need some ideas

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by meatbldr
Well I don't think of myself as wierd. But maybe i'm coming off that way. I'll work on that.
I thought about doing the church thing. But I wouldn't know what to say if I got asked to prey or something like that. Oh yeah, i'm in my mid 30's. Got any ideas on how to scope out the best churches for broads?

church thing? what exactlly is the church thing? lol

[NYCmitch25]

Review PLAN A carefully. This is the easiest and most important thing you can do to up your chances. Do exactly what I wrote...have you? Some off its a joke of coarse. Your going to have to spend money on yourself dont be cheap.

The church thing would be much easier if you were religious already. I dont think you want to go down this road unless you can be convincing. Are you religious. Plus youll feel like a scumbag. This is easy to get involved in call or ask around.

Laundry mate is a good place to meet chics.

I think your misunderstood or come off the wrong way around women. Doesnt mean your weird persay. You may get nervous and say do the wrong thing.

Ok I feel like Dr.Phil. Im done.

[meatbldr]

Well, my family is religous, but i never felt comfortable with it. The church groups always seem to start off with preying. And I just feel like such a fake during that time. And the church people also look at me strange and make comments about my size. Always ask about working out or some shit like that. But I do like the quality of ladies, maybe i'll just deal with it.

[enohcity]

thats pretty fucked up..going to church to get some pussy!? lol.. honestly, if its that bad and u cant get anything, get a hooker..

[Primal Instinct]

I don't think that a person can be attractive to members of the opposite sex until they are happy with themselves first. Put your own house in order and then things will pretty much fall into place on their own. No one wants to date someone who appears desperate- I think that it would make them feel as if they are being "settled for" and no one wants that. As for physical looks, women are attracted by a man's physical attributes initially but personality and character is what keeps their attention.

Girls don't want to be around guys who are constantly watching other girls walk past. Eye contact when talking to them is important. Don't be jittery or too anxious. Women and men both want to feel comfortable when around a member of the opposite sex. They certainly don't want to feel as if they are a part of an agenda and you are going through the steps solely in order to get laid. Maybe they don't realize it so much on a conscious level but they certainly do on the subconscious level. Take things slowly and let them develop. No one wants to be forced or rushed into a decision making process about a member of the opposite sex. Good luck.