i think i'm doomed to be alone

[psyko1]

well people i'm alone again. it seems that i'll just never be happy. it's a shame really, i actually cared and LOVED this girl more than i ever have for anyone else. but you see i had to end it. what would you have done? if you see the person you love be so unhappy all the time. complaining about your relationship and how "we suck" every other day. i feel it was only a matter of time before she went out and hurt me so i had to say goodbye. i'm a strong believer in that if you really love someone then sometimes you just have to know when to let go. what scares me the most is that i'll not see her or talk to her again. i really miss her already but i guess i just have to grow up and walk it off. i mean there's no point in dwelling over it is it? i know she'll have a mourning period of about 10 minutes, then she'll probably go out and have fun. throughout all this i know she'll be happy so in a strange way that makes me feel good. i hate for her not to be happy. sorry to just go on about this, i just had to get it off my chest.

[meat12]

Hey bro went through the same thing a little over a year ago, it gets easier with each passing day. Time heals all wounds... good luck to you

[beefcake]

It's a never ending cycle when you're a bachelor. If she doesn't give a shit about you then you gotta hang it up. Good thing you were able to see if wasn't right and just buried it. In the long run, it would just be a waste of time for the both of you. It may sting a little, but you'll pull through.

[bad14u]

Been there and done that! Sorry to hear about it Bro! You think you hurt now...wait til you see her with someone else! Might as well prepare for it so when the time comes and it does happen you will be emotionally ready! Good luck finding Mrs. Right!

[FX4]

Keep your head up bro...plenty of fish in the sea! Go pack the mass for a little bit and next time you see her she'll be the one who's jealous :)

[bjbabe]

Its going to be hard but at the end you will be happy. There had to be a cause on why she was so unhappy, did you try everything in your power to also make the realtionship work. The reason i ask is that my guy also broke up with me according to him cause i nag all the time but i really don't believe that to be the cause. Just wondering if you tried your hardest to also make the realtionship work then she just did not appreciated you. But if you also had a fault on why the realtionship went sour then its also your fault. If you really care about this girl and she means a lot to you, then don't let her go show her and tell her that you do love her, Maybe she is just insecure and she might think that you no longer care. My ex and i lost the communication we once had and if there is no communication then there is no realtionship. Good luck i know what you are going trough. Don't get upset, Just remember the good times that you and her shared.

[beefcake]

Originally posted by bjbabe
Its going to be hard but at the end you will be happy. There had to be a cause on why she was so unhappy, did you try everything in your power to also make the realtionship work. The reason i ask is that my guy also broke up with me according to him cause i nag all the time but i really don't believe that to be the cause. Just wondering if you tried your hardest to also make the realtionship work then she just did not appreciated you. But if you also had a fault on why the realtionship went sour then its also your fault. If you really care about this girl and she means a lot to you, then don't let her go show her and tell her that you do love her, Maybe she is just insecure and she might think that you no longer care. My ex and i lost the communication we once had and if there is no communication then there is no realtionship. Good luck i know what you are going trough. Don't get upset, Just remember the good times that you and her shared.

Oh shit. I hope you got them tapes. :agree:

[bjbabe]

Originally posted by beefcake
Oh shit. I hope you got them tapes. :agree:

No he won't give them back to me, he says he wants something to remember me by, But he does not want to be with me does that make sense. If you break up with someone its cause you want nothing to do with that particular person. So why would you want to keep the tapes of that person. Wouldn't it remind you of him or her.

[beefcake]

Originally posted by bjbabe
No he won't give them back to me, he says he wants something to remember me by, But he does not want to be with me does that make sense. If you break up with someone its cause you want nothing to do with that particular person. So why would you want to keep the tapes of that person. Wouldn't it remind you of him or her.

Memories. I still have pictures of old g/f's. Is it a friendly break up? Are you guys still going to remain friends? If not then I have a bad feeling about what he'll do with the tapes. I'd keep em to rub one out to every so often. :D

[Keiser]

Originally posted by bjbabe
No he won't give them back to me, he says he wants something to remember me by, But he does not want to be with me does that make sense. If you break up with someone its cause you want nothing to do with that particular person. So why would you want to keep the tapes of that person. Wouldn't it remind you of him or her.

didn't everyone tell you that he didn't love you and wouldn't stay with you after you blew his friend? That was definantly probably just a big joke between them now. He wants to keep the tapes so he can show everyone.

[bjbabe]

Originally posted by beefcake
Memories. I still have pictures of old g/f's. Is it a friendly break up? Are you guys still going to remain friends? If not then I have a bad feeling about what he'll do with the tapes. I'd keep em to rub one out to every so often. :D

It wasn't a very bad break up, i had no idea he was thinking about breaking up with me until it happened. I am very hurt about it. I really don't think we are going to be friends i love him way to much, its going to hurt if i ever see him with someone else.

[beefcake]

Originally posted by Keiser
didn't everyone tell you that he didn't love you and wouldn't stay with you after you blew his friend? That was definantly probably just a big joke between them now. He wants to keep the tapes so he can show everyone.

Yep, the outcome on this one is pretty much predictable. I would bet money that when him and his boys are kicking it at his house drinking, one of them tapes is gonna get popped in the vcr for shits and giggles. Well, I guess bjbabe and psyko should hook up now.

[lxorl]

everyone has that...... its the learning process of finding the right one.

Time heals all wounds and better things to come.... just dont look for it and it will find you.

[bonebreaker]

Originally posted by lxorl
everyone has that...... its the learning process of finding the right one.

Time heals all wounds and better things to come.... just dont look for it and it will find you.

Amen! I had been seeing this chick off and on for about 2 1/2 years. We'd hook up and be fine for awhile, but still in the back of my mind, I knew it would fail. She would call after being away for several weeks and I'd fall back into the same old routine. I liked it and hated it at the same time. Finally, after one of the away periods she called me and wanted to see me. I had made up my mind that I was never going to fall into that trap again. During our periods "together" she did some really evil things, but that's another story. Anyway, I realized I was going to have to do something to assure myself that she would never call back. So, when she did call and ask to see me I said NO. She kept asking me why, etc. and finally I said to her, and I think it's the most pointed and cruel thing anybody could say to another, but I did it anyway. I said, "I would rather spend eternity alone in Hell than in Paradise with you". The line was quiet, then click, that was over two months ago and I have been left alone since. Really, I think you're better off alone than to be with someone that doesn't make you happy. BB

[njlovehandles]

BEEN THERE, ITS TOUGH. FUCK ITS BEEN A YEAR FOR ME. STILL MISS THE GIRL A LOT, BUT I FELT THAT ALOT WASNT RIGHT AT THE TIME. LOVE, AS GREAT AS IT CAN BE IS ALSO A MOTHERFUCKER

sorry bout caps