Question about using vibator in anal sex?

[Froggie]

The only time I had any anal is when a guy stuck his penis in me for a few seconds. It hurt but started feeling good but I was starting to shake so he quit. But my bf wants me to use a vibator and I am up for it all but am curious... Do you cum? I mean what actually happens? See he wants me to try it before he does it with me b/c he don't want to hurt me, ya know?

[Puddles]

Yes, if you enjoy anal, you will cum! It will likely give you a stronger orgasm than usual too. However, some women just don't enjoy anal and never cum from it. It's definitely worth working on IMO.

Starting out with a small vibrator is a great way to go. Please remember to use lube. Sillicone based lubes like ID or Platinum Wet are better for anal than water based lubes. Go slowly for the first few minutes until you're comfortable with going faster. If you're starting out with a small vibe, you may not have any pain at all. My orgasms from anal are more intense than vaginal or clitoral orgasms alone. Once you get beyond the initial pain the pleasureable sensations are incredible and will probably lead to orgasm fairly quickly, especially if you give your clit some attention at the same time. I like to play with my clit at the same time as I'm having anal...it all just feels so wonderful combined. Just experiment with yourself and find out what feels good to you, then tell or show him what you like.

After you've used the vibe on your ass and you've been able to take his cock in your ass you might want to try a DP (Double Penetration) by using a vibe in your pussy when his cock is in your ass...it feels wonderful for the woman and the guy will feel the vibe on his cock inside of you as well. Him giving you some oral while he's got the vibe in your ass will also be fantastic. You could 69 him...you above him with your mouth on his cock, his mouth on your pussy, and a vibe fucking your ass. Mmmmmmmm!

Just a reminder, anything that's been in your ass must be cleaned before it goes into your pussy. Even if it looks clean, it should be washed to remove any bacteria or you could wind up with a vaginal infection. If you're using condoms, just change the condom and you're good to go. :)

Froggie, after you experiment, come back and let us know how it went!

[Stonecold54]

I love reading your posts MRS. P. :D I am going to print them off and leave them on my girls pillow. lol

[GearTripper]

Originally posted by stonecold54
I love reading your posts MRS. P. :D I am going to print them off and leave them on my girls pillow. lol

yea no shit huh :agree:

[Puddles]

Awww...you guys are so sweet! :kiss:

[Froggie]

Is it perfectly normal to be nervous MRS P..?? Using Vib anally....And is it normal for you to shake? It hurts yes but feels good... but I shake... i have gone all they way in yet.... it that okay or should I...??

[Puddles]

I guess it's normal to be nervous to some degree. If you're so nervous you're shaking but you want to continue on with it, try having a glass of wine first and relax and maybe put on some music like Sade. Some people get shakey when they're excited too. Just relax and you should be fine.

[redMachchick]

Re: Question about using vibator in anal sex?

Originally posted by Froggie
The only time I had any anal is when a guy stuck his penis in me for a few seconds. It hurt but started feeling good but I was starting to shake so he quit. But my bf wants me to use a vibator and I am up for it all but am curious... Do you cum? I mean what actually happens? See he wants me to try it before he does it with me b/c he don't want to hurt me, ya know?

Your boyfriend has the right idea, working with something smaller so you can get used to the feeling first. You will cum, most girls say they cum harder off anal. A good trick to wait till you are very much aroused before you even start to do anal, and try is to play with your clit while he is going in.....being highly aroused helps it feel better. It usually helps me to have some good vaginal intercourse first! In my experience, the first few minutes are not pleasant for me and if I play with myself, it subsides.

I personally do not care for anal sex, though every now and then it is okay. But I do love a small butt-plug in my ass while he is fucking me...it feels SoOOOO good! Now that is a great orgasm!! That is something you can try to work yourself up for the "real thing." This is usually what I do before anal, it makes it a lot easier, I think. Hope this helps!!!

[Froggie]

Mrs. P the Advice has helped alot thanks!

Lets just say "its all good" I'm taking it slow like you said until I am comfortable. "well my BF loves it when I tell him step by step, how I do it and what happens, etc. He said beside oragasm, and cuming something else should happen? What is he talking about? He says I'll but, I want to know now lol... wondering???

[Puddles]

Good for you, Froggie!

I don't know what he's talking about, so when you find out, let me know. Sounds like you two have a fun relationship. :)

[GearTripper]

Originally posted by Froggie
He said beside oragasm, and cuming something else should happen? What is he talking about? He says I'll but, I want to know now lol... wondering???

he's probably looking forward to the "chocolate splatters" that might possibly occur. :confused:

[house1]

he's probably looking forward to the "chocolate splatters" that might possibly occur.

:rofl: