The Art of Felatio

[Puddles]

OK...sometimes you get someone who really knows what they're doing and sometimes you don't. Please share in detail what makes felatio good for you.

[phatkid77]

well. it is always good as long as they try!!!!!

but lots of saliva
hand stroking while she sucks
rubbing my balls
stroking my ass (i know!)
telling me how much she wants me to cum/taste me
swallowing

[alwaysgrowing]

i prefer to put a pillow on the ground, have her kneel, and just got to town.






























jk

[batteryreqd]

I love it when she hand strokes it up and down as her mouth goes up and down on it. Then she uses her tongue to lick up and down the backside of the shaft all the way down to the underside of my balls. Light flicks of the tongue on the head drives me crazy too. Sucking on the balls (very gently please) is very pleasing as she strokes me. Shes not one to swallow much as she enjoys watching it fly out while shes stroking me off.

[jipped genes]

dont use the teeth and dont accidentally drag them on the head that hurts.
and do it with the lights so i can watch and look up at me with my cock in your mouth, right in my eyes.
damn i am gettin horney thinkin about it.

[sana]

the best piece of advice i picked up from my gay boys: "deepthroat"

[alwaysgrowing]

all honesty, skip the sucking. i get bored.

[Puddles]

Thanks for the great comments so far...keep them cumming folks!

Since I've only been with my husband for 20 yrs. now, I know exactly what gets him off but just like for women, the same thing doesn't work for every guy, so all of your comments are appreciated here!

I had asked about this on another board a few months ago and found some new things to try with him...one that he liked was as I was going down on him, my tongue would move in a figure "8" across the head and down the shaft.

Also, a varriation of mouth temperature is nice. Ice vs. a hot drink, alternate the two once in a while.

[The_Jarhead]

Originally posted by sana
the best piece of advice i picked up from my gay boys: "deepthroat"

The deeper the better.
The Hot/Cold thing is great to.
I for one don't get as much from having the head licked. I'd rather deep, long, wet strokes.
I love when she will suck bot nuts in her mouth and roll the around. Just don't suck to hard.
light licking on the sack and the area between the sack and asshole is real nice too.

Go get some of the Altiods mint strips and put in you mouth is gives a great feeling.
BTW guys this works VERY well on women as well.

[Puddles]

Anyone here that can perform deepthroating really well? I know there are tricks to avoiding the gag reflex...maybe someone can ellaborate on that.

[sana]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
Anyone here that can perform deepthroating really well? I know there are tricks to avoiding the gag reflex...maybe someone can ellaborate on that.

no way to overcome the gag reflex other than to work at it. i will say that if i intend on giving a good job, i will go down and gag. the general consensus is that the gagging reflex it self is a nice feeling for the guy, plus, it produces an increase in saliva and makes everything wetter. some guys LIKE to see the tears roll down you face as you go down on them...

i asked - i guess hitting the back of the throat is a similar feeling to hitting the back of the vagina...

i'm surprised MrsP that you've never tried to deep throat Stromba?

[rock]

Felatio= good






twisting motion with saliva drenched hand......as with any oral sex, the more the person is enthusiastic the better it is.....

[Puddles]

Originally posted by sana
i'm surprised MrsP that you've never tried to deep throat Stromba?

I hadn't tried up until fairly recently and have just been able to overcome the reflex myself but I'm not sure how. LOL So...I was hoping someone knew why. I think I'm just keeping my throat more relaxed and not focussing on it too much.

[Shibby]

Try and breath through your nose only maybe. I know if you hold your breath you can stick your finger really far down your throat. But personal I havn't had any memorable head. So as of now I'm with alwaysgrowing on this one. But I understand that if you get a woman that has talent that it can beat sex.

[rock]

damn^^^^

that sucks....if you find the right girl....it is awesome

[Puddles]

Originally posted by Shibby
Try and breath through your nose only

That's a given. LOL I can't imagine breathing through the mouth and giving head at the same time! No wonder it hasn't been memorable for ya yet.

We gotta find Shibby a good girl...or two.

[AsianPersuasian]

Mrs. P...just concentrate on putting your tongue to the floor of your mouth and try to swallow "it".

I like to play around and lick it for a while then go deep and swallow the whole thing. hmm.....

[Puddles]

AP...I'm gonna have to wake up hubby in a bit and give it a try...I think the tongue being at rest is what I did the last time I was successful instead of trying to stroke it like usual. Thanks! Viva la BJ!

[Shibby]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
That's a given. LOL I can't imagine breathing through the mouth and giving head at the same time! No wonder it hasn't been memorable for ya yet.

I don't know if that's what chics have done. It's not my job to know what's going on, just to enjoy it :p I just havn't had anything memorable to where I think of Bj I think of a certain person.

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
We gotta find Shibby a good girl...or two.

Sounds like a hell of a plan to me.

[TheStromba]

Originally posted by MrsPuddlesFL
AP...I'm gonna have to wake up hubby in a bit and give it a try...I think the tongue being at rest is what I did the last time I was successful instead of trying to stroke it like usual. Thanks! Viva la BJ!

You did not wake me up ! Now I am up and U are asleep !

I need my morning BJ.

[TheStromba]

I like it slow. Fast is fine too, but if it is too fast, I won't cum. When your hand follows your mouth, that drives me crazy!

My balls are ultra sensitive, so play has to be very gentle.

I usually cum so hard that I HAVE to be lying down. If I try to stay standing, I lose my legs and end up on the floor anyway.

A few times, after my head cleared, I could not even remember how I got on the floor. Great head puts me into orbit !



Any women wanting to polish up on their technique, feel free to contact us.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by TheStromba
I need my morning BJ.

You got it.

Sana...I did the flattening of the tongue and just relaxing again...yup, that's workin for me. Thanks!!!

[Puddles]

BUMP for more ideas.

[dreamgirl]

not to brag but I've been told by 2 different guys (including my husband) THat I give the greatest oral & they preferred it to vaginal sex.

What I do? HMMM... I think its changing it around, licking, sucking, lightly using teeth, changing positions & I have ALWAYS swallowed... I'm not into anythign messy.

[Puddles]

Sana...look what I found!

How To Deep Throat


Here for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on how to deep throat a penis. Position is important; you'll want to in position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position for beginners is with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach along side. You can prop yourself up on your elbows.

The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can't stress this enough. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it is well lubricated. Once you're in position, slightly tilt your head back and extend the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. Flatten the back of your tongue just as you would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat. (Extending your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Force your throat open as you would if you were yawning. (contrary to popular belief, you don't 'relax' your throat muscles to perform deep throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening for the penis to enter).

Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you can. Eventually you'll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat.

One thing to remember is when you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance and will need to give a little extra 'push' to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you r