Boy this has been a wonderful year..

[Pumpdogg]

Sorry to hear of your troubles Biggin, Keep your head up and press on dogg, it is all we can do. Maybe things will workout , stranger things have happened bro. My wife and I have had 2 in our immediate family die this year 1 month apart and had to put another family member in rehab 2 weeks ago. I feel you on a shitty year, I am just trying not to let it rob me, and dont let it rob you either Biggin, you have been doing very well.

PD

[space mountain]

sorry to hear bouncer those things are never easy for anyone! best of luck!

[The_Jarhead]

I'm going through the same thing right now Bounce. My panets have been to gether my whole life. growing up i prowd to be the only kid on the block with one set of parents. Then mom calls me one day to tell me she's leaving my dad. I took it pretty hard and I still am. I would rather my mom leave and be happy if that's what it takes but it's killing my dad and I don't want to see that happen either. My dad is a lot like your step dad he's not an emotional guy the only way I was even able to really talk to him about what is going on is through e-mail.

This is going to be an odd chrismass cause it's the first one since my mom moved out. I'm still not sure things are going to go when I get up there to see them.

Hope everything works out for you. Just remember that this is something they need to work out and support them both no matter what happens.

[bad14u]

Originally posted by THE BOUNCER
Well, form what she told me, she feels alone. She dosent feel like she can talk to him about anything. She feels like its just her in the relationship. All those things over many years I guess just build up.

See if both of them will go to counseling. If he will sit and listen while she taks to someone else about it maybe he will open up! Best of luck Bro!

[Bouncer]

thanks for all the nice words guys. :)