she wants 2 guys

[Goosteady]

If the 'ro can get past the imposed guilt or decades of negative reinforcement of a guy never, EVER touching another guy, orgasms can be mind-blowing, just like many times with my ex-fiancee. Of course, many of you guys will feel the absolute need to respond to this with sincere, loud and vigorous denials that it would never happen and all that, just to make sure that all your friends and family know that you do, indeed, like vagina. That's OK -- it's what you've been taught to do.

Here is my loud and vigorous denial. Ewwwwww!

[powerhouse 48]

FUck that bro, thats a whole different ball game that you shouldnt even consider playing.

[beefcake]

I don't ever remember being taught to like vagina. I don't care how horny I am, playing with cock ain't gonna get me off. I have nothing against homosexuals, just stating you either are or you aren't. :playboy:

[pecster]

Goossteady, denial duly noted!

Beefcake, THANK YOU! You've said exactly what I've been stating all my (out) life. When I hear the charge that gays and lesbians have (consciously) made a choice to be attracted to their own gender, I always fire back with the question: Were YOU (as a het) given that choice, to choose what your sexuality would be? Of course not. No one is. Like you said, you either are or you aren't.

But what I meant by being taught, in our society, guys are firmly and (often) aggressively and viciously taught (by word or deed, by peer, authoritative, or parental pressure) to fervently deny ANY male-male relationship or response of any kind other than, say, as a friend (or a parental one). I'm not saying it's wrong. It IS, however, unfortunate when your average straight guy can't even bring himself to admit to finding another truly good-looking guy to be handsome or built (but, this being a bodybuilding forum, the whole concept of guys, however unabashedly breedery they are, watching other scantily clad men bulge, sweat and pump away is, to say the least, confusing and ambiguous to some).

You see, just the simple, uncomplicated STATING of the fact that a man is blessed with an attractive body or face is suspect in a society like that (ours), unless a man is possessed of an unusually strong and secure sense of self worth. That's why, when powerhouse 48 states right out "that you shouldn't even consider playing" the MM or MMF game is, I feel, wildly unfair to someone who MAY be considering even tentatively admitting to being curious. "Curious" does not mean "gay", or even bisexual. For me, when someone flat out bashes you for something like curiosity of this sort without having ever tried it themselves to see for sure, it's a gross malignment. I, for one, CAN say I've been in both worlds, what with my early dalliance with hetsex. It was good, sure, in the way that masturbation is cool; but it's not sex with someone who truly does it for you (male or female), and blows your head off (yeah, I meant it that way).

I say let the experimentation begin!

PS -- Puddles, I think I love you (but not in that way)!

[Taylor]

i've never had a threesome because i'm far too jealous of a guy...i'd probably go insane on the spot

however, if i was to have a MMF threesome I would probably prefer my girl choose a guy at a club or something like that rather then someone we're friends with
allowing one of your friends to have sex with your girl is probably not the best of ideas...go with a stranger

maybe some would say that's bad advice, but i THINK that's what i would probably do if i had to

[DallasCowboy]

fog hat whats your deal. anytime u get a chance you fire back at me about something. Did i do something to you in a past lifetime or something? BTW Georgia SUCKS.

[coffee-guy]

fog hat whats your deal. anytime u get a chance you fire back at me about something. Did i do something to you in a past lifetime or something? BTW Georgia SUCKS.

I think your posts speak for themselves...
:hmmm:

[pecster]

OK, Dallas -- any updates?

[Taylor]

georgia and dallas suck

its all about north carolina

[coachchannell]

I have a totally different opinion and one that makes a whole lot more sense in real world relationships. I find it hard to believe that the average woman out there is sincerely interested in sharing her man with another woman or man. We have all seen what happens when two women that both think they are their guys only lover only to find out otherwise (cat fight in the worst way). But, I do think that most women would talk to their guy about a threesome even though they are not really interested. Hint: Your girl is TESTING you. She does not want a threesome - that is a man's fantasy. The woman's fantasy is to find a man that loves here beyond comparison. A man that is truely interested in her. A man that talks to her and truely understands her. Her fantasy began when she was much too young to even know what sex is. Her fantasy is about true love. Your girl really wants to hear you say that she satisfies all your desires and needs and that your love for her is immeasureable and will never be tarnished.

:bravonew:

[Taylor]

I find it hard to believe that the average woman out there is sincerely interested in sharing her man with another woman or man.

its all based on the individual....look at porn stars, many are married, but the sex is like sport its like us going to the gym and playing basketball theres no love involved

I PERSONALLY don't look at sex that way, or if the girl i was with went out and had sex for sport i definetly wouldn't approve but lots of people view it like that

loving sex and lustful sex are different

i personally find kissing more intimate then anything, kissing probably 99.9% of the time comes before sex

i dont know, im rambling fact is if the girl i was with was kissing or fucking another man i would be pissed to the highest extreme imaginable

but some people just don't get jealous, i do

[num1son]

This post sux I want 2 girls... end of story

K

[Puddles]

It's based on the two individuals and their relationship and on the third person.

Stromba and I love eachother. The fact that we enjoy being intimate with another girl together does not change the love we have for one another. The relationship we have with another girl is not nearly as intense but there is a caring for our friends that is a different kind of love. When our friends are sick or in need of something or down, we try to help them out and take care of them, just as we would any other good friend. The only difference with these friends vs. other friends is that we like to get naked together and explore eachother's bodies, giving one another pleasure that normally exceeds the normal boundries of friendship. Sometimes it's passionate, sometimes it's erotic, sometimes it's totally freaky, sometimes it's just horny fucking for hours on end.

I don't think every relationship can handle this though. Go with your gut instincts.

IMO, for a 3-some to work really well, two of the people involved should be bi, that cuts out most if not all of the jealousy factor. In our case I'm bi and hubby's straight, so for either of us, being with another girl (who's also bi) is natural and we give and take equal amounts of pleasure and attention being with another girl. If I was straight and the girl was straight, then it would be more of a competition thing and I wouldn't have fun. When the 2 girls are bi they are attracted to one another just like they are to the guy so it all flows very well. I imagine it's the same if there are 2 bi guys with one girl, everyone is getting a taste of what they like.

[DumbDude]

it might seem like a good idea for now... but if i saw my girlfriend sucking another guys cock... instinct would kick in and someone would die. :)

[fractious]

ur girl wants another mans cock, that sucks dude.... but you got some other girls pussy so as they say -- all's fair in love and war!!

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