lets pull together our resources guy's.

[Puddles]

Most of the time loosing an erection is mental but it can be physical no matter what your age is. Have you had bloodwork done to check your test levels? You didn't mention if you cycle or not...if you're just coming off cycle that could be an issue too.

If it's a mental issue, why are you so against something like cialis? Since you can achieve an erection but it goes away, half a tab of cialis would probably do the trick for ya and for most guys it's effects last for a day or more which would get you through the weekend and you'll feel better in the long run.

Do you only lose your erection during intercourse when you're doing the physical activity? Have you tried having her on top or just letting her give you head so you can just relax and enjoy it? Do you have any fetishes you can get going with either of the girls to help spice things up?

[DS-COUSIN]

It's MENTAL, but if you are having some issues and looking for something that is not intrusive.....go to bulknutrition and do a search for Long Jack...tastes like shit, but it works and won't harm your natural workings. Takes a few days to get rolling, but it increases libido and drive naturally. OH, and it's CHEAP!

I also agree with the PORN comment....

But the mature portion of me says get some counseling TOO....

[Tall_Guy18]

Well this has turned out to be more complicated than i imagined. Now I was talkin to my friends dad and he is a pediatrician. I talked to him about my problem and he told me that it could just be mentally. He sugested that I try some cialis or viagra just untill I can achieve an errection on my own. He said it shouldnt take long. Yet the problem is that im a college student meaning im poor, i cant afford it because its so damm expensive. Does anybody know of a cheap alternative to any of these? As for my errection problem...se im hard while we do sum foreplay but when it comes down to sex. I go limp. Thats wut confuses the shit out of me. Ohh and I totally agree with Megiddo's statement.

[lordikon]

Originally posted by Tall_Guy18
well thats a tough one. Ill make this even more complicated, i am sleeping with two dif girls, not together. But the same thing is happening with both. Im actually more into the other one but i still cant keep it up. I thought some dif supplements might help, because im not nervous or have anxiety before the luv makin. Im totally fine, i just cant fuckn keep it up! As far as physiologically......well my last relationship did leave some good scars that i though have healed. How am i gonna get councelling though. Shist isnt there another way. I would rather deal with alternatives than go to councelling. Im only twenty this shouldnt be happening to me. (I hate my ex!!!!)

Your problem sounds like confidence. You seem worried about having an erection, and that worry is probably most the reason you're not having one in the first place. When it comes time to have sex, does the worry of your erection "acting up" pop into your mind whatsoever? If the answer is yes, I would say that is at least half your problem. If anything besides stuffing your cock into a nice pussy is on your mind, then it's likely part of the problem as well. That's my opinion though, and I'm still young, so take it for what it's worth.

[GurlieGurl]

Just wake off less and maybe not do ne thing sexual so much. that way, when you do, do something..you havent done it in a while and youll go at it like jack rabbits!