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#1
09-02-03, 04:08 AM
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Swingers
Right, now I know Mrs P and Stromba share a bit and 'ol Timber is keen on this topic, but how about the rest of you?
Hubby and I have tossed the idea around a bit, however we still wonder whether it will be a let down to try out the fantasy, does it then become not so exciting once you've done it? Do you think it would be better with strangers or people you know? Or is a 3some better? Do you think it could ruin a relationship long term? What if one of you was really attracted to the 3rd party? Give us the Goss..... 
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#2
09-02-03, 05:57 AM
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i would entertain the thought of having another woman with us but i dont think i could share my wife with another man.
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09-02-03, 06:37 AM
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Just to clarify...we don't swing. We only do 3-somes where another girl is involved.
I already have a man who satisfies me better than any new guy could so I have no interest in being with another guy, but I am bi so getting together with another girl is fun and different. Hubby is straight and enjoys (as probably any guy would) being with 2 girls at the same time. So, FFM 3-somes work well for us!We enjoy the chase almost as much as the deed itself, but we've never done it with a stranger. It's hard to find someone who you can trust. You've got to make rules...and stick to them. If someone breaks a rule, foriveness and understanding are key in getting beyond it. If one of you feels it's not working out then you both have to be willing to stop and listen to how the other partner feels. Yes, it can ruin a relationship...not just for the couple, but if friends are involved, you may wind up loosing the friendship in the end if things go sour. If things go sour, it is hard to get over it, but as long as the couple is strong, they can work past any issues, just like any other part of their relationship. On the other hand, it can really be so much fun...and hot! If you can truly seperate your feelings of love and intimacy from sex...to enjoy it for purely the sexual gratification, the heat of the moment, thrill of it all...then it may be for you. Just keep it all in perspective and it should work out well. 
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09-02-03, 08:13 AM
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Thanks Mrs P, never meant to imply you do swing, my apologies if it came out all wrong. ;0)
I agree with you totally with regards to "rules" being discussed and keeping it all in perspective in terms of it being sexual gratification. May I ask you if you ever get jealous watching your husband with another woman? If you don't want to answer I understand. ;0)
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09-02-03, 08:51 AM
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No, if I got jealous then we'd have to stop. To me it's a twofold pleasure when I'm watching him with another woman...one is seeing the gratification he gets from being with someone new and the other is that it's like watching my own private porn. Most of the time I'm participating rather than watching...however it is awesome to get completely wiped out, take a break and get to watch them go at it right next to me until I'm recovered enough to join back in the game.
 Same thing goes for him...there's only so much physical activity a person can do before needing a break...he'll get to lay back while the girl and I are busy having fun too. It's just a great time for everyone involved! Having a "helper" is excellent...I really enjoy it when two of us are both working on pleasuring one person...that extra mouth and set of hands comes in handy. 
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09-02-03, 09:19 AM
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MrsP, what are your 3-some rules for you and Stromba?
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09-02-03, 09:39 AM
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We do what's known as soft swing. and that is pretty much reduced to girl play. Watching, some touching, but mostly it's for the girls to play. Remember it's the women who make the rules anyway when it comes to this stuff!!!
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09-02-03, 09:42 AM
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gawd damn, what a lucky man
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09-02-03, 10:19 AM
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Rule #2 - If something bothers either of us we need to discuss it. Rule #3 - Have fun! We don't have rules like...no kissing, etc.
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09-02-03, 10:26 AM
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Sounds like you two keep pretty busy
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09-02-03, 01:31 PM
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 Thats awesome, I admire how happy you two are - lots of hard work to get a relationship to where the 2 of you have it!
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09-02-03, 04:08 PM
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I admire your candor Mrs P- I know if it were me, there is no way I could get over the jealousy and feeling that he is cheating..I don't even know if I could ever come to enjoy watching. I have a lot of respect for you, girl!
And I know sonis WOULD NOT allow another guy to nail me!! So for sure no swinging..
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09-02-03, 04:14 PM
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I'm into the solo swinging concept. Wait, I guess that's called cheating.
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On my way for the day I find no sorrow Everyday is all the same there's no tomorrow And I feel like I feel Cause it's cold here where you left me Hey I think that someday I might need you somehow I, I think I might have loved you These things I said but you were A million miles away A million miles away On my way for the day I find my heart is not for taking And I know it's all but gone It only served to make me cry And I feel like I feel Cause it's black here with your memory On my way for the day I find no sorrow
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09-02-03, 07:09 PM
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Ha ! I just got a hard-on reading my wifes posts.
We have alot of fun with the chase like Puddles said. We are not nearly as active as Y'all probably think we are. We like to check out chicks together, talk about who we wanna get in bed. Talking about it is half the fun. We are SO secure in our relationship that jealosy is not really a problem. We have been married forever. She is everything to me. We grew up together. The act of sex could never compete with that. We have not done a stranger yet and I am not sure that I could. I like to enjoy someones company a bit first. If I do not know a girl then all I am doing is using her body for my own pleasure. A great concept on paper but not for me. We have fun on these boards, because we know that most people do not have relationships like us. We enjoy the questions and the flirting. It keeps life exciting. Some people like to play golf. - We like to fuck. It's very simple, really.
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09-02-03, 07:49 PM
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 You're too much! I love you! 
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09-02-03, 11:38 PM
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09-02-03, 11:39 PM
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Howcome solo?
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09-03-03, 07:30 AM
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Like Puddles and Stromba My wife and I don’t swing but do enjoy sharing another woman. And that is how we look at it. We are not sharing each other with someone else we are sharing them. We do have rules that we have discussed and both abide by.
1) We only play together. Although sometimes it is just the girls who play I am there. Not all women like to be shared and we understand that but going off by herself is cheating. I’ll let them do their thing and I enjoy watching. 2) If either one of is uncomfortable for any reason. Things stop right then and there. 3) No penetration between me and the other woman. Giving and receiving oral for everyone involved but the only pussy my dick goes in is my wife’s. We know our rules and never break them never even wanted to.
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09-03-03, 08:32 AM
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On my way for the day I find no sorrow Everyday is all the same there's no tomorrow And I feel like I feel Cause it's cold here where you left me Hey I think that someday I might need you somehow I, I think I might have loved you These things I said but you were A million miles away A million miles away On my way for the day I find my heart is not for taking And I know it's all but gone It only served to make me cry And I feel like I feel Cause it's black here with your memory On my way for the day I find no sorrow
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09-03-03, 10:50 AM
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Ok, i wasn't going to post cause i was going to leave it up to AP to post on this thread. But now she told me she won't and i can if i want to.
Well anyways, I let AP get with another girl not to long ago. She was curious so i said got for it! But i wasn't goign to get involved. Cause i woulnd't want another man touching her, as she woulnd't want another girl touching me. So i told her to go ahead hook up with the girl if she wants. Unfortunetly the girl wasn't experienced. So AP didn't think it was as good as what she thought it was going to be. But i told her if she got with an experienced women then she would probably love it. She doubts she'll ever do it again. But she said unless it was with Alley Bagget or another REALLY hot girl. But who wouldn't though! LOL 
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09-03-03, 02:04 PM
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swinging dolo is the way to go. no drama
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09-07-03, 08:53 PM
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