GUYS!!! i need your advice!

[ByRoN]

now my g/f's like best guy friend called her the other day and asked her if she would go to his formual with him he don't have a g/f and he wants to have someone that will have a good time with now they have never hooked up and she was asking me if i would get mad, now i told her i thought that him asking was disrespectful to me, she said she agreeded and that she would tell him that she couldn't go if i didn't want her too. now i trust her and he knows i will fucking kill him if he touched her. now should i tell her not to go or should i tell her that it will be ok but it kinda bothers me!!! i don't want to be a controling b/f which i am not but i kinda feel like i am being a asshole if i say no!!

[Matt76]

depends how I knew the guy. If it was one of my friends too i'd be alright with it if not hell no

[Gongshow]

exactly what matt said

[ROCKETW19]

if they are friends i see no big deal. if shes gonna cheat shes gonna cheat nothing you can do will stop it. so like you said no need to be controling.

[oswald]

what if the shoe was on the other foot. what if one of your female friends asked you. what would she say.

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

Originally posted by oswald
what if the shoe was on the other foot. what if one of your female friends asked you. what would she say.

That is exactly how I would play it. Think of the hottest girl "friend" you have (if you have one), and ask her if she would mind you going to a formal dance with her? Don't listen to her answer though....watch her facial reaction. If she wants to go with this guy....she'll say she wouldn't mind, but her face will tell the truth.

If it was my girl asking........she wouldn't go!

[mcalo4]

from my experiences guys and girls can't be JUST friends. Sure we'll try, but we all know what is going on inside the guys head, he wants to get some.

I remember in HS all the girls I was friends with, I wanted to screw em'. Really the only reason I was friends with them is because I was trying to get laid. It never happened but I've got a vivid imagination hahaha.

Just be careful man.

[Shibby]

I think anyone that thinks that guys and girls can't just be friends have some maturing to do. Like said before if someone is going to cheat there cheaters. It just shows there character and what they are really about. I would evalute the situation. If it is something that everyone would be comfortable with, then why don't you go as a group. If you are not interested in going, then let them go have a good time. It shows alot of good faith and anytime you want to have a guys thing or what not it will go along way that you trusted her and let her have some freedom to have fun. If she can do it and just have fun, then there should be no reason for her to believe you can't do the same. My best friend is a woman. We are just friends always have been. She is now engaged and I am going to be a groomsman at the wedding. I have been friends with the guy for a while, but first and formost I was friends with her. He dosn't see it as threat at all and appriciates us being such good friends.

[ByRoN]

well guys i told her that i didn't mind her going and then a few minst later she told me she didn't wanna go cause she didn't wanna put stress on our realtionship!

[pierced one]

Originally posted by ByRoN
well guys i told her that i didn't mind her going and then a few minst later she told me she didn't wanna go cause she didn't wanna put stress on our realtionship!

then she is a good women.

Shibby- i have a handful of real good female friends. Drives my girl nuts but they have been my friends for way longer than i have known the girl. It all depends upon the situation, if men and women can be just friends.

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

I had two really good girl friends, both of which I slept with, but let's put the emphasis on "had". My current girl flipped when she found out I had girls who were my friends, and she doesn't even know I've slept with them. I know how I was with those girls, so I guess this is why I wouldn't want my girl to go with her "friend".

[mcalo4]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
I had two really good girl friends, both of which I slept with, but let's put the emphasis on "had". My current girl flipped when she found out I had girls who were my friends, and she doesn't even know I've slept with them. I know how I was with those girls, so I guess this is why I wouldn't want my girl to go with her "friend".

Just like I said.

[JUICE]

i think guys and girls cant just be friends. I say this because my girlfriend has a best friend guy. I have a best friend girl. Liek they say, all depends on how people are. If shes a good girl and he's a good guy, well no problem. It would have been better if the guy told u in person or gave u a call. For instance, my sister, shes a good person and has billions of guy friends. Doesnt mean shes going out with them or messing around, why cause shes a good person and respects herself.

It just depends on the people. If u trust, u trust. I personally dont trust people, been screwed over before, but if u trust her and the guy thens its kool.