threesomes yes or no

[bjbabe]

The guy that i am seeing wants to have a threesome. I really don't know if i can see myself doing it, for a couple pf reasons. First can i trust him after words, Second, will he think less of me. Third, I really don't think that i can see him screwing someone else and be ok with it.

I need help and advice will everything at the end be ok. Should i give him his wish and have a threesome. :3some:

Also what is the big deal of a threesome.

Thanks

[BIKER_GIXXER]

Re: threesomes yes or no

Originally posted by bjbabe
The guy that i am seeing wants to have a threesome. I really don't know if i can see myself doing it, for a couple pf reasons. First can i trust him after words, Second, will he think less of me. Third, I really don't think that i can see him screwing someone else and be ok with it.

I need help and advice will everything at the end be ok. Should i give him his wish and have a threesome. :3some:

Also what is the big deal of a threesome.

Thanks

Sounds like you’re not too crazy about it, if that's the case, stay clear of the situation. Don't do it for 'him', do it because 'you' want to. It's one thing to have the 'interest' and feel nervous about it and another to do it for 'his' happiness.

As far as the 'big deal' goes, it's just a fantasy every guy has. The thought of being with more than one girl at a time is very exciting. I brought it up to wifey and she wasn't too crazy about it at first. I stepped back, gave her room and it grew on her, 'without' me pressuring her. Next thing you know, it's go time, woohoo!!

[Puddles]

bj, you're obviously not comfortable with the idea so you have to let him know that. Maybe in time as your relationship gets stronger you won't have the trust and jealousy issues, maybe you will, only time will tell. Maybe for the time being, watch some 3-some porn movies with him to get a feel for what it's like and to see if you develop an interest. Keep in mind that a 3-some is usually just about sex, it's not about wanting a relationship with the other person.

I personally enjoy a FMF 3-some. I'm bi and I'm married, so playing with my femal friends is a bonus for both me and for my husband. I absolutely love being with another woman. I enjoy watching my husband with another woman too. There's the wonderful thrill of being pleasured by two people at the same time...talk about being satifsfied! And I love it when we can pleasure friends of ours. We don't play with strangers, our fun is always with a friend we know and like a lot. We've been together for 20 yrs. though and we didn't start doing this until a few years ago.

[Irishgirl]

If you're already having problems with the idea, then I think it will only get 10x worse if you go through with it. Let him know that you're uncomfortable with it, and have given it much thought because you want to please him, but you're not willing to do it right now. Hopefully he will respect that and not bring it up until you're ready to reconsider (if ever).

[soprano9mm]

just not with a loved one unless trust is unbreakable

[danny p]

not sure now than it will cook your head all the way thought it and after so I wouldn't, x

[Blackdream71]

Originally posted by Irishgirl
If you're already having problems with the idea, then I think it will only get 10x worse if you go through with it. Let him know that you're uncomfortable with it, and have given it much thought because you want to please him, but you're not willing to do it right now. Hopefully he will respect that and not bring it up until you're ready to reconsider (if ever).

I concur!

[Dinatos8282]

We need to post up some 3-some guidelines. There are definately unwritten rules of proper 3-some etiquette. Make sure you have a trusting relationship with him. Second, the choice of the third is the most important. I would go the other way then MrsPuddles went. I would pick someone who if things didn't go well and you didn't feel comfortable with her then you would have no problem shying away from. Also, he doesn't have to have sex with her. Start with same room play. You can draw some guidline before hand. Ex. The third can do stuff to you, kiss both, oral for both, but when it comes to sex, just with you, or something like that. I was in a situation recently where my girlfriend and I were a little drunk and started getting into it with another girl. She was fine with it at first and then got a sudden burst of jealousy when she saw me kiss her. Afterwards she admitted that she had overreacted and that had she not been as drunk she would have been fine with it. In conclusion, have fun, when the time is right it will happen, just don't force it. AND most of all good luck :3some: good things come in threes.

[TheStromba]

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[mick-g]

I bet money the threesome he wants only includes a woman. Tell him you'll do it but only if the third party is male and see his reaction.

[Irishgirl]

Originally posted by mick-g
I bet money the threesome he wants only includes a woman. Tell him you'll do it but only if the third party is male and see his reaction.

haha very true