Toys and lubes!

[Puddles]

Asking for your help, guys.

My friend is in her early 40's and has never used a toy at all. She was a virgin when she got married nearly 20 yrs. ago. I'm gonna help her pick out a few things when we go to my friend's "Toy" party next weekend. I know what to pick out for her from a girl's point of view, but we want her husband to have fun playing with stuff too.

So, guys, what are you favorite toys to use on your girls?

Also, which do you enjoy more, watching your girl use the toys on herself or do you prefer to use them while she just responds to what you're doing to her? Which gives you the most pleasure?

Also, what are your favorite lubes?

Thanks! :kiss:

[danny p]

I Love to watch my girl playing with toyz but after a while I've got to join in, Favorite lube would be "durex play"

And as for favorite toy I honestly dont mind

[rude]

Re: Toys and lubes!

Originally posted by Puddles
Asking for your help, guys.

My friend is in her early 40's and has never used a toy at all. She was a virgin when she got married nearly 20 yrs. ago. I'm gonna help her pick out a few things when we go to my friend's "Toy" party next weekend. I know what to pick out for her from a girl's point of view, but we want her husband to have fun playing with stuff too.

So, guys, what are you favorite toys to use on your girls?

Also, which do you enjoy more, watching your girl use the toys on herself or do you prefer to use them while she just responds to what you're doing to her? Which gives you the most pleasure?

Also, what are your favorite lubes?

Thanks! :kiss:

Get her at Sybian machine :eek: ;)

My fav toy, well I havent bought one yet but I want to get it for my girlfriend is that vibrating butterfly thing for her, that be a good toy for your friend too.

I like my girlfriend to use the vib a little when we first start and I'll use it a bit on her while we have sex :agree: I prefer to use it on her though

[Puddles]

Re: Re: Toys and lubes!

Originally posted by rude
Get her at Sybian machine :eek: ;)

My fav toy, well I havent bought one yet but I want to get it for my girlfriend is that vibrating butterfly thing for her, that be a good toy for your friend too.

I like my girlfriend to use the vib a little when we first start and I'll use it a bit on her while we have sex :agree: I prefer to use it on her though

If I had the money for a Sybian I'd buy one for myself!

When you say you like to use it on her when you have sex, what kind of vibe and where? Do you use it on her clit when you're fucking or do you slide it inside her and lick her pussy or what?

I like the idea of a butterfly because she can use it when they're fucking. She told me she never gets off from intercourse alone and in order to reach orgasm she's gotta rub her clit.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by danny p
I Love to watch my girl playing with toyz but after a while I've got to join in, Favorite lube would be "durex play"

And as for favorite toy I honestly dont mind

I've never heard of Durex Play. Guess that's another one I'll have to hunt down and try. :)

[rude]

Re: Re: Re: Toys and lubes!

Originally posted by Puddles
If I had the money for a Sybian I'd buy one for myself!

When you say you like to use it on her when you have sex, what kind of vibe and where? Do you use it on her clit when you're fucking or do you slide it inside her and lick her pussy or what?

I like the idea of a butterfly because she can use it when they're fucking. She told me she never gets off from intercourse alone and in order to reach orgasm she's gotta rub her clit.

Well, we use just a regular vib. I use it on her clit while we fudge, it always gets her to orgasm when I do that.

The butterfly would be good for her, your friend. Since she likes friction on her clit plus she wount have to really worry about holding anything :agree:

[Puddles]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Toys and lubes!

Originally posted by rude

The butterfly would be good for her, your friend. Since she likes friction on her clit plus she wount have to really worry about holding anything :agree:

She can use her hands to play with her nipples instead.

[rude]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Toys and lubes!

Originally posted by Puddles
She can use her hands to play with her nipples instead.

True :doggy: :agree:

[Puddles]

Well, the party is Friday night and I'm all excited! I'm bringing two of my friends with me, the shy one and my single Latin bi friend (she's got an ass to die for). Hoping the bi friend wants to hang out at my place afterwards. ;)

[The_Jarhead]

Well there will be some stuff she can touch and see and the party so she can see what she likes and then a lot more int he catalog.

As for how I like toys....I'm like kid in a cady store when we buy toys. There is nothing I love more then getting my wife off. Hell some times I would rather spend all night makeing her come over and over and over then having sex. So I like any toy that will get her off.

I think the fact that her husband has never used a toy on her is also going to be big facter too. I know who you are talking about and he is a bit (what is the word I'm looking for?) timid maybe. She hould start with something small that they can both enjoy with out him feeling insecure about haveing to use an aid to get her off.

Be sure to check out the little wireless bullet tonight at the party. God damn is that thing powerfull.

See ya soon Honey. Maybe tonight....I'm not alowd to be at the party :( but maybe you'll still be there when I get home.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by The_Jarhead
See ya soon Honey. Maybe tonight....I'm not alowd to be at the party :( but maybe you'll still be there when I get home.

I'll wait for ya! Stromba is letting me go in late to work tomorrow. :D

Guess who chickened out? LOL She just called and her sister-in-laws are in town (you met them and you know they won't go to something like this). It's ok, I told her I'll just surprise her with something she'll enjoy.

At least my little Latin friend will cum. ;)

[Puddles]

She called and cancelled too, the food she ate yesterday isn't agreeing with her. That's ok though, I'm looking forward to you taking out your snake for me to play with. I think it's too big for her and she'd be scared.

[Puddles]

Gave my 40-something friend her gifts last night. A bottle of lube, a bullet vibe and a book about masturbation, toys and sharing the toys with a partner. She was very pleased with the bullet vibe as it's not intimidating. I gave her some ideas on how to use it and she's pretty excited. I'll let ya know what her comments are after she's had some time to enjoy it.

Thanks for the bullet suggestion, Jarhead, it was perfect!

[The_Jarhead]

Hey I know what I'm talking about........sometimes!!!!

[cowgirl]

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm.......................toys!

Mmmmmmmmmmmm.......................lube!

Oh, sorry Puddles. You were asking the guy's for their imput.