Are you both satisfied and happy with how often you have sex? If yes, how often is that? If no, what satisfies you vs. what satisfies your partner?
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Do you and your partner have similar sexual appetites?
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her sex appetite sux... once in a blue moon it's good, most of the time i dodn't even think she has any... she's 25 and apparently she's still "not at that stage yet where her sex drive goes through the roof"... i don't know.. i just can't imagine her "with a crazy sex drive"...
it's really rare right now..... and 99% of the time it all has to be done properly, we can't get too messy, we always gotta follow certain steps, etc... reminds me of having a dinner at a restaurant...
couple of times she'd suprise me with like telling me to pull the car over and do it either in the field or on the hood of the car... and things like that... but in a year and a bit that happened only like 2-3 times...
sofar i still don't care about it (lack of versatility)... when i'm in the mood for something else, i usually ask her and she says ok most of the time... but after like 5 mins she'd go back to the same old routine...
another thing that frustrates me a lot... is oral sex... i don't know if she hates it or what, but i haven't been allowed to go down on her once in a year and a bit, and she only gave me one (and a half) bj... (apparently her 1st one too)
i tried talking about it, teasing her about it, trying to move down when i'd be slowly lickicking/kissing her stomack/hips, but every time i get few inches away from it, she'd pull me up... that drives me crazy every time she does it..... i also begged her many times to do it for me... and she keeps saying she will but never does... one time (i don't know if she was joking or not) she said that according to how many years we've been together that's how many bj's i'll get per year... (we just started our 2nd year)
also, one more thing..... she says that girls with crazy sex drive are only the ones that have been abused/assaulted when they were younder... cuz 2 of her friends that do it a lot, have been abused when they were younger...
that's BS, that means that like every 2nd female out there was sexually abused... but apparently she's right cuz she has proof too... (in my oppinion it would be the opposite?)Last edited by LOCO; 02-11-04, 11:51 AM.
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for the most part we do but latly we have been off. If one of us want's to other is not feeling well or tired. plus we has been so busy lately it's like we have to find time to schedule it that really doesn't make it much fun.
Don't get me wrong it's good but it's not the same when you have to go "OK after my workout on tomorrow before we head out for what ever we have some time lets try and get quick one in."
Thing should calm down soon I hope.
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Loco- I know what you mean here. Nothing like sex in the movies...too predictable and routine...even if we start out wild, she seems to lose it quickly and fall in to the same pattern.and 99% of the time it all has to be done properly, we can't get too messy, we always gotta follow certain steps, etc... reminds me of having a dinner at a restaurant...
To answer the question, no. I would like sex 3-4 times a week and she'd be just as content with 3-4 times a month.
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