I had to tell her what happened after...She was pissed becasue she was on the verge of cumming before the shit happened.....

GreekTank · #**114** 02-15-05, 03:38 PM

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Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
about 25 years ago my then wife and I knew this couple and we thought it would be cool to have a foursome.....well they appeared to be into it so one day we got together for some drinks at our house and started to explore. The other female starting sucking me and my wife was getting it anally by her mate. My wife was really giving it to him and seemed to enjoy it ....I also enjoyed the BJ and came quickly in her mouth....well then the trouble started.....the guy pulled out of my wife and the two woman started going at it on the hardwood floor....that was exciting, but what I didn't know is that the guy was wanting to stick me with his penis in my ass. Not being open to the idea, he got mad and ordered his wife to leave.....she did and we did not associate with them again....I later divorced my wife.....

Puddles · #**115** 02-15-05, 04:05 PM