How soon is to soon

[urso8up]

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[rude]

I would say call the following night or in 2 days, so you wont look eager yet you wont look like you dont care at all

[urso8up]

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[dreamgirl]

this is so funny, I think it depends on the type of girl she is. I expected a call THE NEXT DAY and when guys didn't call that soon, it felt like they weren't into me. BUt i am an attention type girl. I like reassurance that the guy is into me.

ON THE OTHER HAND:
My sister hates when guys would call and call her... too bothersome.


So, you'll have to take a chance that you are doing what the girl needs. I thin more often than not, girls are like me and like constant attention.

[urso8up]

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[sana]

Originally posted by urso8up
Ok question If a woman gives you her number and wants to go out sometime. How long should you wait so you don't look like a jackass calling to soon.

don't be a tool and play those lame games. if you're interested call. i HATE the "wait and call" game. it's retarded.

[Tinfish]

I agree with Sana. If you dig her, call her up. If she is going to judge you negatively for calling too early, then she probably has other issues that will be bothersome to you down the line.

[urso8up]

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[obscured78]

go rent "Swingers"

[edvedr]

Originally posted by Tinfish
I agree with Sana. If you dig her, call her up. If she is going to judge you negatively for calling too early, then she probably has other issues that will be bothersome to you down the line.

i agree with both of them, and tinfish makes a good point about her judging you!!

[JUICE]

Originally posted by rude
I would say call the following night or in 2 days, so you wont look eager yet you wont look like you dont care at all

yup like that, domt sound too desprete

[edvedr]

Originally posted by THE JUICE
yup like that, domt sound too desprete

unless you call her from your cell right after you meet her, when you call has nothing to do with sounding desperate. how you act and talk to her makes you sound desperate or not.

[JUICE]

Originally posted by edvedr
unless you call her from your cell right after you meet her, when you call has nothing to do with sounding desperate. how you act and talk to her makes you sound desperate or not.

blah sorry bro wrong word. I mean as in calling her like 2-3 days later. Cause some girls you call them right away and thier all like damn, I called my girl like 1 day later, making her think that I wasnt too mich into her when I really was. I just didnt want to blow my chances with her. And rightnow weve been toeghter 1 year and 5 months.

[Hollywood]

Call her two days later

[Kayak Jones]

More than 1. Less than 3. split the damn difference. If she sounds annoyed then burn her (she might be a witch)

[VeggieLifterGal]

No one ever heard of the 3 day rule here?

3 days is the longest you should wait to call, and according to some people, exactly how long you should wait so as not to appear desperate.

[hitmansb]

Call whenever you want to. Odds are, it's a part of your personality whether you call right away or a little later...so you might as well just do what comes naturally to you. If you end up going out, she's going to get to know you anyways, so it's better to start off being genuine.

[Lax9Chic]

I say call the next day... I'ld be flattered if a guy called me the following day after I gave him my number

[gymrat]

Do whatever you think. Don't leave messages like the guy from Swingers though. I'd wait a day or two.

[alwaysgrowing]

always call the next day, makes her think your nice. then dont call for a week after that