i never felt this before

[rvgfrth4g]

All her girlfriends would tell her how they wish they had a guy like me, good looking, smart, handsome, and treated her well.

There you go! If it doesn't work out with your g/f. Then don't burn the bridge and whatever hot friend she has will be coming your way soon. Her friends won't forget you and if you don't burn the bridge they'll feel sorry for you and they'll be calling. Sorry this info doesn't really help out the immediate situation though.

[hitmansb]

Juice, here are a few things to think about:

Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who couldn't appreciate that you've been struggling to put yourself through school? Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who, by the sounds of what you were telling us (problems starting around the time you couldn't drop tons of cash on her), is a bit of a high-maintenance moneygrubber? You deserve someone who loves you enough to wait for you to finish school before they want the house with the picket fence and all that jazz. Right now, don't even worry about her...to hell with her...and don't worry about meeting someone else right away either. You're finally at school full-time; embrace the experience, and pour your time and energy into really excelling. The rest will take care of itself, as it always does.

[Bouncer]

Your right about me bro. Gotta suck it up and take on things. Thanx for the advice.

and go see the doc will ya.

[beefcake]

Do you know if there's someone else in the picture? Sounds like she's lost interest, but now that there may be someone else, she's gone through with the break up. It sucks, but there's nothing you can do but be strong.

[phatchopper]

and go see the doc will ya.

pick up the phone by the end of the day and make an appointment for yourself, or I'm coming with bouncer to slap your ass around.

[Lmg2701]

I agree with Bouncer's advice 100%. First things first, see a doctor.

After that make you a list of goals and "things you've wanted to do or accomplish in life short term and long term" and do it dammit.

1 Conrinthians 10:13
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

[Cory]

pick up the phone by the end of the day and make an appointment for yourself, or I'm coming with bouncer to slap your ass around.

I'm gonna slap the ass around too!!! :spank:

[rude]

Just let her go bro, you guys have always been at it since the beginning of your relationship. Honestly, it seems like you guys are or were "comfortable" together then actually loving one another. Your young bro, you can get better girls then her anyways.

Also, go see a doc bro

[Puddles]

Hun, I'm sorry you're hurting so much. Losing the person you love is an awful experience. The not wanting to eat and stuff are pretty normal for this kind of situation. However, again I'm suggesting you get some bloodwork done and get into a doctor. The depression you've seemed to be in will only get worse with the recent events and there are meds out there that will help with that.

Huggggggs to ya, hun, you're a sweetheart and someday you'll find a girl who appreciates the real you.

[Gods Son]

Theres nothing i can add to this conversation.except to say ive been there and time will erase it.Use this experiance as motivation...in the gym and in life.

[JUICE]

just to let u guys know, this was my first ever girlfriend. I dated back then but wanted to have fun and not settle down. I finially did till I was 20 years old. Just like they say, maybe it was something in life that had to happen. Not only that but i learn from all this. Shes been through 2 bf's before me. Suposivly I was the one for her, the one who lasted the most with, the one who would make her happy.

[rude]

just to let u guys know, this was my first ever girlfriend. I dated back then but wanted to have fun and not settle down. I finially did till I was 20 years old. Just like they say, maybe it was something in life that had to happen. Not only that but i learn from all this. Shes been through 2 bf's before me. Suposivly I was the one for her, the one who lasted the most with, the one who would make her happy.

Exactly bro, she was your first GF, you havent even experience dating another girl, I bet once you date a new girl you will be like why was I with my ex for so long.

[JUICE]

Exactly bro, she was your first GF, you havent even experience dating another girl, I bet once you date a new girl you will be like why was I with my ex for so long.

your right man. Like they say, if its meant to be, its meant to be, if not well thats how life is.

[hitmansb]

Man, I didn't realize she was your first love. When you look back a few weeks/months down the road, you'll realize that first love is truly blind. You're going to discover all kinds of negative personality traits that she had, and you'll be wondering how the hell you tolerated her for so long. Happened to me...at first, I was hurtin for a few weeks (tho not quite as much as you are prolly, since I was the one who ended it). Looking back a few months later, I was dumbfounded as to why I dated the girl for as long as I did in the first place.

[Shibby]

Man, I didn't realize she was your first love. When you look back a few weeks/months down the road, you'll realize that first love is truly blind. You're going to discover all kinds of negative personality traits that she had, and you'll be wondering how the hell you tolerated her for so long. Happened to me...at first, I was hurtin for a few weeks (tho not quite as much as you are prolly, since I was the one who ended it). Looking back a few months later, I was dumbfounded as to why I dated the girl for as long as I did in the first place.

and for those first loves that don't work out and after you start dating again. You will start to notice that your first love is everything you don't want in a woman.