Boy this has been a wonderful year..

[Bouncer]

First my grandfather dies at the beggining of the year.

Then today I call my mom and she tells me her and my step father are splitting up. This man raised me since I was about 7 years old and was always great to me and my mom. He dosent show emotions to well and from what she told me that is the main reason. All this right before christmas.

That old saying, "when it rains it pours" sure is true..

[hitmansb]

Sorry to hear that, man. I've found that that old "bad things happen in 3's" myth is true more often than not, so be on the lookout.

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by hitmansb
Sorry to hear that, man. I've found that that old "bad things happen in 3's" myth is true more often than not, so be on the lookout.

Oh thanks alot! lol

[hitmansb]

Just telling ya to keep your head up out there, eh?

[Bouncer]

By the way, they just moved into a brand new 3500 sq foot house 3 months ago. Custom built. They took so much time and effort getting it built. God damn shame.

[hitmansb]

There's just got to be more to the story than the not showing emotion thing. It seems so drastic a move at that stage in life.

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by hitmansb
There's just got to be more to the story than the not showing emotion thing. It seems so drastic a move at that stage in life.

Well, form what she told me, she feels alone. She dosent feel like she can talk to him about anything. She feels like its just her in the relationship. All those things over many years I guess just build up.

[beefcake]

It's bad timing for sure, but it may be what she needs. Just don't let these things get you down bro. It's just life's way of throwing curve balls at ya. Try to be optimistic about it. Hopefully like they say, once you hit a couple speed bumps, it's smooth sailing for a while.

[hitmansb]

Hey Bouncer, if you need a laugh, check out the 'Letter to Kobe' I posted in the Sports forum.

[Luftdude]

Sorry to hear that B. I've been hit a few curveballs myself the past few years. That one that still is a thorn in my side is nearly losing my father to an aneurysm.

LD

[Cory]

Sorry to hear that, B. Maybe it will all work out for the best and she'll be happier. Merry Christmas to you and santa.....ooops, I mean sana. lol :D

[Primal Instinct]

Hey Bouncer, maybe some time apart will rekindle their desire to together again. It could be a good thing in the end. Hang in there, bro.

[Face]

Bouncer, all you can do is be there for her, and for your stepdad too, sounds like they both need the support right now. Its nice that ur such a family-orientated person, a dying breed in my opinion.....

[Severedties]

Thats sad bro. Like face said, all you can really do in a situation like that is to be there for both of them, and give them both someone to talk to. They are both going to need to talk, and if you are there for them, maybe it will help them both out. It is deffinitely a bad place to be in brother.
Happy holidays though man, something good may still happen.

[buccaneer19]

Originally posted by Primal Instinct
Hey Bouncer, maybe some time apart will rekindle their desire to together again. It could be a good thing in the end. Hang in there, bro.

:agree: best of luck b