Should I

[dreamgirl]

if you were single, I'd say go for it, but I completely agree with Bad14u, get out of your relationship if you want to mess around.

[pierced one]

Re: debate

Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
I will not debate with your Pierced one on the moral issues of life....that is between me an MY GOD.....not you....or anyone else. I just asked for some imput....you don't know me and you don't know my relationship, so you can not judge me...I do not flame on this board because it is childish...I offer only advice,,,,good or bad is a matter of opinion

This isn't a matter of religon, some people here dont have or want religon. THis is a debate about common decensy. how is your current partner gonna feel when he or she finds out. oviously bad. so you my advice to you is go for it rip someones heart out so you can get your dick sucked, then loose your job and fuck up someone elses felling of self worth. this is a matter of respect for someone else which oviously after the posts you have posted you have none.

[BBAddict]

Re: Re: debate

Originally posted by pierced one
this is a matter of respect for someone else which obviously ... you have none.

:agree:

[bodybuilder6949]

thanks DG

there are ways to say things which cause people to listen, and then there are ways to say things that turn people off. I do not now plan on taking this woman up on her advances, I was however looking for advice from members on how to deal with her....I believe she is a fatal attraction.....and I have not lead her on at all....positive comments are appreciated...

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

Re: thanks DG

Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
there are ways to say things which cause people to listen, and then there are ways to say things that turn people off. I do not now plan on taking this woman up on her advances, I was however looking for advice from members on how to deal with her....I believe she is a fatal attraction.....and I have not lead her on at all....positive comments are appreciated...

If you honestly think she's a "fatal attraction" then why don't you forward some of her suggestive emails to Human Resources, and have her reprimanded? If you have not led her on in any way, or you yourself have not made any sexual comments, then she cannot turn anything around on you.

[GreekTank]

Bro, let me get this straight. A beautiful woman wants to have oral sex with you and you have no commited girlfriend at the moment, what's the problem? just take her out one night.

[Shibby]

Re: thanks DG

Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
I do not now plan on taking this woman up on her advances, I was however looking for advice from members on how to deal with her....I believe she is a fatal attraction.....and I have not lead her on at all....positive comments are appreciated...

First you back pedal and now your trying to say you meant something way different than what you said. You were looking for someone to tell you to do it. Now your trying to say you were looking for advice on how to tactfully turn her down. Do you even read what you write? Get it together, mature a little bit more and then maybe people will take your posts seriously.

[GreekTank]

Bro, here is the resolution to this situation: PM me with your address, I will travel down there because I am on holiday's now and I'll take it upon myself to fulfill her wild fantasy:bj:

[GreekTank]

Originally posted by Puddles
The girl's just trying to get ahead. :bj:

Puddles is that "ahead" or a head?:rofl:

[Puddles]

Re: Should I

Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
Have this woman at work one flight down from me that wants to come up to my office and have oral sex. We have been emailing eachother for over a year and are both in a relationship. I am a manager and she is in the clerical pool. She is absolutely a knock out. I keep putting her off, but she is insistant....I have a very quite office with locks..should I or shouldn't I.....

Should you or shouldn't you what?

Sounds to me like you are asking if you should let her blow you.

No, you shouldn't let her blow you and you should stop the e-mailing. Let the chips fall where they may. If she's truly fatal atraction type material, it'll only get worse if you two hook up.

[bad14u]

Re: Re: Should I

Originally posted by Puddles
it'll only get worse if you two hook up.

:agree: Bro...just tell her it was fun in an internet kind of way but to actually go through with it wouldn't happen! If you really do care about your s/o you would end this now before the shit hits the fan. If you don't really care about them then end it and go after the other. I have been in this situation but I was curtious enough to end my relationship with my gf before going any further with the other girl. Nothing worse than having your heart ripped out by the one you love and who you think loves you! Granted it will hurt to break up but not as bad as finding out they were fucking around!

[bodybuilder6949]

thanks

thanks puddle and bad14u for your comments....she came to my office this morning an made alittle sceen......I informed her that her advances were not welcome and she got pissed..."oh I'm not good enough for you"...that kind of thing....I just told her I was in a relationship an wasnt interested.....she anwwered that she was in one too but only wanted sex not a relationship with me...I told her I couldnt do that...she threw a book at me an left my office....I really want to tell her supervisor about her actions but it's better to let sleeping dogs lie...........

[Mr I]

Re: thanks

Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
it's better to let sleeping dogs lie...........

And sleeping with that bitch will only catch you fleas:agree:

[bad14u]

Re: thanks

Originally posted by bodybuilder6949
thanks puddle and bad14u for your comments....she came to my office this morning an made alittle sceen......I informed her that her advances were not welcome and she got pissed..."oh I'm not good enough for you"...that kind of thing....I just told her I was in a relationship an wasnt interested.....she anwwered that she was in one too but only wanted sex not a relationship with me...I told her I couldnt do that...she threw a book at me an left my office....I really want to tell her supervisor about her actions but it's better to let sleeping dogs lie...........

Bro, if she was going off on you over that shit then you can only imagine what would have happened if you went any further! Sounds like a crazy woman! Besides you did the right thing and you have to feel better about yourself for doing so! I just hope she doesn't turn around and say that you were the aggressor. If anyone one witnessed the altercation make sure you know who they are and start covering your own ass! Good Luck!

[bodybuilder6949]

got it covered

two of my legal secretaries held the entire conversation... so I think I am covered that way....