Questions about my girlfriend

[new231]

My girlfriend of over two years has claimed from the beginning of our relationship that she has never once in her lifetime masturbated. I have told her many times that I do it and it is natural for any man or woman to do it. But she still insists she never has. Is she lying to me? She is 20 by the way.

Also, what is up with this. She has never once wanted me to go down on her in any way. No touching or oral given to her at any point in our relationship. I have told her that I have pleased woman in the past, which I have, so I know what I am doing. She said she had a bad experience with some guy when she was younger, but that was many years ago. Any suggestions to get her past this mental barrier that she has put up on these issues. I have told her many times to relax and I will put no pressure on her, but she just doesn't want to.

Lastly, she doesn't mind at all giving me oral. She has given me the best head I have ever received and she does it as often as I want. She even gets freaky with the cum if you know what I mean

[hitmansb]

Sounds like someone taught her she was 'dirty' down there in her childhood, and she's carried the mental baggage since. If that's the case, it's very believable that she has never masturbated.

[Tinfish]

My sister in law states she has never masturbated either. I cant believe this is possible but i guess as Hitman said, there could be somethin in the past that is keeping her from fiddling the banjo.

as far as her not letting you work the speed bag, i think it is a timing and trust thing. just let her know that you REALLY want to do it and keep reinforcing that statement by respecting her when she says no. eventually she will let you do it and you will tongue that speed bad like marvelous marvin hagler and you guys wont be freaks anymore

[Puddles]

Believe it or not, a lot of women don't masturbate. I didn't do it much myself when I was that young. A lot of women can't get themselves off either, so they just give up on it.

One of my best friends is in her mid 40's and we've discussed this. She's never had a toy, doesn't masturbate and basically just lets her husband have sex with her out of obligation...she doesn't really enjoy it and she doesn't like him to give her oral, but she gives it to him. I told her I'm giving her a vibe for her birthday this year.

[Trojanmn2]

Speaking of Obligation Mrs. Puddles, right now I'm trying to think of a word that means something similar to that. My g/f wants to do it but believes in her definition of obligation is to being forced to something, and she doesn't want to. There's no problem in the sex we have. But her definition of the word is wrong, probalby due to a past of using it in that "context" My question is, what IS a word that means being forced against her will?

[JUICE]

my girls doesnt and said she wouldnt, all she needs is me

[Shibby]

Originally posted by Trojanmn2
Speaking of Obligation Mrs. Puddles, right now I'm trying to think of a word that means something similar to that. My g/f wants to do it but believes in her definition of obligation is to being forced to something, and she doesn't want to. There's no problem in the sex we have. But her definition of the word is wrong, probalby due to a past of using it in that "context" My question is, what IS a word that means being forced against her will?

ummm Rape?

Task
Duty
Requirment
responsibility
indebtedness

[Trojanmn2]

Originally posted by Shibby
ummm Rape?

Task
Duty
Requirment
responsibility
indebtedness

lol yea rape is the big one, but I'm looking for a word similar, but doesn't involve sex. See the words listed above have commonalities but they involve the choice to do so in the first, place, I'm looking for a word that involves having to other choice BUT to comply, (i.e. surrender, slavery, etc.)

[Shibby]

capitulate
relinquish
submission
helotry
subjection
duress

[Puddles]

Originally posted by Shibby
submission

Mmmm...I like the way that one sounds...kinda sexy.

I think duress is what Trojan is lookin for.

[The_Jarhead]

My wife and I have friend who never masturbated. But she did enjoy both getting and receiving oral. When she joined the Air Force we bought her a toy as a going away present when she got stationed in Japan. She told us she does it a lot now and wishes she had started sooner.
She comes back into town soon I can’t wait. We miss her.

[trip]

One word: PORNO

Okay, just joking, never know though.

Sounds like she is saying the truth, and yes it's common as other point out.

And like hitmansb said, thos mental walls are toughies.

Good Luck