need some ideas

[meatbldr]

Well, I have already asked out every girl I know, and now no one wants to talk to me because they feel awkward because i asked them out once. So I tried the online thing. I got a couple dates that didn't go anywhere. And I already asked out all the ladies on there that I am attracted to. Now there is no one left to ask out online or off. There was a new girl in the gym the other day that I started talking to and when she realized that I was going to ask her out, she ran away. Exhausted the club scene too. And I'm still settin here with this monster boner that won't go away. I am getting tired of rubbing one off all the time. Where else do single ladies hangout?

[meatbldr]

Maybe running some gear will make me look better and I'll get a date sometime

[johnstephenson]

Not to sound mean but you sound like you r coming off desperate, that could be scaring them away.

[Shibby]

Originally posted by meatbldr
Maybe running some gear will make me look better and I'll get a date sometime

[CiViC SpiKeS]

Shit i wont lie thats one of the reasons im doing it.. Im sure theres more you that just wont admit it..

Looks will definately help i think but without good game you cant get anywhere.. Thats how u see these tiny skinny bastards with hot girls with bombs from hooters and shit. If you look average and some nice game u can go places.. Ill admit my game is weak when it comes to a certain point with women.. but thats another topic.

[meat12]

lol
You sound like you need to work on your confidence bro, I have a buddy like that who makes it so obvious he justs wants to get laid that the woman can tell every time and he never gets any.

Just act like you don't care either way with a girl, if she wants to talk to you that's cool...and if not then move on to the next. Be confident and the women will come.

As for you monster boner, try using your other hand

[meatbldr]

Yeah, your right, I need to just start playing it cool, like I don't give a shit. And I think maybe I am to quik to ask a girl out. Makes me look desparate. I'll just try to talk more shit and read the reactions better.

[phatchopper]

you over analyze everything, just chill the fuck out. Say hi to a girl in the gym one day then try to strike up a convo in a couple of days and if that goes well tell just ask her what shes doing over the weekend and if she says she has plans or something drop it, if she says "nothing" there you go man, ask her if she wants to get something to eat or go to a movie or come up with something creative. You could always buy a motorcycle, easiest pickup line in the world " You want to go for a ride on my bike" and if she jumps on your good to go, theres your first date out of the way. But seriously dont try so god damn hard, just play it cool.

[meatbldr]

OK, thanks

[THE BOUNCER]

You sound like a weirdo to me. When women are running away from you there is something wrong.

[phatchopper]

you know they run away from you too

[NYCmitch25]

Just curious how old are you?

PLAN A
Im guessing you wouldnt win a Brad Pitt "look-a-like" contest. This advice isnt needed for everyone. This is for you. Lets start. So your game has to be on ALWAYs. Ill explain. At the gym/bar Ditch the "STAFF" shirt and get some good threads bro (designer shit - spend some fuckin cash) YES I SAID GYM. Now Hygene-buy some good colons/bodywash, brush your teeth/dentist visit, get a haircut/shave. Never have bad breath - im not kidding about this NEVER. Optional-Lie about a trust fund or corp. job and rent a Porsche911. Play the role AS IF it was yours and its true. Practice on Big girls, then need lovin too. Tell her you have a big dick. Lie.

PLAN B
Join a church-anyone will do. Churches have single groups. She wont care what you look like (could be goodlooking if your lucky) as long as you love god/jesus or Ala. Youll meet a nice wholesome broad but your still have a boner... well at least till you marry her.

PLAN C
edit - remove [Become a serial rapist]
Stop being the weird/creepy guy. Relax dont force things.

[NYCmitch25]

Originally posted by THE BOUNCER
You sound like a weirdo to me. When women are running away from you there is something wrong.

[JUICE]

Originally posted by THE BOUNCER
You sound like a weirdo to me. When women are running away from you there is something wrong.

[meatbldr]

Well I don't think of myself as wierd. But maybe i'm coming off that way. I'll work on that.
I thought about doing the church thing. But I wouldn't know what to say if I got asked to prey or something like that. Oh yeah, i'm in my mid 30's. Got any ideas on how to scope out the best churches for broads?

[THE BOUNCER]

Originally posted by meatbldr
Well I don't think of myself as wierd. But maybe i'm coming off that way. I'll work on that.
I thought about doing the church thing. But I wouldn't know what to say if I got asked to prey or something like that. Oh yeah, i'm in my mid 30's. Got any ideas on how to scope out the best churches for broads?

church thing? what exactlly is the church thing? lol

[NYCmitch25]

Review PLAN A carefully. This is the easiest and most important thing you can do to up your chances. Do exactly what I wrote...have you? Some off its a joke of coarse. Your going to have to spend money on yourself dont be cheap.

The church thing would be much easier if you were religious already. I dont think you want to go down this road unless you can be convincing. Are you religious. Plus youll feel like a scumbag. This is easy to get involved in call or ask around.

Laundry mate is a good place to meet chics.

I think your misunderstood or come off the wrong way around women. Doesnt mean your weird persay. You may get nervous and say do the wrong thing.

Ok I feel like Dr.Phil. Im done.

[meatbldr]

Well, my family is religous, but i never felt comfortable with it. The church groups always seem to start off with preying. And I just feel like such a fake during that time. And the church people also look at me strange and make comments about my size. Always ask about working out or some shit like that. But I do like the quality of ladies, maybe i'll just deal with it.

[enohcity]

thats pretty fucked up..going to church to get some pussy!? lol.. honestly, if its that bad and u cant get anything, get a hooker..

[Primal Instinct]

I don't think that a person can be attractive to members of the opposite sex until they are happy with themselves first. Put your own house in order and then things will pretty much fall into place on their own. No one wants to date someone who appears desperate- I think that it would make them feel as if they are being "settled for" and no one wants that. As for physical looks, women are attracted by a man's physical attributes initially but personality and character is what keeps their attention.

Girls don't want to be around guys who are constantly watching other girls walk past. Eye contact when talking to them is important. Don't be jittery or too anxious. Women and men both want to feel comfortable when around a member of the opposite sex. They certainly don't want to feel as if they are a part of an agenda and you are going through the steps solely in order to get laid. Maybe they don't realize it so much on a conscious level but they certainly do on the subconscious level. Take things slowly and let them develop. No one wants to be forced or rushed into a decision making process about a member of the opposite sex. Good luck.