Fulfilled my guys fantasy

[Face]

Originally posted by MarcusMaximus
ok, hold up a sign saying " yes, i blew my b/f 's buddy". or " i am a lipstick lesbian wannabe " . put the date on the sign. and put it up.

Lol, this is gonna make her seriously slaggy, and i bet I will be able to find these pics in kazaa :P

[bad14u]

Originally posted by bjbabe
everybody here has an opinion of me already.

I, for one, do not believe that you are a guy! My opinion is NOT that you are a slut or whore! I do believe you have made some bad choices in life without thinking things through! I hope, for your sake, that I am wrong about this coming back to haunt you! BJ, the next time he wants you to do something please think about it first! Hell, you can come back here and ask everyone their opinion and go on the opinion of the ones you "trust" here! Even though every single member here is a complete stranger to me I would not want anything to ever happen to any of them! We are all different people with different life experiences and someone here has more than likely been in a similar situation before! I am sometimes more comfortable asking people on this board for advice than someone I really know! A complete stranger is less likely to judge , and give fair advice because they do not know you and wish you no harm, where as a so called "friend" would lead you in the wrong direction because they may carry a grudge that you do not know about! Just think about it!

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by THE BOUNCER
post a picture of yourself holding a piece of paper that says bjbabe. put the date and time on there also. that would prove it.

i say again

[Timma]

He ain't gonna do it. I say ban em.

[bjbabe]

Originally posted by bad14u
I, for one, do not believe that you are a guy! My opinion is NOT that you are a slut or whore! I do believe you have made some bad choices in life without thinking things through! I hope, for your sake, that I am wrong about this coming back to haunt you! BJ, the next time he wants you to do something please think about it first! Hell, you can come back here and ask everyone their opinion and go on the opinion of the ones you "trust" here! Even though every single member here is a complete stranger to me I would not want anything to ever happen to any of them! We are all different people with different life experiences and someone here has more than likely been in a similar situation before! I am sometimes more comfortable asking people on this board for advice than someone I really know! A complete stranger is less likely to judge , and give fair advice because they do not know you and wish you no harm, where as a so called "friend" would lead you in the wrong direction because they may carry a grudge that you do not know about! Just think about it!

That is why i posted it, if i would have known that i was going to get a lot of slack, and bad remarks. I would not have posted it at all. I don't tell my friends and i am not going to cause i dont want to be judge, but i got judge here! So either way it turned out bad.

[sana]

Originally posted by bjbabe
That is why i posted it, if i would have known that i was going to get a lot of slack, and bad remarks. I would not have posted it at all. I don't tell my friends and i am not going to cause i dont want to be judge, but i got judge here! So either way it turned out bad.

you didn't get judged. you were told that you are being naive believing that your bf didn't tell his buddy. and then with the post that bad14u found from just 3 months ago and it being with a different guy - you are making yourself sound extremely gullible.

people are just warning you that no matter how much you say you love him and that he loves you, this is a sign of and unhealthy relationship, no good to come. don't stay in the dark when people are trying to help you find the light.

[Timma]

Originally posted by bjbabe
That is why i posted it, if i would have known that i was going to get a lot of slack, and bad remarks. I would not have posted it at all. I don't tell my friends and i am not going to cause i dont want to be judge, but i got judge here! So either way it turned out bad.

:moron:

[bad14u]

Originally posted by sana
you didn't get judged. you were told that you are being naive .... don't stay in the dark when people are trying to help you find the light.

:agree: Well said Sana!

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by THE BOUNCER
post a picture of yourself holding a piece of paper that says bjbabe. put the date and time on there also. that would prove it.

[Puddles]

I pm'd bj my cell and within a minute she called me. No, she is not a guy pretending to be a chick.

There have been some costructive posts in this thread but overall it's turned into a slam fest. Not cool.

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by Puddles
I pm'd bj my cell and within a minute she called me. No, she is not a guy pretending to be a chick.

There have been some costructive posts in this thread but overall it's turned into a slam fest. Not cool.

shemale? ok im being stupid. lol

[beefcake]

Originally posted by Puddles
I pm'd bj my cell and within a minute she called me. No, she is not a guy pretending to be a chick.

There have been some costructive posts in this thread but overall it's turned into a slam fest. Not cool.

Can I get your number too? :D I think everyone is just fucking with her now that the subject has been beaten to death. I've given my opinions, bad14u has given his, intim, timma, others, there's not much more to say. I think now everyone is just trying to have fun with it.

[bad14u]

Originally posted by Puddles
I pm'd bj my cell and within a minute she called me. No, she is not a guy pretending to be a chick.

There have been some costructive posts in this thread but overall it's turned into a slam fest. Not cool.

Very trusting on your part Puddles! As for the slam fest....I do sincerly apologize on my part! I guess I may have gone about showing her the harsh reality of her actions in the wrong manner! I just hate to see, or in this case hear, about young girls being taken advantage of, which I believe is happening here! Sorry BJ!

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by bad14u
Sorry BJ!

lol, thats funny if you think about it. your really saying, "sorry blowjob" :D

[MarcusMaximus]

well now, since she's the chick, the opinion offered to her was that this is not a healthy thing. that she didn't think this thing thru and that she is more concerned about what her friends think of her than of her own happiness.

from her posts, a person could be forgiven for thinking that she's very young - early teens but she must be in her 20's.

a couple of people wrote that they sincerely hoped that this didn't come back to bite her on the ass.

things can't be taken as isolated events; people do remember what was said and done. a person can only be judged by what they said or did. Most people here said that what she did was rather naive.

unless her name is Bobbie Joe, perhaps she should change her nic.

i know many doctors in this town ( many of them are assholes ) but not everyone quotes their credentials after their name. offering up that as proof of one's intelligence is not intelligent nor is it smart.

She'll learn. unfortunately , it may be the hard way.
LIsten to your own wants and desires. Be prepared. Don't assume that someone else will look after your best interests. Do'nt fall for the line " ok, we'll do my fantasy first, then we'll get to yours sometime after that! OK?"

there wassome good advice given to her on this thread but it was not what she wanted to hear.