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09-14-05, 03:15 PM
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she wants 2 guys
we have been together for 2 years. And have had 3 somes together with another girl. But now shes wanting to try it with another guy???? we both really love each other and i told her that i would be up too it. she doesnt think ill be able to handle it. but i think i can? any advice on this situation? she told me her fantasy was with 2 guys sooooo i told her i would do it for her.
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#2
09-14-05, 03:25 PM
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And I'll even pack her shit for her to leave.. :dancingne
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09-14-05, 03:38 PM
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I'm sorry dude, but I couldn't do it. Nor could I stomach sharing with another guy. Get her a blow up doll. That would have to suffice.
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09-14-05, 03:51 PM
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I couldn't do it either. For one, I wouldn't want to see my girl with another dude; I would never get over it. Second, a threesome with another dude would feel to queer for me. Nothing against gay people, I'm just not one of them.
WM
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09-14-05, 03:55 PM
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Is she asking for a threesome to where you and the other guy have to get it on too, or is she asking for you two to pull a train on her or something?
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09-14-05, 05:51 PM
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she wants me and another guy to do her. but ive never been in a threesome anyways. And she has never done it either. I think its just bullshit talking out of her ass type stuff. when i comes right down to it i dont think it will happen. But she said she would do me with another girl? so im just going along with what she wants i guess.
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09-14-05, 06:06 PM
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Aren't you the dumbass that posted this stupid ass thread too??? Alittle Mixed UP! Don't tell us it's the same girl. 
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09-14-05, 09:38 PM
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I luv 3 somes, it keeps my urges to stray under wraps, considering my gf doesnt consider that girl cheating it works out ok K
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09-15-05, 01:43 AM
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It's not that bad. We've had many MMF, FFM, MMFF. As long as she loves you and you can handle it, it's all good. If you can't handle it and your very jealous, I would'nt advise you taking that step. You have to distinguish between love and sex.
Me and the wifey's been together for 10 years and our marriage is as strong as day one. It's all about trust.
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#10
09-15-05, 08:47 AM
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Unless you're really sure that you want to do it, don't do it yet.
If the thought of seeing your girl with you and another guy turns you on, then you're heading in the right direction for a MMF 3-some. Don't do it just to fulfil her fantasy because feelings can be hurt pretty easilly afterwards. Don't do it to repay her for giving you a FFM 3-some, it's not about who did what for who so now the other person has to repay them. The next time you are having sex with her, try to imagine another guy there with you two. If you get even more excited with that thought then it may be a great experience for you but if you start to lose wood you definitely have some doubts. 3-somes can be really great as long as everyone understands where the others are coming from and what the rules are, gotta make sure the 3rd party understands this as well as you two.
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09-15-05, 10:23 AM
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please change your user name. your no dallas cowboy. maybe a 49er but not a cowboy. the tuna would smack you! good day sir.
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09-15-05, 10:30 AM
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09-15-05, 12:36 PM
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no it's not queer, and i highly doubt she wants you and him to do anything together. but like P said if you don't already want to see her with another guy then it probably won't work.
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09-15-05, 06:54 PM
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Here's another view, a gay one. In college I was engaged to a lovely young woman -- I loved her a lot, but I was still a gay person (different levels and kinds of love, right?). We had sex, all of it was successful in that we both achieved the Supreme Moment, thank you very much. But I was then, like now, *completely* homosexual. Even though every fiber in my being was geared toward being attracted to and excited by men, when Willie gets excited and demands stimulation, he'll do willingly whatever it takes to bring that incredible tension to it's natural conclusion. In other words, I'm a big homo, but I had great sex with a woman. No big deal. For that to occur, it is exactly like a completely straight man having sex with another guy, only in reverse. If the 'ro can get past the imposed guilt or decades of negative reinforcement of a guy never, EVER touching another guy, orgasms can be mind-blowing, just like many times with my ex-fiancee. Of course, many of you guys will feel the absolute need to respond to this with sincere, loud and vigorous denials that it would never happen and all that, just to make sure that all your friends and family know that you do, indeed, like vagina. That's OK -- it's what you've been taught to do.
But if Dallas Cowboy has an honest interest, what you can your wife/girlfriend do in the privacy of your home (with whomever you wish), it's perfectly fine and wonderful, no matter what anyone says. And, like the ever-wise and rational Puddles advises, don't be pressured into anything you feel uncomfortable with. You could take a wonderful relationship and irreparably damage it. Talk it all out beforehand, *in detail, if need be. If you DO end up (pardon the pun) having the MMF threesome, just enjoy what comes your way (again . . . ) and don't feel guilty. Pleasure is NOT as bad as certain politicians and religions would make us believe. Who knows, DC, you (and anybody else that has the balls to try it for themselves) could open a whole new world for yourself and your special lady. Just my two cents.
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09-15-05, 07:59 PM
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And that's what this kind of thing is about, having fun...you're just really, really horned up while doing it. 
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09-15-05, 08:11 PM
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09-16-05, 09:32 AM
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FUck that bro, thats a whole different ball game that you shouldnt even consider playing.
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09-16-05, 09:35 AM
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I don't ever remember being taught to like vagina. I don't care how horny I am, playing with cock ain't gonna get me off. I have nothing against homosexuals, just stating you either are or you aren't.
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09-16-05, 02:33 PM
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Goossteady, denial duly noted!
Beefcake, THANK YOU! You've said exactly what I've been stating all my (out) life. When I hear the charge that gays and lesbians have (consciously) made a choice to be attracted to their own gender, I always fire back with the question: Were YOU (as a het) given that choice, to choose what your sexuality would be? Of course not. No one is. Like you said, you either are or you aren't. But what I meant by being taught, in our society, guys are firmly and (often) aggressively and viciously taught (by word or deed, by peer, authoritative, or parental pressure) to fervently deny ANY male-male relationship or response of any kind other than, say, as a friend (or a parental one). I'm not saying it's wrong. It IS, however, unfortunate when your average straight guy can't even bring himself to admit to finding another truly good-looking guy to be handsome or built (but, this being a bodybuilding forum, the whole concept of guys, however unabashedly breedery they are, watching other scantily clad men bulge, sweat and pump away is, to say the least, confusing and ambiguous to some). You see, just the simple, uncomplicated STATING of the fact that a man is blessed with an attractive body or face is suspect in a society like that (ours), unless a man is possessed of an unusually strong and secure sense of self worth. That's why, when powerhouse 48 states right out "that you shouldn't even consider playing" the MM or MMF game is, I feel, wildly unfair to someone who MAY be considering even tentatively admitting to being curious. "Curious" does not mean "gay", or even bisexual. For me, when someone flat out bashes you for something like curiosity of this sort without having ever tried it themselves to see for sure, it's a gross malignment. I, for one, CAN say I've been in both worlds, what with my early dalliance with hetsex. It was good, sure, in the way that masturbation is cool; but it's not sex with someone who truly does it for you (male or female), and blows your head off (yeah, I meant it that way). I say let the experimentation begin! PS -- Puddles, I think I love you (but not in that way)!
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09-16-05, 09:19 PM
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i've never had a threesome because i'm far too jealous of a guy...i'd probably go insane on the spot
however, if i was to have a MMF threesome I would probably prefer my girl choose a guy at a club or something like that rather then someone we're friends with allowing one of your friends to have sex with your girl is probably not the best of ideas...go with a stranger maybe some would say that's bad advice, but i THINK that's what i would probably do if i had to
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09-18-05, 10:26 AM
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fog hat whats your deal. anytime u get a chance you fire back at me about something. Did i do something to you in a past lifetime or something? BTW Georgia SUCKS.
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09-19-05, 06:07 AM
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10-07-05, 11:03 AM
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I have a totally different opinion and one that makes a whole lot more sense in real world relationships. I find it hard to believe that the average woman out there is sincerely interested in sharing her man with another woman or man. We have all seen what happens when two women that both think they are their guys only lover only to find out otherwise (cat fight in the worst way). But, I do think that most women would talk to their guy about a threesome even though they are not really interested. Hint: Your girl is TESTING you. She does not want a threesome - that is a man's fantasy. The woman's fantasy is to find a man that loves here beyond comparison. A man that is truely interested in her. A man that talks to her and truely understands her. Her fantasy began when she was much too young to even know what sex is. Her fantasy is about true love. Your girl really wants to hear you say that she satisfies all your desires and needs and that your love for her is immeasureable and will never be tarnished.
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