Help please --- quick

[Knoxville]

I just had a girl write me a text and ask me, "why are you so nice to me?" I'm not trying to get in her pants, been there. I need a goooood answer. She is a nice girl, not a partier, been treated shitty in the past. Doesn't drink, never did a drug in her life..so on.. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Knox

[wnabeabeast]

tell her you are being nice because who she is if she is a nice person you are only telling the truth.

[Knoxville]

hmmm, that's not bad, any other suggestions?

[wnabeabeast]

tell her about the things you have in common and you enjoy her company and she just a cool person the hang out with.

[psyko1]

why have you been so nice to her?
i mean, we can't really help, are you guys just friends? anything more? if not tell her "because she's a cool person, and why shouldn't you be so nice to her." (personally i always try to answer with a question)

[JUICE]

tell her about the things you have in common and you enjoy her company and she just a cool person the hang out with.

:agree:

[Knoxville]

we're dating, not b/f, g/f yet, but soon I hope

[rude]

Tell her your nice because she is different in a good way, the fact that she never did drugs or parties and etc, attracts you to her.

[JUICE]

Tell her your nice because she is different in a good way, the fact that she never did drugs or parties and etc, attracts you to her.

that helps. Thats what i told my girlfriend when i asked her out. She was different form the trest of the girls. I wanted one i can trust and all, compared to all her cant be trusted friends, she was an oddball of her friends.

[beefcake]

Good girls like bad boys, don't come off as too much of a good guy. Don't treat her like shit, but don't be a holy roller and treat her like a queen either.

[shortz]

I am nice to people who are genuine, it's simple.

[Knoxville]

I just told her that I am nice because of who she is and that I really like being around her. She hasn't wrote back, she's on her way to AZ from KS, a long drive, she's riding with a friend to go see some of the friends' friends. Lots of friends in that one. Thanks!

Knox

[beefcake]

I just told her that I am nice because of who she is and that I really like being around her. She hasn't wrote back, she's on her way to AZ from KS, a long drive, she's riding with a friend to go see some of the friends' friends. Lots of friends in that one. Thanks!

Knox

Friends with benefits?

[Stonecold54]

the truth is always easiest.

[psyko1]

we're dating, not b/f, g/f yet, but soon I hope

well then you should've just told her because you like her.

i mean you do. there's no reason to be all lovey dovey but maybe that's what she wanted to hear.