I think it's finally gonna happen....

[dreamgirl]

We've been talking to this couple about swinging together for a couple of months. We've gone out 2 times and even ended up at eachothers houses, but no one knows how to start it all. Were all new to this - never tried- and everyone was nervous the last time, and no one wanted to step up. WEll, we have a date for this Saturday scheduled. I promised the other husband that I would start something... any tips?

[GreekTank]

Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....

Originally posted by dreamgirl
We've been talking to this couple about swinging together for a couple of months. We've gone out 2 times and even ended up at eachothers houses, but no one knows how to start it all. Were all new to this - never tried- and everyone was nervous the last time, and no one wanted to step up. WEll, we have a date for this Saturday scheduled. I promised the other husband that I would start something... any tips?

So that's what you've been up to :3some:

[bad14u]

Turn down the lights, put on some music and slip into something very comfortable! Don't forget to take pics! :P

[Puddles]

Make the first move and kiss the girl...everything else will fall into place from there.

Don't forget to bring a supply of condoms.

[BBAddict]

Originally posted by bad14u
Don't forget to take pics! :P

:agree: Congratulations-let us know how it goes!

[bonebreaker]

Sounds like a fantasy come true, huh? Just make as sure as possible that everybody can handle the after the deed part. These things have a reputation for going south after the fact if everybody isn't pretty certain how they'll be, mentally, after its all said and done. BB

[bad14u]

Originally posted by bonebreaker
Sounds like a fantasy come true, huh? Just make as sure as possible that everybody can handle the after the deed part. These things have a reputation for going south after the fact if everybody isn't pretty certain how they'll be, mentally, after its all said and done. BB

:agree:

[urso8up]

Congrats to you and like others said make sure everyone can handle the after effect.

Good luck..........

And forget the Pics we want video.....;)

[psyko1]

sounds like alot of fun. maybe you could start out with a sexy game of truth or dare to spicen up the evening. i hope it works out for you. you are married so you have more to lose than most others, so keep that in mind. if either of you aren't ready just postpone it for a later date. but if you are then enjoy.:agree:

[dreamgirl]

thanks... actually all 4 of us have talked about trying this. we've always been true to our feelings and expectations. We've taken all of this pretty slow. I'll let you all know next week if anything happened. Hopefully only all good things.

I am most looking forward to watching my hubby with the other woman... I can't wait.

[voneber]

I was involved with a couple that was into swinging and went to a few private "parties" with them... it usually began with either playing cards or darts with dares being the prize for certain hits on the dartboard or certain card hands for the shy people. Where for other people that had been into this before it started with a playful dare or just pairing up.

Drinks can always help :D

V

[meat12]

let us know how it goes dg

[GreekTank]

Originally posted by bonebreaker
Sounds like a fantasy come true, huh? Just make as sure as possible that everybody can handle the after the deed part. These things have a reputation for going south after the fact if everybody isn't pretty certain how they'll be, mentally, after its all said and done. BB

:agree:

[decadecadeca]

I vote for a live webcast.

[GreekTank]

Originally posted by decadecadeca
I vote for a live webcast.

:agree: