anyone been to one or used one......
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I never heard of a woman actually using a glory hole, but I know that they are popular with guys mostly in bathrooms & video parlors.
Alot of my gay male friends told me lots of stories about using them. Some of it was pretty graphic stuff!:O
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Alot of straight guys use them to get a quick blow job from gay guys in XXX video booths at adult video arcades. I guess it allows them to get off anonamously while not actually making them gay as long as they don't touch. This probably is a result of wives or girlfriends that refuse to do oral.
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Why is that so gross....whatever floats people's boats...it doesn't mean you have to engage in it. I don't engage in this either, but please explain to me how this is any different that people going to bars to pick up strangers specifically to have sex. Unprotected sex in either case is GROSS, but as long as it's two consenting adults, and they are practicing safe sex, then I see nothing wrong with it. Unless of course they get caught doing something in a public place. lol....but then again, people gay and straight risk having sex in public places all the time.
People are quick to judge and say "oh that's gross" because they personally don't agree with what someone does because they don't understand it.Last edited by Cory; 04-07-04, 08:38 AM.
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I think it's gross
If you can't look into someones eyes while getting some then I think it's gross.
Just because someone does not agree, do not be so quick to say that they do not understand it.
I have just as much of a right to think that it's gross as you do to say it is ok.
Because my opinion is different does not mean that I do not understand. You know damn well I am not ignorant.
I understand perfectly.
That is my opinion.
The mall where I work has a problem in the mens bathroom. They have to constantly plug up the hole in between the stalls.
Sometimes I have to go in there while someone is getting a fucking hummer. The police raid the bathroom about once a week.
I did not realize that it was called a "Glory hole"
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Everyone is entitled to their oppinion.Originally posted by Cory
Why is that so gross....whatever floats people's boats...it doesn't mean you have to engage in it. I don't engage in this either, but please explain to me how this is any different that people going to bars to pick up strangers specifically to have sex. Unprotected sex in either case is GROSS, but as long as it's two consenting adults, and they are practicing safe sex, then I see nothing wrong with it. Unless of course they get caught doing something in a public place. lol....but then again, people gay and straight risk having sex in public places all the time.
People are quick to judge and say "oh that's gross" because they personally don't agree with what someone does because they don't understand it.
Like you said, unprotected sex is GROSS. Well, typically, the guys using glory holes are unprotected, therefore IMO it is GROSS, not to mention unsafe.
You think that because a person doesn't understand it, then that's why they find it gross? Sorry, Cory, but I fully understand it, there is a thrill of having someone you can't see and don't know suck you off but I just find it disgusting, just like I find bukkake and people shitting on one another disgusting, glory holes IMO are gross, however there are many people that find those things erotic.
What's different about going to a bar, meeting someone, then having sex with them vs. walking into a stall, sticking your dick into a hole and having some one you can't see suck you off? HUGE DIFFERENCE! When you're in a bar you talk to a person, look at them, you spend some time getting a feel for what the person is like but when you use a glory hole there is no physical attraction towards the other person, no communication, no foreplay or teasing, it's simply sticking your cock into a hole and having who knows what suck you off. Chances are that if you saw that person face to face it is not someone you'd have been attracted to under normal circumstances.
Everyone has their own comfort level, just because one person's comfort level is different than someone else's does not mean they don't understand it, it's just how they feel. Some people like broccoli, some don't, it's not a matter of understanding, it's a matter of personal taste.
This forum is for the discussion of all kinds of sexual matters. Everyone is entitled to their oppinion. Just because someone doesn't agree that a topic is their cup of tea does not mean that they should be expected to be quiet about it. If someone likes or dislikes something, they have a right to express their oppinion as long as it's done respectfully.
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As much as I think the word "deviant" is over-used and mis-used, I think it does apply to glory holes. Sex, IMO - I'll say it again IMO - is about connecting with someone. Glory holes are about getting off. And while I can understand the objective, it is deviant in that it msplaces the objective. Even fetish and roleplay are about connecting and interaction...but not glory holes.
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