update on told my girlfreind...

[getsome]

I used to tell my wife, girl friend or whatever. Now I just keep it to myself.

[anatole]

It sucks... but the rest of the year cant be worse, doesnt it? As we say here, one (girlfriend) lost, ten to be found ...

[BrickShitHouse]

Sorry to hear about the break up Ecto. She'll regret it and come back to you saying how sorry she is.....don't fall for it. There are los of good ones out there bro. Hang in there. BSH

[Mudge]

3 years and has a big mouth? WTF over.

[woodard]

3 years and she goes off and does that? Bullshit. I told my fiance and she wasn't happy about it for about 5 minutes. Then I got all kinda lovin because I had been honest with her. Bro, there are good ones out there. You'll find one.

[spidey]

I guess that's why you shouldn't tell girlfriends..

Maybe it's just me but breaking up with someone you have been with for 3 years over something like this seems harsh. It's not like she called the cops and had you arrested or something; she just blabbed a secret is all. If you are going to break up with everyone who makes a mistake and blabs something they shouldn't, you will be alone for the rest of your life. Do you love her?? If not then oh well; go out and get another one but if you love her, that was harsh. Damage control isn't all that hard. Just have her tell people that you had a spat and she just said shit to get back at you or something. If nothing else, this little episode will impress on her the need to keep quiet about it.

[hitmansb]

Spidey...I have to disagree. A bigmouth is a bigmouth...plain and simple. This type of person is likely to air private matters of all kinds that are supposed to stay within the confines of the relationship...and that is not something most people are willing to tolerate. I have always respected women who play their cards close to their vest, so to speak...discretion and loyalty are two very important qualities in a person.

[herodatus]

Keep em in the dark. For your good and for their good. I dont know how many times I have read and seen for myself this nearly exact story. You owe your woman the truth about most things. You owe them a lie about gear. IMO

[Mudge]

I would personally want to know WHY she told everyone, what is her reason. We dont need to know, but if you are not ready to 'throw away' 3 years I would at least ask her WTF she was thinking jeapordizing your FREEDOM like that.

You do what you want with your body, it is NOT someone elses business and apperantly she didn't think of that.

[Pumpdogg]

There is no damage control for that. I am going to have do diagree with you as well spidey. If she does that now, what will she do later? If they will do it once they will do it again. Its human nature. Sorry about your mishap though ecto, there is nothing to get u over old pussy like new pussy. Forge on soilder

PumpDogg