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  • Inspirational story - How I Met My Wife

    I met my wife on Aug. 4th, 2001 in the strangest of settings. A setting that not too many of us will ever encounter, and hopefully never encounter. I was diagnosed with brain cancer back in June of 2001, so that was a time of my life where, well lets just say, I wasn't too upbeat. I basically hid from everyone who tried to be there for me, including my parents and friends. I guess I was in a position to where I didn't feel the need for any special attention, even though I probably needed it. My thing was, why did I have to become extremely ill for people to really show that they cared about me? Anyways, once my treatments were established and the protocol began, the oncology center that I was attending in the DFW area become a second home to me. During my first few visits to this facility, I met a really nice girl who was extremely attractive. She was working an intern position as a radiation therapist assistant and I got to know her pretty quickly, being the fact that I made frequent trips to this facility. This girl finally showed a different side of herself one day and got personal with me. She asked me where my family was, why aren't they here, and stuff like that. I told her that my relationship with my parents wasn't that good and it was mostly my fault. She was very receptive to me during this time, and she basically came out and said, "If you need a support figure, then I'll be that person for you". I'm not sure what I was more excited about...... the fact that this girl was going to play a support role for me during this tough time or the fact that she was hot and maybe had an interest in me. You have to understand that I looked like the main character in the movie "Powder" at the time she presented this to me.

    So she and I became really good friends, really quickly. She was coming over to my house at night and hanging out with me. She watched me through the yuckiest of times, as I'd often spend my nights by the toilet anticipating a long round of puking that could last hours on end. But for whatever reason, it didn't phase her. I finally had to tell myself that this girl is here for more reasons than one, and I was able to confirm it a few nights later. I had fallen asleep in my bed one night and I woke up to find her asleep on my couch. I grabbed some blankets and covered her up, and then made my way back to bed. I woke up the next morning with her asleep at my side. Oh what a great feeling this was. She had class that next morning and she purposely missed her first two classes to make sure that I had everything that I needed for the day. This meant so much to me, and I still thank her to this day.

    I was finally overcame my cancer on Aug. 14th, 2002 and she was right by my side in celebration. That day was special for more than one reason. I proposed to her that day and she said "YES" with no hesitation. She had seen me at the lowest point in my life, and said that I was a stronger than most are who are 100% healthy. She had been there to support me through 5 months of chemo, 2 abrasive surgeries, and everything else associated with cancer. I knew that she was the one the day that she asked me about my parents in the oncology center.

    So we got married in the Spring of 2003. Had a nice wedding and a very memorable honeymoon. We delayed our honeymoon a few months after we got married and decided that we would go after the oncologist had officially labeled me as having a successful one year remission period. It made the honeymoon that much better for the both of us!

    Attached are some pictures for you guys. Yes, she is attractive, but she's even hotter on the inside! I'll start another thread here soon and go into more detail about my cancer treatments. I've got some good stories to share.

    David
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  • #2
    It's a rare thing to find someone in this world who is as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside. I feel my wife is one of those people, sounds like yours is too. That's a great story. Congrats all the way round.

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    • #3
      What a beautiful story and a beautiful woman, inside and out. You must be something special yourself too though. Best wishes for a continued healthy future for both of you.

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      • #4
        Wow bro, that is one great lady you have there, not to mention that she is beautiful as well... I hope things continue to get better for you in life and its awesome to see you beat cancer...


        PD

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        • #5
          wow, that is a great story congrats on beating the cancer and finding a beautiful woman like that in the process.

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          • #6
            great story bro. all my best to the both of you.

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            • #7
              Thanks for posting the story. I noticed you were getting treatment in DFW. Are you still in the area, I myslef grew up in the Dallas area.

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              • #8
                Damn bro you are one lucky guy! To be able to make it through that and have someone stick with you the whole time that barely knew you at first. Best of luck in the future.

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                • #9
                  Shibby,

                  I have lived in Dallas all of my life. I currently live in a house that my wife and I just had built in Frisco about three months ago. Went to high school in Allen and graduated from college at SMU. It's funny in that I always told myself when I was a kid that I would not live in a town like Frisco. But look at it today! You don't have to leave the town to do everything that you want. I love it here in Frisco. My wife was kind enough to let me build a gym in our house so I have everything that I need. I'll have to post some pictures of my home gym soon.

                  David

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                  • #10
                    Wow, what an awsome story. And you have a rare find with your wife she's, gorgious! I rarely say this (even about pretty girls) but she could do some modeling ya know...

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                    • #11
                      wow inspiring story bro. best wishes to you and your wife

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                      • #12
                        I appreciate the kind words from you all. As far as the modeling suggestion goes, I don't think my wife would even slightly entertain that idea. She's a kindergarten teacher and I don't think that's the image that she wants to uphold. I'm just glad that she refuses to teach kids beyond elementary school. Can you imagine having my wife as your 12th grade English teacher back when you were in high school? I'd have to be her classroom assistance and I'd be packing if you know what I'm saying. Don't even want to think about that.....

                        Besides, my wife is one of those girls who doesn't think she's hot by any means. She's the most non-material girl that I've ever met and would rather help me with the lawn than shop with her friends.

                        David

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                        • #13
                          So I guess this means you don't have any sexy pictures of her huh? lol Sorry, this cycle is killing me.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by dl1874
                            Shibby,

                            I have lived in Dallas all of my life. I currently live in a house that my wife and I just had built in Frisco about three months ago. Went to high school in Allen and graduated from college at SMU. It's funny in that I always told myself when I was a kid that I would not live in a town like Frisco. But look at it today! You don't have to leave the town to do everything that you want. I love it here in Frisco. My wife was kind enough to let me build a gym in our house so I have everything that I need. I'll have to post some pictures of my home gym soon.

                            David

                            Wow, SMU very nice. My girlfriend plays basketball for the college and is an academic girl. It would be awsome if she could get a scholarship there next year. I know what your saying about Frisco, I live in a small town myself and don't care for it. But then again Frisco is so much different now compared to when you were probably a kid. Frisco back then was more like Wiley or Farmersville is still. Allthough I could be wrong on that since it's been about 4 years since I lived in the area.

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                            • #15
                              great story bro and u got a beautiful wife. best of luck to u two !

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