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#1
08-08-05, 03:08 PM
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I have a big problem
Ok. I met this Girl like a month ago. Appearance wise, she is PERFECT. 4'10, blonde hair, blue eyes, skinny as a rail, with some nice little fake boobs. she is SO fun to be around with and shes wild as hell. Im in love with her. She has a SERIOUS drug problem. She does cocaine almost every day. I used to have a big problem with it, and i relapsed with her last night. FUCK. Ive never loved a girl like this before and ive been crying all morning and i know i cant be with her, but i HAVE TO. what am i gunna do????
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#2
08-08-05, 03:13 PM
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RUN LIKE HELL!! A woman isn't worth a drug problem--appearances come and go, so looks are temporary-but a drug problem can be forever. If she loves you, maybe she would quit for you--doubtful, but possible. Has she used for a long time?
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08-08-05, 03:18 PM
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I think so... Every time we are seen together we are always told how perfect of a couple we are...Cuz im 5'4,and Ripped to shreds and shes 4'10 with a perfect bod, and we both got blonde hair...Such a shitty situation. Im going to try my best to get her sober, i tryed taking her to a meeting and she didnt go. Then she didnt call me for a few days.
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08-08-05, 03:59 PM
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Drop it like it's hot bro. You're not in love, you just think you are cause you're liking the ride. It's only been a month. Either you can take the chance of riding the ride till the fun runs out and possibly end up really falling in love and being fucked, or you can cut your losses and move on before you both go down, cause sooner or later with that habit, she's going to start letting herself go and she won't be this perfect girl that you think she is.
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#7
08-08-05, 04:42 PM
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well you can either forget her and have a few weeks of pain becuase you miss her. OR you can stay with her and ruin your whole life. your choice bro, become a coke head again or dont. its that simple.
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08-08-05, 11:15 PM
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You are not going to change the chick. That doesn't happen. If you value your health and your life then leave. Don't compromise yourself for ass. Use your head bro.
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#9
08-08-05, 11:21 PM
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Just remeber something about anyone that has a drug problem. You are never clean, you are only sobre as long as it has been since your last time doing it. The mental addiction is only something you can forget about, but it never goes away.
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#10
08-08-05, 11:58 PM
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hey slash, just forget about her brother. Your 20years old or so, theres alot of other
girls out there man. U will be amazed how many single girls there are out there. At least you get to know what shes like and if shes worth it, seems not. If you says shes a coke-head, how does she get it and who gives it to her. What if she takes money from u while your not there or seeing. You will be amazed to see what some chicks do to get that shit, ive seen it and heard of it here in town. Chicks will actually fuck for coke. Nah, just ditch her bro, concentrate on working out, building your body and when you least expect it, the one girl will come.
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#11
08-09-05, 05:46 AM
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Slash, sorry but you know what you have to do.
Part of the emotional hardship is knowing that she's hooked and although you want to help her because you care about her, you know deep down it is not gonna work and if anything, it'll just put you back to where you were before you stopped using. You've only known her a month, 4 weeks is all it took to get you sucked back in with that shit. Leave now because you know what will happen if you stay. Good luck, stay strong and get sober again. Also, you may want to go to a few meetings yourself right now. Hugggs.
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08-09-05, 09:07 AM
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08-10-05, 07:42 PM
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are things getting better slash? hope things are working out for the best.
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08-10-05, 11:12 PM
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Dude, the proof that she is going to suck you down into the gutter is as clear as day:
YOU ALREADY USED!!! You're already back to square one because of her bad influence on you. Don't walk away...RUN!!!
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08-11-05, 09:57 AM
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Run! Get to da choppa! Everybody get down!
Take Arnold's advice, bro. Get your shit together and take control of this bad situation by avoiding it all together.
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08-12-05, 11:24 AM
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ok well i havent hung out with her since last sunday, but ive still been talking to her...havent broke it off yet but its going to be saturday cuz we are supposed to go out...i already know what im going to say etc....and i went to 2 meetings and yes im sober....Im not even going to try to get her sober because i know its not going to happen, so im just breaking it off completely. Thanks for your concern guys.
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#18
08-13-05, 11:45 PM
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good choice, cocaine is no joke....if you were saying she was smoking weed everyday, i wouldn't even be concerned but coke isn't a drug to fuck around with...
and if you really are in love with her.....whether you love one of your friends, your family, your girlfriend or wife, NOTHING in life is worse or even compares to losing that person you love....and if she's abusing coke every single day then her days are numbered till she snorts one line too many and ends up in a grave somewhere
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08-16-05, 10:32 AM
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Hey bro I hope you figured it out by now. It doesnt matter how good looking she is and you as a couple because if you go down that road you could wind up dead or in jail then the only girl you will have is Bubba.Its not worth it! I have known good looking women that got involved in that shit when I was growing up and trust me they look it and their lives suck. Dont look back bro.Think of your future.
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