can guys be the biggest A-holes sometimes?

[JUICE]

just sad.

[Scotland]

The guy fails to realize the greatest gift he can his children is to love their mother.

Children identify anf objectify the immedaite relationships they see and are very sensitive to strife. They may not understand the emotions and it can lead to trauma that festers into something horrible at a later stage in life. I am not a psychologist . . . but I did sleep at a Holiday Inn Express last night.


DG, count your blessings for fidelity. The world has some dark corners. Hopefully this woman has a strong support structure or may be able to glean something from the forum that may help.

[mick-g]

Dreamgirl, I think most women would feel as you do, but you have to consider, what was their past relationship like? Was she frigid, did she fufill his needs and visa versa? How much did she put into their sexual relationship and did she really try to please him? I know these questions seem bias, but i hear far too many women complaining about the same thing ( Why is he always looking at other women. He doesn't think i look good etc....) why not try to be alittle more open to trying new things and maybe getting alittle sexy for him once in a while. Yes there are men who just like to screw around, but there are some who have just given up on trying to improve on something that other partner will not partake in. PS: You are an exception, as you are beautiful and probably alittle more open then the typical wife.

[LOCO]

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[LOCO]

Originally posted by mick-g
Dreamgirl, I think most women would feel as you do, but you have to consider, what was their past relationship like? Was she frigid, did she fufill his needs and visa versa? How much did she put into their sexual relationship and did she really try to please him? I know these questions seem bias, but i hear far too many women complaining about the same thing ( Why is he always looking at other women. He doesn't think i look good etc....) why not try to be alittle more open to trying new things and maybe getting alittle sexy for him once in a while. Yes there are men who just like to screw around, but there are some who have just given up on trying to improve on something that other partner will not partake in. PS: You are an exception, as you are beautiful and probably alittle more open then the typical wife.

nice i was just going to write the exactly same thing...

couple of times in the past, i'd be with a gf going onto 2 months and nothing happening.. like i don't even have a gf... i'd ask her every once in a while, but she'd just refuse and find some reasons for it...... it's like she'd be begging me to go out and cheat on her....

anyways, when it comes to pregnant women/gfs then it's a different story though...

[Puddles]

If there's a problem in the marriage, it needs to be discussed. If it can't be worked out, then seperate or divorce...cheating is not right. Many pregnant women feel sick, unsexy, too fat, etc. and just won't have sex for a few months. During that time her husband can use a little restraint and jerk off. Abstinence for a few months won't kill him.

Cheating is for people who don't have the balls to address and resolve the problem with their partner.