wtf........girl on the weekend

[Puddles]

do you guys think i'm overtraing, since it is such a *cough* small *cough* muscle?

You can never overtrain a small muscle but you can always use a spotter. :bj:

[decadecadeca]

She likes cheap cologne and even cheaper music, she blew a guy she knew for all of 30 minutes. She did you a favor. Run, don't walk.

[DeaDLifteR]

She likes cheap cologne and even cheaper music, she blew a guy she knew for all of 30 minutes. She did you a favor. Run, don't walk.

lets back the bus up a minute

through experience i have found that most girls don't like the smell of strong cologne, they would rather have a guy smell like a fresh shower (Zest soap is great) clean laundry (rainforest liqued Tide is great) or a subtle bodyspray (Axe is great) i mean yesturday i was helping a girl with her work at univ. and she says "god you smell good" and this has happened a lot more than once, so i think i will stick with the Axe.

as far as the "cheaper music" goes, i mean that is like calling someone a moron 'cause they like apples and not oranges, or that they believe in christianity and not buddism, or that they like 90's music abd not 70's music.

it's just a little unfair to judge and base an opinon on someone through their cologne and musical taste.

we've known each for about 5hrs (not a big diff. i know) before we did anything, but why is it that when a guy hooks up with a girl the first night he is known as a stud?, but when a girl hooks up with a guy the first night she is known as a slut (usually)?
women have strong sexual urges just as men do, we were both horny and in the heat of the moment, there was a lot, i mean a lot of kissing and caressing, before we were even at my place, so i'm sure that got her juices flowin.

[POLYDINATOS]

I hear you bro....good luck next date ;)

[Mommie2Hottie]

Just curious, other than the physical stuff, do you like her? Do you have anything else in common besides fitness?

[BBAddict]

Just curious, other than the physical stuff, do you like her? Do you have anything else in common besides fitness?

No, sounds like he likes sex and she doesn't. J/K :P

[DeaDLifteR]

Just curious, other than the physical stuff, do you like her? Do you have anything else in common besides fitness?

funny you mention this as i my ex asked me the same question yesterday.
when she first sat beside me there was an instant attraction, it's really hard to explain but have you ever met someone that you felt like you knew them your whole life?


the convo. flowed very smoothly with no akward silences, we laughed a lot, discussed our history, our goals, likes/dislikes............it was friggen great.

physical attraction to me, is just as important as a girls personality........................she had both.
so yes, i really do like her.........................but here's the thing

a buddy of mine, who i met a year ago, grew up with this girl, and really, really likes her. So with that being said, i think i may not take this any further than it has already gone

[POLYDINATOS]

Bro...what is the game plan going into the next date?

[DeaDLifteR]

Bro...what is the game plan going into the next date?

speedos and a cowboy hat
just so i can show off my bod without seeming too obvious :D

actually i don't have a plan, whatever happens i guess.......but it is my bday this weekend so technically i should recieve some lovin...right?

i'll prolly see her tomorrow or sat.
i'll defenitly keep you guys updated though

[bbb27]

:rofl:

WOW.

Where were her morals when your nuts were slappin her chin?

[Mommie2Hottie]

Deadlifter, first off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

I was on the elliptical today, sweatin, listening to my tunes and George Michaels "I Want Your Sex" came on. I immediatley thought of you and your situation. I couldn't help but laugh out loud.

Best of luck to you this weekend.

[DeaDLifteR]

Deadlifter, first off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

I was on the elliptical today, sweatin, listening to my tunes and George Michaels "I Want Your Sex" came on. I immediatley thought of you and your situation. I couldn't help but laugh out loud.

Best of luck to you this weekend.

thanks for the bday wish............it's actually today (the friend made me a great dinner after the gym), the 20th, but i celebrated it on fri.
even though i already have one, my dad gave me his 58" bigscreen tv......i'm thinkin about puttin that 1 in the bathroom...lol

here's what happened on the weekend
go to my buddies house on the weekend, there's a lot of people there including amy (the girl). there's a lot of people there that i have not seen in awhile, and nobody really knew that me and amy hooked up the previous week except a few people.

So i sit next to amy, and my buddies gf, nicole.
"so dan, are you still sluttin it up" says nicole
oh oh "no" i say
"what about steph?, are you still seeing her?" replies nicole
"ummm, no"
and then i went on like a 15min speech, putting my foot in my mouth at every oppertunity
of couse nicole had no idea that me and amy hooked up, otherwise she wouldn't have said anything, nonetheless i still looked like an idiot.
but i later find out that she was askin about me during the week, she modeled her pj's for me as well.................so i still have a slim chance.

fast foward to the bar at 3am, i end up leaving with 2 girls, who hooked up with couple more friends. so i'm back at their place, myself and 4 girls. while doin shots of tequila, i was sitting between 2 girls, i was makin out with both of them, they were makin out with each other.............and then the room started spining. long story short, i puked in their bathtub, called a cab, went home to bed, and was to sick to go out sat night.

i'm leavin out a lot of details, but that's the jist of it.

[THE SOLDIER]

cool man except the part you barfed

[dreamgirl]

this reminds me why I dated my husband when I was 20 and he was 28 and why i chose not to date guys my same age.

you say you like this girl so much and it's going so well, then you're making out with 2 other girls the next weekend.

[DeaDLifteR]

this reminds me why I dated my husband when I was 20 and he was 28 and why i chose not to date guys my same age.

you say you like this girl so much and it's going so well, then you're making out with 2 other girls the next weekend.

well it's not like we were offical or anything.......and i was really unsure that i wanted to pursue anything with her because a) my buddy likes her a lot and b) i just got out of a 3yr relationship and didn't want to jump back into one.

here's an update for you guys:
she spent the night at my place on tuesday
she was over yesterday (wed) to console me with the passing of my grandma..........which was really sweet of her.

here's the kicker
this is going to seem really strange, but when i find myself really attracted to a girl, and i end up winning her over, i lose my feelings for her..........it's like i want something that i can't have, and when i get it, i don't want it anymore.
how fucked is that.