This Drives Me Nuts

[BIKER_GIXXER]

Originally posted by beefcake
. Best to just market yourself and then play it off a little nonchalantly. I've noticed that girls want you more when you act like you don't really care too much.

You got it beef. Play it nonchalantly, act like you're bored, lol. You don't want to pay a girl to much attention or you start to come off clingly and desperate. That will turn off a girl quickly.

I'll sit back, kick my feet up and act like nothing can distract me, I'm so comfortable in my own skin it hurts (as one person put it). Also, bust on a girl when you talk to her. Poke fun at her, be playful. You'll be surprised at how well she'll respond.

[Dundee]

yes, you guys are right on par but remember when your actually confronted with the opportunity alot of men just freeze up and get nervous. Its natural but has to be overcome or your chances are reduced considerably. Rarely does a 1 liner work anymore, you have to be sincere and let her feel important, if you reach the point of her talking and allaborating about herself you ride on her responces and your half way there. Trust me ...I know it works.

Also here is another tip?

Instead of trying to bang her on the first night get to be friends first. All your other motives will fall into place!!!

[BIKER_GIXXER]

Yeah, it amazes me how some guys act all tuff and macho, but when it comes to talking to women, they turn into little boys who don't know what to say or how to act.


I wouldn't use a one liner if you paid me, they're so obvious. I may throw a one liner in the conversation as a joke, once rapport has been established, but that's it.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by Dundee
Also here is another tip?

Instead of trying to bang her on the first night get to be friends first. All your other motives will fall into place!!!

If you're looking for a serious relationship, building a friendship with a girl first will be the best way to go. Girls are not that much different than guys, so just be yourself with them.

[JUICE]

Re: Re: This Drives Me Nuts

Originally posted by stonecold54
it will always be the mystery of the world. Lots of hot women end up with guys that don't match them. I have a few hypothesis's.

#1 they don't want to be overmatched by there man, stemming from being insecure. They feel if they are better looking than their man, it will make them look better.

#2 they really are looking for a quality man with a brain and earning potential (not all cases lol).

#3 a drunk night ended up with a pregnancy and they are just settling for what they had because they don't like working for something better.

there is no problem trying to move on a hot girl. just let her know that you are interested, it could be enough for her to dump the guy she is with. if he can't keep her happy no problem with scoopingup the leftovers.

i say the same thing bro.

Originally posted by Puddles
They could be intimidated by you, especially if they're not used to seeing someone like you. Most people who aren't into body building look at those who are like freaks, especially the really developed guys. Move!

why is it that some girls say that we are too big. Im only 228 and chicks say im too big. They havent seen big yet.

[mastakillah]

oh yeah, is how its done guys........give me some more lessons!haha j/k

seriously though, if it were only that easy!

my experiences are.........you act confident, they think your being cocky and its a turnoff. you stay quiet and act nonchalant.........then your too shy and too boring and this is also a turnoff.
just cant win with the ladies! haha

[Face]

Originally posted by mastakillah
oh yeah, is how its done guys........give me some more lessons!haha j/k

seriously though, if it were only that easy!

my experiences are.........you act confident, they think your being cocky and its a turnoff. you stay quiet and act nonchalant.........then your too shy and too boring and this is also a turnoff.
just cant win with the ladies! haha

Thats why I say screw chasing and even thinking about it...... Just be yourself, and if they don't wanna be with you, screw them, their loss...

[mastakillah]

exactly bro! what gets me, is these are the same bitches that aren't event that good looking. but then if you hook up with them (being a good looking guy) all the sudden they think there the shit cause they hooked up with a dude, that to them, is just drop dead gorgeous.
but if these hoes wanna lick the high hard one, i'm willing to give them the salt malt all up in there teeth and shit! hahaha

[Face]

Originally posted by mastakillah
exactly bro! what gets me, is these are the same bitches that aren't event that good looking. but then if you hook up with them (being a good looking guy) all the sudden they think there the shit cause they hooked up with a dude, that to them, is just drop dead gorgeous.
but if these hoes wanna lick the high hard one, i'm willing to give them the salt malt all up in there teeth and shit! hahaha

:agree: :rofl:

[Scotland]

My wife worked out at the same gym. So she was not put off by my size. But before her I would get a lot of responses like "you know you are not that intimidating once I got to know you".

Not every girl wants a musclehead. They don't want to play second fiddle to the gym. They may like the body but not the work to keep it.

Too big, depends on a womans perspective. My wife's last boyfriend weighed 175 lbs. Toned little guy at 5'10". I am 6'1" and 265 lbs. She thought he was huge at one point. Toned is not huge. Muscular is huge.

But let me tell you this, I have been in your shoes 100 times. I busted my ass to stay in shape and educate myself. It always bothered me to see some hotty with some second rate salvation army wannabe.

Course, what he is or was is pure speculation . . . I didn't know him or her.

[bonebreaker]

I know this will probably make some of the ladies on this board mad, and I'm sure that this doesn't apply to any of them. But, MOST women don't care how a man looks for the most part, but it is a plus. MOST women are looking for ONE THING primarily, and that's B.B.D.--"Bigger Better Deal". They want someone who can "take care of them". Doesn't matter to most of them what the guy looks like, only if he can get them the things they need. Once they "get" him and another B.B.D. comes aloing, they'll dump #1 in a heartbeat if they think #2 is indeed a B.B.D. Of course a little physical attraction is necessary at first, but it's only a little. We men look for a "hot chick", physically, most women look at it in an entirely different way. They may think to themselves, "yea, this guy isn't much to look at, and I will have to screw him occasionally, but man oh man the things he can do for me and mine". B.B.D.'s, it's been that way since the caveman, and will always be that way. So when you see a physically inferior guy with a great looking babe, remember, he's her B.B.D., FOR NOW! BB

[comsquat]

Obviously no one has watched the great movie "The Tao of Steve'. Do and you will understand..

[GunzInCali]

Dont know where you guys live but I tend not to have this problem. There are always the exceptions where some little twerp has a fine broad but if you have game and can hold a conversation and make a girl feel good about herself, there should not be a problem. Too many of us "muscle heads" try and flaunt our bodies as our best qualities. They love good bodies but they are a little deeper than we tend to give them credit.