Do you compliment your s/o?

[Puddles]

The other morning I went to kiss Stromba goodbye as I was leaving for work and he told me I looked pretty. I left the house smiling thinking how sweet he is to me. He does this a lot, giving me nice compliments all the time (not just about how I look, but even complimenting on a meal and other stuff) and it really makes me feel good. Even when we talk on the phone I'll say something like, "Hello, Handsome!" and he giggles. It's just such a simple thing we do and I think many people don't realize how nice it is, especially if you've been together for a while, many people just start taking eachother for granted and the sweet stuff you did when you were dating fades away.

Now, go call your s/o or go over to them and give them a compliment and make them smile. :)

[bad14u]

I know that I don't do this nearly enough! Definitely something that I will work on! Thanks Puddles!

[Timma]

Yes I am definitly gonna have to work on this.

BTW, Puddles you look very sexy today!

[bad14u]

Originally posted by Timma
BTW, Puddles you look very sexy today!

She said compliment...not kiss ass! :P

[Puddles]

LOL Hell, I love anal so ass kisses are good, especially with tongue. ;)

[phatchopper]

holy shit you're the coolest

[urso8up]

I must confess I do it just about everyday. I tell her she looks good...Smells good. When she cleans i always tell her the house looks great. I love my wife she is a awesome person and great mother. She is great with our kids and all. So i have to always have to let her know oh and i usually get her some kind of flowers at least once a week sometimes i suprise her and get her a card instead. Got to mix it up so she doesn't know what to expect

[phatchopper]

Check out how well this works, amazing, thanks Puddles!!!!!

My email - Hey beautiful, yeah this weekend will be sweet. I have to work out right after work, and then I will stop and pick up blah blah blah.......

Her response - You haven't called me beautiful in forever! Ok, go work out. Audrey's dad is in town and blah blah...........

Exactly the response I had hoped for

[Face]

I think I would do it regularly but not too often; I think if you do it all the time, it can become a bit routine, and maybe the compliments will be taken for granted and lose their meaning.

[Timma]

Originally posted by bad14u
She said compliment...not kiss ass! :P

Hey you're just jealous cause i said it first.

[Shibby]

Yes, making her smile is what makes me smile.

[6p6]

this is a good one to remember if you want your relationship to keep its spark....

[Puddles]

Originally posted by Face
I think I would do it regularly but not too often; I think if you do it all the time, it can become a bit routine, and maybe the compliments will be taken for granted and lose their meaning.

If it's sincere, it doesn't become routine, it becomes second nature, something you don't even think about doing. It just becomes a nice part of the day when you least expect it.

I watch other people and I notice silly things I guess. When Stromba and I have been apart for a few hours and we see eachother we always kiss and usually hug eachother. It's just what we do, we're happy to see eachother again. I noticed a lot of couples don't do this and that seems weird to me since I'm used to the way we are. It saddens me when I see a couple who've been apart for a bit and instead of being sweet to eachother, the first words out of their mouths are not pleasing, either they complain about something or they're just not polite to eachother. Missery loves company, instead of starting things out on a sour note and having it carry through the evening, when you see your partner, why not just make nice with them, ya know? It sets the tone for the rest of the time you're together.

[Puddles]

Originally posted by urso8up
I must confess I do it just about everyday.

I knew it! :)

[INTIMID8OR]

Originally posted by bad14u
She said compliment...not kiss ass! :P

:rofl: