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5 ways to outperform her battery-operated beauty
Sure, she may have vibrating silicone, but you have a tongue, fingers, and a penis. Here's how to work all your tools to their greatest orgasm-producing potential.
* Give her a thumbs-up. Use your thumb to press on her G-spot, as if you were making a thumbprint on her vaginal wall, says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a sex therapist and the author of She Comes First. (You're shooting for the area about 2 inches inside the vaginal opening, on the front side.) "The G-spot responds to firmer pressure than the clitoris does," says Kerner.
An alternate G-trick: Insert your index finger in a "come-hither" curl position inside her vagina while applying pressure on her pubic bone with your other hand. This dual stimulation heightens sensitivity.
* Hold your tongue. "A flat, still tongue is one of the most underestimated oral-sex techniques," says Kerner. "It's great for inducing orgasm, but it's also a nice breather between strokes." Gently push your tongue into her vulva and let her do the work, setting the pace, pressure, and rhythm.
* Cover the spread. During missionary-position sex, hold her legs close together instead of spreading them apart. That way, "it's much easier for her pelvic muscles to reach a state of involuntary spasm," says Kerner.
* Join forces. Incorporating a vibrator into your hookup sessions is the kind of threesome she'll be into--plus, it makes your job easier. While entering her from behind, stimulate her clitoris with a small vibe like the Pocket Rocket.
* Or just leave her alone. Embrace a lady's love of toys; they can improve your shared sex life. "Women who masturbate know their bodies, and they're often able to reach orgasm with a partner more easily than those who don't," says Diana Wiley, Ph.D., a Los Angeles- based sexologist. And nothing makes a man a better lover than his dedication to a woman's pleasure, by whatever means necessary. What the heck, maybe she'll let you watch.
Sure, she may have vibrating silicone, but you have a tongue, fingers, and a penis. Here's how to work all your tools to their greatest orgasm-producing potential.
* Give her a thumbs-up. Use your thumb to press on her G-spot, as if you were making a thumbprint on her vaginal wall, says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a sex therapist and the author of She Comes First. (You're shooting for the area about 2 inches inside the vaginal opening, on the front side.) "The G-spot responds to firmer pressure than the clitoris does," says Kerner.
An alternate G-trick: Insert your index finger in a "come-hither" curl position inside her vagina while applying pressure on her pubic bone with your other hand. This dual stimulation heightens sensitivity.
* Hold your tongue. "A flat, still tongue is one of the most underestimated oral-sex techniques," says Kerner. "It's great for inducing orgasm, but it's also a nice breather between strokes." Gently push your tongue into her vulva and let her do the work, setting the pace, pressure, and rhythm.
* Cover the spread. During missionary-position sex, hold her legs close together instead of spreading them apart. That way, "it's much easier for her pelvic muscles to reach a state of involuntary spasm," says Kerner.
* Join forces. Incorporating a vibrator into your hookup sessions is the kind of threesome she'll be into--plus, it makes your job easier. While entering her from behind, stimulate her clitoris with a small vibe like the Pocket Rocket.
* Or just leave her alone. Embrace a lady's love of toys; they can improve your shared sex life. "Women who masturbate know their bodies, and they're often able to reach orgasm with a partner more easily than those who don't," says Diana Wiley, Ph.D., a Los Angeles- based sexologist. And nothing makes a man a better lover than his dedication to a woman's pleasure, by whatever means necessary. What the heck, maybe she'll let you watch.
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