help please!!!

[diplomats]

ok this is the situation i find my self in. I have been going out with my girlffriend for about 3 years and in those three years i have not spent quality time with her, cuz of gym , studies and work. There were time that i would not call her for a month and then she would call me but i would not take time to talk to her. She just started talking to one of her close guy friends for about 2 months and he recently told her that he wants to be more than a friend to her and she says that she told him that i was her first choice and that if i were to ever wanted to pick up were me and her left off that she would choose that to her guy friend. She just moved to her own apartment yesterday and i have been trying to call her since she would not answer her phone or nothing and then i texted her but still notin. i then found out where the apartment is and drove by there yesterday only to find the her guy friends car outside parked next to hers. she told me last week that he got kicked out of his parents house.

I am loosing her i know it and it hurts verrryyy bad, because i just figured out that i am madly in love with this girl and i will do anything to get her back. please i need help on how to go about this i do no want to loose her.

[diplomats]

does somebody please help?

[meatbldr]

Well, it sounds to me like she may have already slept with the guy. But if you still want her back, all you can do is tell her how you feel and buy her some flowers or something when you do it. Don't forget to kiss her passionately. That's all I know to tell you bro. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

[Shibby]

Originally posted by meatbldr
Well, it sounds to me like she may have already slept with the guy. But if you still want her back, all you can do is tell her how you feel and buy her some flowers or something when you do it. Don't forget to kiss her passionately. That's all I know to tell you bro. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

after all your posts, why in the hell do you think someone would listen to your advice.

[Puddles]

Diplomats, the only thing I can say is if you're ready to put her as a priority, to make that commitment to her, then tell her how you feel. Be honest with yourself though, don't just do this because you're afraid of losing her to another guy, do it because you want to be with her. Maybe she'll choose you, maybe not, be prepared for the worst.

[JUICE]

its hard bro, really u said u really never had time for her because of gym, school, work. If my girl was on ur shoes it be hard. To me she seems to have a good heart because shes waited this long for u bro. But in a way it ate her up u not being around for her that much. Now that someones stepped in the picture its hard for her now. She's probably feeling lonely and needs comfort. So she turns to him. Confused and all. I say go for it bro, if u still have strong feelings for this girl and she does too, go and try to get her back. Tell her how u feel about the situation. Go out with her all day and explain to her, just tell her what the cause was, schoo, work, and gym. U love her so much, dont let her slip away bro. Try to talk to her about her guy friend, that its bugging u. Dont be afraid to tell her man, just let her know. Try spending more time with her cause she will slip away if ur not theier for her, she will look elsewhere.

Just try that man, and keep us updated. If u need help i'll go to H-Town to beat the shit out of the guy, lol j/k. Dont give up on her bro

[hlcn8]

i was in a spot like this once, and it took me a while to realize it but what i really had eating me up was that I was losing her. if it hadn't been for that i probably wouldn't have cared. i'm not saying this is your case bro, but make sure you know what's in your heart and how you really feel before making a commitment to it and asking her to do the same. best of luck bro.